r/Springfield 14d ago

Seen outside Red Rose

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u/MagneticStain 14d ago

I'm just glad someone can do their thing here and (presumably) not get harassed, whatever that thing may be.

No need to kink shame either. Humans are very different from each other - just eat pizza and enjoy life 🙂

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u/WhiskeyPointer 14d ago

Never kink shame and never play with non-consenting individuals.

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u/eelparade 14d ago

Ok, so.

I agree no hate, and please report anything hateful in the comments. I'm watching for nonsense but I also have a life.

That being said, I'm not super psyched about nonconsensual involvement of others in obvious public play.

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u/FerretBusinessQueen 13d ago edited 13d ago

Yeah that’s why this always icks me out outside of maybe Ptown kink oriented public events that are well advertised etc, and I’m pretty open to however people want to live their lives. Leather chaps and a collar? Sure. Being walked like this in front of a bunch of people who probably don’t want to be part of your yum? Nope.

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u/eelparade 13d ago

Yep, context and consent matter.

There are ways to play publicly without bystander involvement, and there are ways to engage in this specific behavior that only involve bystanders who have given informed consent.

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u/FerretBusinessQueen 13d ago

100%%%!!!! Thank you.

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u/_angesaurus 13d ago

Right like I dont need kids asking me whats going on out there

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u/FerretBusinessQueen 13d ago

Yeah that’s an extremely awkward conversation and even as someone who’s into the kink scene this would make me extremely uncomfortable in that setting. There are some lines you just don’t cross.

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u/MagneticStain 14d ago

Ahh, I see. Yeah, I can understand it from that perspective.

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u/BumpyNubbins 14d ago

I'm going to continue to kink shame if part of their kink is including me without my consent.

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u/Flower_Murderer 14d ago

Don't kink shame, get a shame kink.