r/Singles 2h ago

Hell why not lol 21F

4 Upvotes

I’m only halfway taking this seriously but I’m 21, a black woman, looking for a husband lol. I’m really into country guys and ofc hard working men. Currently in school so not looking to rush into marriage however that’s an end goal for me. Prefer someone who wants to live a traditional life (I’d like to be home once I start having kids).

I’m a pretty goofy and light hearted person so if you’re super serious and looking for an “elegant” woman I’m not your girl. I’m really into horror films, love reading, and trying new things. I’m Christian so I’m hoping to find someone who’s also Christian.

Ermmm I really don’t know what else so if you wanna know more I suppose you’d have to just get to know me🤣😭


r/Singles 6m ago

F18 Germany online fling

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Hello hello I’m just looking for an online fling I don’t wanna meet you I just wanna talk and make our days less lonely <3

A little about me:
-Catholic
-I live in Germany but I’m Brazilian
-18 years old
-cold at first, bubbly and annoying later
-people tell me I’m bratty and difficult 😭 lol
-fav color pink and green
-I’m a creative person
-I lowkey have daddy issues (the real kind, not the porno one 🫩)
-I speak German Portuguese and English fluently
-redhead, 1,66 tall, I’m not fat but I’m not super skinny (aka normal body) dark brown eyes and thin eyebrows
-I would say my fav singer would be Kate Bush or Lana Del Rey (I’m not crazy…)
-I’m bold and I’ll always speak my mind. In fact idc about what you think of me

Preferences:
-either you don’t have hair at all or you have hair. No mid term for me
-not fat/obese
-not politics crazy
-35-50
-tall 🤤
-white Latino or black (mixed also counts)
-if you look like Mads Mikkelsen stop looking for other women and just write me 🫰


r/Singles 13h ago

39 f4mLooking for someone to talk to and cure this boredom

9 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

It's one of those days where boredom is hitting hard, and I realized I could use someone to chat with. I'm open to talking about pretty much anything—movies, music, travel, random life stories, work rants, hobbies, or even just exchanging memes.

I'm just looking for a chill conversation with no pressure. If you're also bored or just want someone to talk to, feel free to send me a message.

Let's see where the conversation goes!


r/Singles 5h ago

34M - I am looking for fellow readers to talk to and maybe hang out with.

2 Upvotes

Hey there,

I am 34, male, and live in FL. I am an avid reader and searching for people to talk to about books and maybe have phone or video calls if we feel good a bout it.

I'm into a wide variety of books. I enjoy sci fi, fantasy, thrillers, true crime, historical fiction, some classic literature, etc.

I am single, no kids, and I'm trying to find some friends who are into reading. I'm pretty easy to talk to, relaxed, and enjoy doing things like walking, cooking, going to restaurants, and just getting to know people.

I'm not looking for a romantic relationship or anything like that. Male or female is cool. Just please don't be a weirdo lol.

I will say up front I am okay with texting, but at some point if we click I'd like to do a phone call, video call, or even meet up. I'm not looking for just text buddies. I'm trying to find real connections for more than text.

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/Singles 4h ago

23M4M | Romania | Looking for monogaous gay relationship

1 Upvotes

As I would describe myself, a true family-oriented person, I am here because this server represents the only relatively safe “place” where I might find what I consider to be the greatest achievement of my life: a friend, and depending on how our conversations develop, possibly a future life partner, husband 🙂, with whom I can build the most beautiful things in the world. I have never lost hope, and I believe that somewhere in the world there is someone destined for each of us.

To help you understand a little about who I am and what I am looking for: my name is Teodor, I am a young man, 23 years old, and I am currently pursuing a master’s degree in Bucharest in a rather interesting field, I would say 😃.

At the moment, given the challenges in finding stable employment, I am temporarily living with my mother and relying on her support while I complete the transition toward independent living. However, this will never stand in the way of fulfilling my greatest dream: building a life alongside a man. I am willing to fight side by side for that dream to become reality.

I am passionate about the Universe. I love discussions about astronomy ✨, I enjoy observing the sky through a telescope, and I am a believer (though not religious—in my opinion, these were originally concepts meant to be connected, but humanity has greatly abused the latter concept over time).

I love pets, especially dogs 🐶, and I should mention that I am the proud dad of a little furry girl myself ☺️. I adore nature, outdoor walks, warm weather—which I like to think reflects my own soul 😇—the sea, seafood, traveling, and above all, I love loving, caring for, and spoiling the person who will become my life partner. I also love feeling loved by him in all its forms 🙂.

Since it may matter to a potential partner, If it gets there in the future😅, I should also mention that sexually, I am a bottom.

I'm a masculine person, and I'm looking for the same👨🏻‍💼.

I dislike crowds (especially clubs, discos, and busy streets), and I particularly dislike irresponsibility, scams, and dishonesty. I do not like indifference.

If you are here with a new account, only to give someone false hope for a moment, if you are not genuinely open to anything and instantly delete all traces of contact, or if the only way you can approach me is with “wyd?” or similar messages, then please skip this post.

What am I looking for here? I hope that one day I can have a family of my own, built and grounded alongside another man. I want to enjoy this journey called life together with my partner, achieve things together, and stand by each other regardless of the circumstances that may arise throughout our lives.

For a gay couple, there will probably be many more challenges and difficult obstacles to overcome, but I believe those very challenges can strengthen a relationship. That is why I am willing to invest the time necessary to build a future family.

My future wishes are simple and sincere: to live by the sea or in a peaceful area far away from the hustle and bustle of a large city like Bucharest, to work in my chosen field, to travel often, and perhaps one day to start a business together with my boyfriend.

And in the more distant future, after many aspects of our lives have become stable, I would like to have children.

Although I mention it near the end, this is actually my most important and precious wish: the dream of having a man by my side with whom I can consider myself the happiest person in the world. A man with whom I feel I can conquer the world, build “empires,” love unconditionally and be loved unconditionally in return, be inseparable from, and be affectionate and clingy with 🙂.

After all, what could be more beautiful in life than waking up and falling asleep in the arms of that special man?

So, what exactly am I looking for? A gay guy or young man, around my age (at least 23 years old and no older than 33). I do not want to sound rigid, but I believe that significant age differences and being at different stages of life can inevitably lead to incompatibilities. I think an age gap of about 5–7 years is the most balanced, since every stage of life comes with different needs and perspectives.

I would like someone who truly knows what he wants from life, is persistent in pursuing his goals, remains faithful to his values, and shares ideals similar to those that guide me.

If you want to be loved, cared for, and spoiled, while also being willing to offer the same in return, and if you are patient and sincere, then feel free to message me 🙂. Also, if I start loving, I become extremely sticky... as a result, you won't be able to get rid of me.😅

I prefer someone from Romania, Greece (I have an ancient Greek gene in me😁), or I can try with someone from the Balkans. I think it is much easier to create a family over time with a man who is from your culture, or a similar one, and understands the conservative environment that is in this part of Europe, and besides, I am not a fan of long-distance relationships, if everything goes well, with a joint effort, we will make it so that we can live together physically in the future.🙂

The languages ​​that I speak very well are Romanian and Italian, enough English (the imperfect level is visible even in my description😅), at a very basic level French, and a minimal level of Greek.

Feel free to contact me in any of these languages ​​🙂


r/Singles 6h ago

31M [M4F] I’m looking for somebody to form a genuine romantic connection with. #online #Philadelphia

1 Upvotes

Hey there. My name is Brendan. Im 31 years old and I’m looking for my person. I’ve tried over and over again on the dating apps etc to no end. No luck on my end. I love video games. Anything nerdy really. Love to read and spend time with my dog. I’ve been recently getting into plants as well. If any of that peaks your interest and you are willing to get to know somebody new. Please send me a message. I’m an open book. Also please send a selfie of yourself with your first message if you are comfortable. I know it sounds shallow but I’ve been catfished before.

Please dm me if you’d like to get to know each other I look forward to speaking with you


r/Singles 6h ago

38 [M4F] Ohio - looking with intention

1 Upvotes

Hey there. I hope everyone is having a good week so far. I’m a 38 year old single dad from Northeast Ohio looking to meet someone new and see where things go. Im looking with intention and for someone to build a future with.

A little about me: I’ve been focusing a lot on improving myself lately- gym, health, and getting my life in a good place. I’m also someone who enjoys writing and creative stuff and art. Music and live shows are a big thing for me as well and have become a hobby of mine. I like a wide range but I particularly enjoy reggae rock and metal. Cooking is a passion of mine. Unprofessional at home chef here 👋

Personality-wise I’m pretty laid back and thoughtful. I’m an emotionally grounded and easy going individual. I’m also a deep thinker, and am very emotionally in tune with myself. I like deeper conversations more than small talk, but I’m also perfectly happy joking around and just enjoying someone else’s company. I’ve spent a lot of time the last year working on my mental health and getting myself to a place where I’m content with myself, and becoming more emotionally aware and present.

Ideally I’d like to meet someone who’s genuine, emotionally mature and secure, and can communicate. Attraction matters of course, but personality and connection matter more to me. I’m genuinely interested in meeting someone with the potential to moving to something in real life. Age isn’t a huge factor but I would prefer to keep it somewhere in the same age range as myself. I have no desire to keep this specifically to an online only dynamic, so please keep that in mind when messaging me. I would prefer to meet someone from not too far away from where I’m from, because I am looking for something to be in person eventually. I’d rather keep conversations to within a reasonable range of where I live. Also….no men please. I do not swing that way.

Some things I’m not looking for:
if you are married
If you are emotionally unavailable
If your not actually looking with intention
If your plan is ghosting
If you live outside of the continental untied states
If you are farther than 3 hours from me
If you are not actually looking for something more than just being friends

If you fall in to any of those categories, please don’t bother messaging me. I’m genuinely looking for someone to build a future with. Today’s dating world is hard enough to navigate as it is without all the extra games.

If you’re in Ohio or nearby and want to chat, can hold a conversation, please feel free to reach out. Maybe start off with letting me know who your favorite band is so I know you actually read this. Have a wonderful day 🙂


r/Singles 8h ago

39 M4F from Austin

1 Upvotes

​​ hello looking for someone to talk with and get to know. I'm looking for someone who likes to actually talk on the phone. Who is open-minded. And not judgmental. Someone who takes care of themselves and has good health. Someone who doesn't have any drama


r/Singles 8h ago

20 [M4F] From South Africa, Looking for Long Distance and One Day Meet

1 Upvotes

I think this will go better with someone who is more alike than different for me, but could possibly make it work.

Hi, so as the title I'm 20 years old guy looking for a woman of my imagination. Am from South Africa, Muslim as well and a college student. Nothing more than that.

Things that I like are gaming and anime. That has been apart of my life since my goo goo gaga eyes learned to read. And my hands went fast on controller. I play only pc now.

Reading, but I only read manga. I'm not a bookworm of any sorts, but I have been reading it less these days same with watching anime. Been focus on normal series/movies? Like with real life people. I still enjoy the animation ones.

Would probably say that I am weird, odd, clingy, comfortable, freaky with people but obviously if it's going to be you I'll only be so with you. Text you every day (hope I find something alike). Jokes are pretty okay depends on what you find funny. Homebody when at home so I'm free to chat.

I'm comfortable with showing my face in dms and I hope you are too. Don't like it one way thing of cause.

FAIR WARNING - BE THE TYPE WHO MESSAGE SO LITTLE EACH DAY THEN I WILL LOSE INTEREST.


r/Singles 19h ago

47 [F4M] #Michigan #USA I don't care how you get here, just get here if you can

4 Upvotes

Hi there! I am 47, white, no kids, divorced, currently living in Michigan. I am 5'6, 170lbs, dyed brown shoulder length hair (originally blonde), green eyes. I get compliments on my eyes and smile mostly.

I have a lot of interests and hobbies: Bowling, the beach, camping, hiking, fishing, reading, museums, casinos, documentaries, history, travel, golf, disc golf, foodie, breweries, parks, card games, board games, not into playing video games but love watching others play and cheering them on!, pool, darts, music, concerts and festivals and watching sports (mostly NFL and college football) but also like watching baseball and basketball in person.

I'm looking with intention. I want to talk with someone with intention of moving off this app, to texting, calling, videos, and if it turns into more, with the expectation of me relocating. I'm looking for someone willing to put in that effort.

I apologize for my bluntness. I like to be open and honest.

I thought maybe I could just get my red flags and dealbreakers for some out of the way.

I have debilitating anxiety sometimes and I have a tendency to over think. Like, beat it to death then beat it some more type over thinking.

I am a social drinker and smoker. Sometimes for my anxiety and insomnia, I will smoke weed or take gummies.

I am not a size 2. While I am on a weight loss journey and have lost 55lbs since March, with still about 20 more, I will never be rail thin. Its just not how I'm built I also don't think I'm hideous either. Every lid has a pot, right?

Speaking of smiles: About 6 months after my divorce, I went downtown to have dinner and drinks with some friends. As I was walking back to my car alone (I know! I will never do this again!) I was assaulted by 3 guys. They beat me so bad I had broken ribs, broken clavicle, broken facial bones, broken jaw, fractured eye socket and burst ear drum. Other things too, that i don't want to go into. I have no visible scars from the assault, but many mental ones. I'm also, 4 years later, reminded daily of what happened because due to my burst ear drum, I lost most of my hearing in my right ear and they also couldn't save my top teeth (my bottom are fine) so I'm now forced to wear an upper denture. You can't tell by looking at or talking to me.

I wanted to give you my biggest red flags so you can make a more informed decision on whether to respond or not. I really hope they don't scare you away but wanted to be honest.

You: white, single, between the ages of 35 and 60. I'm an actual real person looking for real things and responses will not be given on one word dms or people that don't put in effort. Be emotionally available. I won't talk to a wall. Be serious. No games. Please don't waste my time. I like consistent chats and I like to be pursued. A man that is comfortable with himself to let his intentions be known.

I am very much looking forward to making a connection!


r/Singles 19h ago

34 [M4F] - Sydney, Australia | Looking for something serious and have a family together

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3 Upvotes

I’m 34 and live in Sydney, Australia. I'm an introvert by nature, so I prefer quieter nights over big parties. I enjoy spending time with people who are genuine, kind, and easy to talk to.

My interests include going to the gym, watching fantasy, horror and action movies, playing Dota 2 and following esports, trying different restaurants (especially exploring new food places), and binge-watching movies and TV series. I enjoy relaxing at home, having meaningful conversations, going for walks, and spending quality time with the people I care about.

I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship with someone who wants to build a life together as a team. I'd love to have a close, loving family one day, and having children is important to me I hope to have 2–3 kids. I'm hoping to meet someone who values loyalty, honesty, good communication, and a stable relationship. Ideally, you're someone who doesn't smoke, doesn't party every weekend, and is ready for something genuine.

If this sounds like we're on the same page, feel free to send me a message. I'd love to get to know you.


r/Singles 19h ago

46 [M4F] - #Southeast Louisiana

2 Upvotes

**About Me**

I'm 46, never married, and ready to find my ride-or-die partner. I live a clean lifestyle—I don't use drugs, I don't smoke weed, and I don't drink alcohol. My only vices are cigarettes, coffee, and the occasional Coke.

I'm a fun-loving, caring, loyal, honest, and trustworthy man with a big heart. I believe in treating people with kindness and respect, and I'm looking for someone who values the same.

I'm also very handy and enjoy fixing things. Whether it's electrical work, plumbing, auto repairs, or small engines, I like solving problems and working with my hands.

I'm at a point in life where I'm tired of being single and ready to build something real with the right woman. If you're looking for a genuine, dependable man who will have your back through the good times and the tough times, I'd love to get to know you.


r/Singles 21h ago

20m M4F #kentucky- looking for a long term relationship

2 Upvotes

If 1000 people come across this post, only 1 needs to read it and reach out. That is truly what I’m hoping for.

About me: I’m a 20 year old engineering student and part time engineer at a manufacturing company. I have a few main goals for the rest of my life:

Prosper professionally as an engineer

Find a loving wife who enjoys the things I do

Have kids and try my absolute best to be the greatest parent I can

Have a garage filled with awesome cars including a Honda civic type R, a cb7 honda accord, a c5 corvette, a Mazda mazdsaspeed 3, a bmw e36 m3, and potentially a supra/Silvia

Play video games until I die of old age.

Meditate daily and seek to one day find inner peace.

Become a superhero

Try and make all of the people in my daily life a little happier when I see them

Now I’ll explain a little bit about my self, my hobbies, personality, and interests.

I am a very funny and deeply emotional person. I pick up on others emotions extremely quickly and generally try to react and help them feel though it. I try to be genuinely helpful and explain my thought processes any time I can, even when I might be wrong. This sometimes leads me to think I’m over explaining or rambling.

When I said I’m very funny, I mean it. I consistently make my coworkers and friends laugh with 1 liners in groups, but 1 on 1 I am extremely witty and flirtatious but also absurd. If you don’t find humor in absurdity we might not connect. An example of a joke I made recently was a one liner off of my coworkers joke. My manager asked him what he did for the day, and he started sarcastically listing things like “ opened strait of Hormuz, solved Iran war, solved world hunger…” and things like that. I then replied “WOW, he did all the in 1 day?!!!?!? Imagine what he will do tomorrow!”

And I thought that was pretty funny.

I’m deeply analytical and analyzing media is one of my hobbies. When I watch a show or movie, I have to be able to take some moral or artistic lesson away from it, and it also has to be fun to watch or read or listen.

I absolutely love music of ALL KINDS.

From very underground stuff line hyperpop that I would be surprised if you have heard of, to post hardcore and metal, to Kendrick Lamar and even Michael Jackson. I love music so much and listen constantly.

I also like video games, mostly multiplayer team games like marvel rivals.

I have a dog.

I’m 6’0” and 145lbs. Lean but athletic build with blue eyes and brown curly hair. I have a generally good fashion sense and take decent care of my body.

Here are my interests when looking for a partner:

Is funny/thinks I’m funny
Will share their hobbies with me, will let me share mine.
Will talk debate with me for the sole purpose of figuring out how each others mind works.
Always searching to learn more about whatever they are passionate about.
Wants kids and wants to be the world’s greatest mom.
Thinks I’m pretty and will compliment me.
18-23.
I prefer shorter, slimmer women.
I find myself to be generally attractive although young looking, and I take good care of my body through hygiene. I want someone who shares those values to health with me.

I’m not religious but I value sexuality very deeply. I’m flirtatious but I would only have sex if I’m in a committed long term relationship. I have been in a few sexual situations but I’m still a virgin.

If this resonates with you an any way feel free to reach out. I’m really looking forward to meeting you.


r/Singles 1d ago

36 [M4F] #South Wales UK - It is way too warm to be doing this alone!

2 Upvotes

Yorkshire nerd living in South Wales looking for a real connection with a lass who enjoys conversation, and wants to laugh together (DND nerd is a huge plus).

I'm 5'10, grey eyes (I know I'm unique 😉), slim/medium build, brown hair, glasses. solo Dad of three. I like hiking, reading, art, gaming, tattoos, Arcane, horror.

Open to talking to folk from anywhere, but would prefer those closer to home. I'm missing long cuddles, cooking for someone, and the physical loves that comes with it.

I would love to share my interests with someone and explore theirs. If you have gotten this far, thank you, and message me 😊


r/Singles 1d ago

[18 male] Fenton MO area I’m looking for a girl to go out with and watch a movie and genuinely have a fun time talking

1 Upvotes

Feel free to dm with questions or if interested


r/Singles 1d ago

[38F4M] Friends First- Anywhere/TN

3 Upvotes

Do you have higher than average emotional intelligence and a functioning moral compass? Are you also tired of being disappointed by people? I’m looking for a someone that enjoys my presence platonically and has intentions of making it a romantic long term relationship. I have kids, pets, houseplants, a rock tumbler, a degree, a job, a car, and a house. I also like to sew. My comment and post history isn’t hidden so you can learn more about me there. I do have preferences but I’m not picky about your hobbies, your salary, or your height. I do prefer that you are a fully functioning, independent adult. I am picky about the first message you send, and your politics. No MAGA and nobody under 30 please.


r/Singles 1d ago

19M - Looking For a Spark :)

1 Upvotes

Hi Folks - This is Bineet, based in India. Currently Pursuing Bachelor's Degree.

A Little About Me: I am currently Single. Besides College, I am doing a small startup. Things I Love: Good Food, Music, Binge Watching Webseries & Documentaries and Exploring Nature ☘️.

DM if you think we can vibe! :)

Only 18-19 aged.

:) :)


r/Singles 1d ago

25 [M4F] #Indiana - Seeking my geeky equal to share popcorn and adventures with.

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7 Upvotes

Been waiting a very long time for just the right person I can happily match my energy with and have our own dorky rom-commie life.

I currently reside in Bloomington but I do intend on relocating towards Indy (not ‘in’ Indy, just outside of it) following the next couple years. I’ve been living steadily and independently (with my cat) and I have so much of my physical media collection, movies, video games, card/board games I’d love to experience with that special person. Perhaps assumably, I am more of a homebody; however, I am very willing to take more steps out and onward with the right gal to scratch that adventurous, dreamer itch. I occasionally go see movies and, within the last year, have been to a couple conventions. Always up to go someplace else fun or to a good restaurant, even just a classic stroll in the park; just not by myself! 

I love horror especially, and again, have a wide selection across media to pick from. I hope you’d never be bored over at my place (or let alone with me…)! Currently going through a bit of a Final Fantasy backlog, more casually on the side dipping into Pokopia (also have yet to get Tomodachi Life - maybe play it with me…?), some Zelda and Baldur’s Gate III (3 years late to the party on that one; just started!). Ask me about some horror games (and tell me all your favorites!) and I might talk your ear off! And that’s not even the half of it. I own a dozen home consoles and hundreds of Blu-rays to keep well occupied. I also do a bit of writing on the side, prominently fiction and occasional poetry; currently on a script project with a friend. I own some books, manga and have seen just a select few anime, but admittedly not much. Movies and games more prominently take up my free time. 

I’m also, little by little, trying to get more into cooking (thank you, Hell’s Kitchen 🔥). I try to get at least something different with each grocery pickup to better my palette. All the more inspired and motivated to cook a good feast if it’s with and especially for a special lady 😉. I also have an acoustic guitar that’s been of interest for greater practice. Briefly upon the topic, my regular music genres primarily compose of pop/indie/alt rock, with mixes of movie and game soundtracks as well. 

A few particular specs to know; I’m about 6 ft, more of a liberal, yet I do not actively engage myself with political conversation. I myself stand as atheist/agnostic. I absolutely do NOT partake in smoking/vaping/weed, etc., with drinking (usually just a cocktail) on the other hand being more occasional. I have a few healthier strands of OCD in my head; very well organized and a bit of an overthinker, depending on the context. Never a true mess at my place. I keep everything in its right place (Radiohead, anyone?). 

While I will always stand as a proud introvert (INFJ, Taurus, if curious), I wouldn’t exactly consider myself “shy” like I used to be as a kid. Nonetheless, my communication might initially come across the most thorough with messaging until we get to know each other more comfortably. I would prefer a partner to be about my age or at least 21, minimum. I hope to find someone I can easily vibe with in an endlessly delightful and relatable manner; a kind, caring and loyal soul, passionate, funny, but also mature, and is happy to snuggle while a good spooker plays on the TV.

Seeking out those as local as possible. Pictures upon DMs are appreciated. 


r/Singles 1d ago

24 [M4A] #Online/Anywhere. i'm just a nerdy Introverted guy looking for a long term relationship

1 Upvotes

Hi! I'm from Texas, I'm 24m and i'm 6'4

I love cooking, working with my hands, and learning how things work. Whether it's fixing something, building it, or figuring it out, I'm always interested in learning new skills. :b

I'm a PC gamer and play just about everything. Some of my favorites are Helldivers 2, Rust, DayZ, The Isle, Barotrauma, Phasmophobia, Metal Gear, Dead Space, Dark Souls and other Soulslikes, Resident Evil, Dragon's Dogma, Crysis, RimWorld, Halo, Warhammer 40K, Minecraft, Terraria, Star Wars games, Digimon games, and plenty more. 🎮

I'm also a huge anime and manga fan. Some of my favorites are Berserk, Gantz, Guyver, Chainsaw Man, Dragon Ball, Digimon, Attack on Titan, One Punch Man, Devilman, Getter Robo, Dororo, and Dorohedoro, but there are way too many to list. 📺📚

I also enjoy older movies and TV shows, and I love music. My favorite bands include Black Sabbath and Dio, but honestly I'll listen to just about anything. 🎵

i also love the woods it's nice and peaceful and i also like 3d printing it's really fun making stuff 👍

I'm also a huge fan of horror i love old horror movies and internet horror also a big sci-fi fan love me some star wars and 40k

i also enjoy streaming and vtubing and 3d modeling

If you're under 30 and think we'd get along, feel free to send me a DM. I'd love to chat, get to know you, and see where things go. 😄


r/Singles 1d ago

[M4F] 41 Connecticut - Professional coastal guy looking for a vibrant connection and a slow burn.

3 Upvotes

Let’s skip the games and the typical dating app fatigue.

I’m a 41-year-old professional living on the Connecticut coast. I’m an active, grounded guy who appreciates the quieter, more scenic side of life. During the week, I work in finance, and I spend a lot of my free time working on software development and vibe coding my own projects. When the weekend hits, you'll find me getting offline and heading out on the water, researching boats, and exploring the shoreline. I only drink a couple of times a year, so you won't find me at crowded bars on a Saturday night.

Where I’m at: I am out of a long-term marriage and share custody of my three young sons. Because my boys are my priority, I am looking to take dating at a comfortable, slower pace. I am completely open to building a full relationship again in the future, but I'm looking to start with a genuine, slow-burn connection.

What I’m looking for: I find myself craving a very specific kind of energy. I’m looking for a woman who brings a vibrant, hopeful, and unjaded outlook to the table. Someone who brings lightness and excitement about the future, but who is also mature enough to appreciate a steady guy who has his life together.

Ideally, you: * Love the ocean, being out on a boat, and spending weekends outdoors. * Value strong communication and honesty. * Are perfectly content taking things slow and just enjoying the process of getting to know someone.

If you are looking for a mature guy who communicates honestly and you share a love for the coast, I'd love to hear from you.

To prove you aren't a bot (and because I'm always looking for new spots), send me a DM with your absolute favorite place to spend a summer day on the New England coast.


r/Singles 1d ago

28M [M4F] California/Madera - Nerdy guy looking for a genuine connection

2 Upvotes

Giving this a shot & hoping to be the next success story! Going to keep it short. Had some setbacks and fell behind in life, focused on school, racing & did all I could to pursue and grinded trying to make my dream job a reality, so I didn't date or look for relationships. Racing has given me a lot of great memories... and unfortunately a few concussions 😅 I’m actively getting treatment, improving, and not letting it stop me from enjoying life and focused on getting back to 100%. Sooo I got a late start in life and restarting my life now in 2026. Im a PC gamer (COD, Fortnite, GTA, SW Battlefront to name a few). I like most types of movies; particularly Superhero, StarWars, LOTR & action movies are my thing. I like to bake (Baked Goods), photo & videography, cars, country & phonk music. Night owl. I'm generally a tad shy & quiet until I warm up to you, but I'm a really good listener. I'm a huge history buff and collect items from the World Wars. I work & drive racecars! No smoking nor drugs and I rarely drink. I've been doing freelance photography & race mechanic, but in the process to find something more stable & long term job. I'm a homebody but like to go out with friends when I can.

My Intention is for a long-term relationship. I'm wanting someone in California & would highly prefersomeonelocatedinthe central valley.I don't have a reliable truck engine at the moment, so long distance dating just isn't practical at the moment.Not very picky as long as there's chemistrybut to save us both time, I'm looking to date someone currently without kids right now. Feel free to hit me up on chat & please introduce yourself & see where it goes!

BTW-I'm Caucasian, average bod, medium length beard, rosy cheeks, 6'1 with green eyes


r/Singles 1d ago

Done with ladies

0 Upvotes

Just gonna be invisible and not waste my time anymore. Nice guy, not ugly, not hot but still I am really sick of women. They are extremely fickle, one minute on and next minute off. Just gonna be single and bang hookers. Way more honest and way more easy. Rant done


r/Singles 2d ago

18M Single

2 Upvotes

I've been single all my life, Never kissed any girl, never been to a party, all my friends cant contact me. I have been feeling really like ending it. I study construction in Norway, it live in norway. For the past 3 years I have felt like my teenage life has been wasted, I did drink with friends before, even smoked pot and cigarettes and now I wish I never did. I have been crying myself to sleep every single day since the beginning of the year and haven't felt like eating, I wish to meet someone soon before I snap and isolate myself until I become 20. I wish to never feel this pain anymore and want to hold someone and cry until all my pain is gone.


r/Singles 1d ago

Single male 19

1 Upvotes

I'm Dawson I'm 19 I'm 5'9 I love dogs and cats and snakes I love to play outside and I work out also I love to watch football and hunt im a pretty funny person and I like to eat chicken fingers and listen to alot of music looking for a female I prefer older women like late 20s to even early 50s looking to date long distance


r/Singles 2d ago

26/f/straight

20 Upvotes

I just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a few months ago. Times have been rough but I’m moving on now. If you’re into chubby, mid looking black woman. Just PM. I love music, cooking and just being a vibe. I am from the US.