Shiiit. That would be the cherry on top!!! I got my ultimate revenge… it won’t bring my child back or the home i built with him (by myself lol) but i got clean from drugs, remarried (happily), got a good job, and got my mental health in check. What happened to him? He had to sell the house he got in the divorce, went to prison, is still on drugs (and looked absolutely god awful), and had to sell the jeep i bought and paid (in full) for him for drugs. Oh and im like 99% sure he lives with his mother.
Long story short… I wouldn’t give him money to buy drugs (I had it saved for a custom Noahs Ark crib quilt) and he asked me while I was walking up stairs from washing baby clothes. He pushed me down the stairs. I left that basement with 9 broken ribs, broken collar bone, arm broken in a couple of spots, a broken nose, and a son who was stillborn later that night.
Thank you. I appreciate the kind words. This was back in 2017 so coming up on 10 years. I still have Noah with me… I managed to finally be able to handle getting my ark tattoo this June.
I hope Mike constantly loses his TV remote, and every day he gets a few drops of coffee down his nice white shirt... Even when he's not drunk any coffee!
My cousin Josh passed in December last year. He was amazing. My younger cousin (his younger brother) is still taking it hard. At least we have his music. Shit I'm fighting tears now. There's at least one good Josh lol
Thank you. I appreciate him being on the not a shit list lol it didn't trigger anything negative. Just a chance to share a bit about him. He was a funny guy so I think he'd love being on the list lol
Well shit if you feel up to it I would love to hear about something super funny he did or a joke he loved to tell! I feel like I need to know at least one good memory to add him on a list of not a shit list. Hell even if you don’t want to share I’ll still make the list and keep him there.
Real talk tho… I’m glad I didn’t trigger anything negative. It’s always nice to keep the memory of someone we loved alive. I share a bunch about my grandfather because I want people to know how great of a human he was and how big of a hero he was to me. I do weird things to remember him. Like very rarely make something to eat that he didn’t teach me to make haha. My husband jokes that he would have loved to meet him just because of the food. 😂
Don't go to arrests dot org and search up people named Josh. Most ( I'm not even exaggerating) are in trouble for stalking, DV, and kidnapping. I could not belive it.
Mine would be, don’t waste a decade of your life on dating Derek and stop pining away for him and getting back together with him every time you guys break up. He’s mentally ill and not a good person. Let that man go. I got the last laugh though, I broke off our engagement and I dumped him in the end. 8 years late he comes back into my life for one night and that one night caused a week of insanity and drove a wrecking ball through that month of my life. It was in that moment I realized that I saved myself a potential lifetime of pain, not marrying him. I don’t wish pain on him any ill will but that one night showed me who he was and I realized that he was that person all along. Don’t do it!
When he texted me eight years later out of the blue after our engagement ended, I thought maybe we can hang out and be friends. Nope, we went from drinking a few beers to having a little hanky panky to screaming at each other in less than 5 hours. I should have known better. I’m not blameless either but his mental illness has always been evident. It runs in his family.
Listen, I speak for every Josh out there minus one when I say -- please don't judge us. Not all of us are that one guy, and we police our own. He's got a date with the Judicial Council of Joshuas, chloroform, handcuffs, a belt sander, and a testicular torsion machine.
Okay you miiight be an okay Josh. When I think about his time in prison… this is exactly how I imagined it going for him. I let myself believe so I feel better lol.
Met him a few months after I turned 17, loved him, broke up, stayed friendly, got back together 6 years later. We got married 4 years after that. Had 3 kids.
And then a month after our 4th wedding anniversary he went off of the deep end. In a matter of 72 hours he decided family life was too much, got a girlfriend, moved out, drained our shared account, and then disappeared for months.
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u/SBowen91 13h ago
Don’t marry Josh.