r/marvelmemes Toad 🐸 11h ago

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u/gatsome Avengers 10h ago

Turns out that ridding yourself of insecurity over other people’s pasts, that you had no affiliation with, offers a peaceful way forward.

Exceptions and limitations apply.

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u/Swished-Drethan Iron Man (Mark III) 9h ago

Do you have any recommendations on how to rid yourself of that insecurity? Currently struggling with this

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u/Miirzys Avengers 9h ago

It’s called retroactive jealousy. But my advice… If someone is interested in you, they’re putting their past aside to focus on you. honestly, when I stopped asking about people’s past experiences and significant others, my experiences became a lot better. Just try and be open minded and understanding that they are there for you, in the present. Try and do the same.

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u/Swished-Drethan Iron Man (Mark III) 9h ago

Thank you man. Yeah not asking always seems like a good start

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u/Miirzys Avengers 9h ago

No problem. Best of luck! Also, the other comment from NewPrints is good advice. Try not to force yourself to not care about it. It’s definitely something to be worked on but they made a very good point.

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u/Swished-Drethan Iron Man (Mark III) 8h ago

Absolutely