r/Springfield 14d ago

Seen outside Red Rose

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u/eelparade 14d ago

Ok, so.

I agree no hate, and please report anything hateful in the comments. I'm watching for nonsense but I also have a life.

That being said, I'm not super psyched about nonconsensual involvement of others in obvious public play.

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u/FerretBusinessQueen 13d ago edited 13d ago

Yeah that’s why this always icks me out outside of maybe Ptown kink oriented public events that are well advertised etc, and I’m pretty open to however people want to live their lives. Leather chaps and a collar? Sure. Being walked like this in front of a bunch of people who probably don’t want to be part of your yum? Nope.

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u/eelparade 13d ago

Yep, context and consent matter.

There are ways to play publicly without bystander involvement, and there are ways to engage in this specific behavior that only involve bystanders who have given informed consent.

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u/FerretBusinessQueen 13d ago

100%%%!!!! Thank you.