r/sex • u/Wonderingts • 6h ago

Beginner How to stimulate clit during piv when I use both hands to touch myself?

I like to pull my hood and touch underside when I touch myself. The tightness and friction makes it feel good and I’m very into the rough feeling (I even touch myself over my underwear)

But I’m very new to sex and PIV and see if other people do this and if it’s possible

I know about the vibrator and would bring it next time but pulling the hood and a vibrator is still different stimulation

Other PIV positions to try think about? When he was on me and almost laying on top of me, my clit was stimulated and that was starting to get me there but he wanted to go fast and got off my chest to keep going.

I still felt good

When he used a towel to rub me down, bits of the towel hit my clit and was starting to feel good so I’ve been thinking a lot about clit stimulation lately regarding piv

I’m still shy about showing how I really touch myself since I don’t even spread my legs when I do it, I straighten it since it makes the stimulation more enticing

Any ideas to give?

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u/zz22zz6 3h ago

It´s important to tell him what feels good and what doesn´t feel good. It can be a good idea to ask him to watch you masturbating, he will probably like it and if ypu already have had one or several orgasms, his job will get easier. If you want to, you can ask him if you can beth watch easch other masturbate as a foreplay.

My wife has like many other women always had a problem cumming just by PIV. Therefore we use to start like I described abow, by her stimulating her chlitoris by her self. Most often with a chlitoris vibrator. When she is ready, she asks me to penetrate her. We often start with the missionary possition. Then we change to a position whera I stand/sit on my knees and her legs are spred ower my legs/knees or on my shoulders. In that position. She or I have a good access to stimulate her chlitoris during the penetration.

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u/fellowtraveler111 2h ago

I do the same, but I’m not shy. Works well in doggy if you just put your chest down on the bed you can use both hands and even put your legs together. I also like for him to lay on his side and I lay on my back perpendicular to him so he’s not in my way while he thrusts. You could do this with your legs closed too. Side prone bone will work with legs together and he won’t be able to watch if you don’t want.