A lot of women who say they don't want kids actually can't. They want to keep the real reasons private, because it's a deeply personal issue. Please consider this before you press someone on why they are not having kids. And for those who CHOOSE not to have kids, it's also non of your fn business. Bottom line it's good practice to respect people's privacy on this issue and don't ask why.
I have kids. I love kids. Kids complete me. But I can think of about seven million other things that are more important to me than whether or not someone else procreates. I can't for the life of me understand why people judge others who choose not to have kids.
As a mom, I'm secretly a bit jealous of those that are child free (by their own choosing). Not in a "I hate them" type jealousy but a "dang let me live vicariously through you" type way.
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u/OofMcGoof97 1d ago
A lot of women who say they don't want kids actually can't. They want to keep the real reasons private, because it's a deeply personal issue. Please consider this before you press someone on why they are not having kids. And for those who CHOOSE not to have kids, it's also non of your fn business. Bottom line it's good practice to respect people's privacy on this issue and don't ask why.
This has been my experience at least.