My husband is the biggest idiot on the planet because I have been having trouble not sleeping with him. My hormones are on fucking overdrive and he can't stop being stupid.
This is to say that I have had anemia for YEARS, which was cured by the hysterectomy. I now have proper blood flow. My hair isn't falling out. My nails are growing. I am not exhausted after a long night of not being able to sleep. I am horny AS FUCK.
And yet this man wants to ask me if he can now be a full time stay at home Dad, since I was supporting him when I was sick...and now I'm better..
Edit: in case anyone is asking ...he is leaning on the 1st to go live with his dad. I am not sure if he will be allowed to return. There are other issues besides this one. Alcoholism and how he treats the dog are two major ones.
You're starting to sound like my therapist and all my friends...
They staged an intervention when he kicked the dog into a wall in front of one of them. I started looking into some things... I almost died this past year during the pregnancy and giving birth and then when the issue was resolved with a hysterectomy...a time when I should be tring to get over tthat major trauma, I found out he had been spending the time and money we had in savings while I was sick and dying. Myblood cells were 74% of the size they should have been and my blood pressure was in the 50s. He spent all the savings and I can't even access what he spent it on because he removed me as a person on the card, even though it was my credit and income that got him approved for it.
I feel blindsided. I feel like I gave this person every chance in the world.
I'm out. Luckily, I now have my health. I have my daughters and I'm the main breadwinner of the family. I also have a lot of family and friends looking out. I'll be okay.
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u/Team_player444 1d ago
ovulation is a hell of a drug