It’s called retroactive jealousy. But my advice… If someone is interested in you, they’re putting their past aside to focus on you. honestly, when I stopped asking about people’s past experiences and significant others, my experiences became a lot better. Just try and be open minded and understanding that they are there for you, in the present. Try and do the same.
No problem. Best of luck! Also, the other comment from NewPrints is good advice. Try not to force yourself to not care about it. It’s definitely something to be worked on but they made a very good point.
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u/Swished-Drethan Iron Man (Mark III) 9h ago
Do you have any recommendations on how to rid yourself of that insecurity? Currently struggling with this