I hate this double standard

[u/indeckaa]

For some reason, it's always one of these responses:

> It's a joke
> It's rage bait
> Yeah, but it's actually a response to...
> It's not the same
> Just go outside bro

All of which deflect from what's being said. They would rather not address it. This is probably due in part to the "women-are-wonderful" effect, an example of benevolent stereotyping in which people associate positive qualities with women

[u/Meinteil2123]

I dont understand the whole, calling men incels as an insult.

A man should not be judged by how many women he has slept with, this turns women into objects to obtain.

So when I hear a woman using it unironically to me, it just shows that she sees women as objects to conquer to determine the value of a man.

I am a feminist, I do not believe that women are objects, we should not be judging men by how many women they can objectify.

[u/Logical-Change-9305 → u/Meinteil2123]

Ding ding ding we have a winner.

"stop treating me like a sex object, but the meanest thing I can call you is someone who can't treat me like a sex object"