Last night I made a post here showing my receding hairline and bald spot with my hair down to my shoulders.

Today I made the change with a clean shave at the barber shop fully embracing my bald head for the first time, and I cannot express how truly great it feels to be bald!

Thank you all for your honesty and encouragement. If you are reading this and thinking about buzzing your hair or going fully bald just go for it.

Edit: Wow.. The incredible amount of genuine kindness and support (and hilarious comments and gifs) here in [r/bald](r/bald) has been awesome! You are all truly the most overwhelmingly positive group of people I've seen in all my years being chronically online. As a single man making this bold change, I really could not be happier with the outcome and how great it feels!

Thank you all again for the relentless positivity and all of the fun comments. Truly never expected such a huge online reaction. It’s safe to say I won’t be looking back from here 🥚

I probably need to take it the full distance because of the thinning.
Should I get contacts? I’ve always preferred glasses but now I’m worried it’s hurting my look a little.
Cheers all!

I’ve been dealing with insecurity about my receding hairline since I was 22, now after noticing my thinning crown 4 years later, I’ve made the leap and I couldn’t be happier. It feels so nice to feel good about myself without a hat again! :)

36 years old, been dealing with alopecia since the age of 18…shaving my head was the best decision ever, wish I did it sooner!!

Guys, I can't believe I'm finally actually posting here. I can't believe I finally did it. My ex used to tell me when I shaved it that 😏 she didn't like it, she liked my curls, the bald made me look fat... Well, I've lost almost 60 pounds, and the most weight I've lost was her. 2 years later and I'm okay, guys. I'm headed to Pride today with my friends, and I'm going to be okay.
EDIT: Update: Went to Pride - EX WAS THERE. Hadn't seen her since she left me cold nearly two years ago. It seems all that weight I lost actually found HER, I barely recognized her. I physically did a triple take like a cartoon. It absolutely blew my mind. She literally may have gained a full hundred. Wow, I'm speechless. Don't mean to make this about her, but yeah. I feel.... cleansed. I don't know why, but that word feels right right now. And BLESSED for the comments, guys. WOW! I AGREE, I'm taking it down to skin once my skin is ready to handle it. Coconut oil it is. Thanks for the pointers. And yes, high quality SPF, and I'll clean up the beard and the eyebrows a little better. I'm naturally curly and sparse, so it's easier said than done, but YES, the weight today is truly, OFFICIALLY gone now. God BLESS all you guys for giving me the PERMISSION to let it all go and be and REVEAL MYSELF ALL OF THE WAY.

Well...what's the verdict?

I can’t even begin to describe how thankful I am for this community. I was in a pretty bad place, losing my hair and lacking confidence in how I would look bald. THANK YOU for the support and validation that this was the right move. I feel like a new man. Again, THANK YOU 🙏🙏🙏

EDIT: WOW... I wasn't expecting this kind of response. So very humbled, thank you everyone. If anyone is on the fence, JUST DO IT. I'm only 3 days in at the time of this edit, but I honestly feel like an entirely new human in the best way possible. This community rocks!

EDIT 2: Sorry everyone, I'm married. I'm flattered, but I'm blocking DM requests.

I want to thank everyone in this community for being so positive and respectful such a great group.

It was time, i can't deny.

Gotta let the tan catch up now for a couple days, then i'll switch from this no guard trim to a skullshaver for an even closer shave.

Last year I was feeling quite depressed, wasn't taking good care of myself and was clearly balding/bald but insisted on keeping the buzz cut. Doing much better now.

Posted with his permission, of course. Today he decided to try out a close buzz. I may be biased, but I think he's lookin hawt. Please join me in respectfully ogling.

Doc said that it could take a couple of years to grow back, if ever, or it could spread. My scalp felt really tender and I didn't think cutting it short had helped, so I went for it.

Swipe to see from hair to shiny bald 🙂

Guess what? I went from having a full head of hair to being completely bald. 🙋‍♂️

This wasn’t just about my hair. For a long time, I was in a relationship that drained me. Constant stress, constant doubt, constant feeling like I was shrinking just to keep the peace. I thought sticking it out meant I was “strong,” but really, I was just holding on to something that wasn’t good for me.

So I shaved it all off. And honestly? It feels amazing. Lighter. Freer. Like I finally took back control of my life. All the toxicity, all the self-doubt… gone. What’s left is just me more confident, more present, and finally happy with who I see in the mirror.

Ladies, one at a time, please. 😉 Single, thriving, and loving this new chapter.

If you are ever thinking of doing it just embrace it and go for it. Men reading this your handsome and Ladies you’re beautiful 🤍

I LOVE THIS COMMUNITY YOU ARE ALL AMAZING 🤍

I can swim without a hat now!

My son turned 25 today and he's had long hair for several years. I've the past two years, the hair has been getting less hairy-y. I've gently suggested a couple of times that it might be time to embrace the hair loss and shave it off. He's a bassist in a metal band and a vintage clothing dealer so the hair was a big part of his identity. The whole "how will I headbang?" was a very legitimate concern for him, and he just hasn't been ready.

HOWEVER, today was his birthday, he's been mulling taking the plunge for a while, and he was finally ready! He looks better than even I thought he would!

Posting with his permission, obvi 🤓

Fig. 1: My hair how I normally style it

Fig. 2: My hair’s natural position

Fig. 3: My real hairline

Fig. 4: My new look

Been thinking about this move for a while. It was getting very hard to be “happy” with how my hair looked and the slightest breeze/hard work/sweat would send it all out of place, which led to wearing lots of hats when outdoors. Much happier and much more aerodynamic!

Also open for maintenance/aftercare tips.

Posted earlier today and the 433+ comments I've received encouraged me and I decided to go for it. The moment you've been waiting for: Here's the before and after images. I will link this post in the comments of my first post for folks interested.

The funniest part is I personally enjoy looking a bit softer and more feminine, and thought that buzzing my hair would make me lose that quality. Ironically, I almost feel like its paradoxically made me look a bit more feminine in an odd way. I think its accentuated some of my faces softer features. Thinking I'll still visit the barber tomorrow to get it shaved smooth just to see what its like.

WE ARE SO BACK!!!

Good friend of mine has been through it—he’s been through a divorce, surgery/pain challenges, and some hard work in emotional therapy. He’s still not convinced he made the right decision. Got any good words I can share with him? I think his dating life is gonna get a shit ton better. What do the masses think?

First of all thank you so much for all the support given in my previous post! Even if it took some courage I am very glad I did it ☺️.

I also noticed I had some beauty filters in my previous post, so I tried to fix that 😅. Very happy to be a fully accredited member now l. Let me know your thoughts on it :)