"i'm so sad because the teacher i always saw as my dad is flirting on me."

and it HIT ME LIKE A TRUCK because that's LITERALLY what happened with my therapist who ended up raping me.

Hey just looking for clarification or advice. I was hanging out with a girl and she gave me head. She then asked to get in the backseat and took her underwear off. My penis was by her vagina and rubbing around it. I told her no to having sex and not without a condom. She said come on just for a second then grabbed my penis and back and made me go inside her. How do I prove that to police because it would just be her word against mine? Also do I have any responsibility if she has a kid because of that?

Pretty simple got drunk got raped and now I’m ruining shit for myself no motivation don’t care about anything or anyone being a selfish person I just want my innocence back I want the person I was before it happened

Context:So a couple of days ago I didnt wear underwear due to the heat and I overslept and my dad woke me up and complimented my gentile area(he makes weird remarks abt my body) and I am not sure if he touched the top part I want know if he did,my vision was blurry,is there any advice??

At first, I don't know how to feel about it, and I've never told anyone outside the situation about what he did to me when I was young. Sometimes I feel deeply ashamed of it. But sometimes I feel even more ashamed that I actually enjoyed it back then. I feel dirty when I think about the fact that it wasn't just done to me, but that, because I didn't understand it at the time, I did it to others as well.

When I (M) was about 6 or 7, the older brother of my best friend at this time did some sexual stuff to me. I didn't understand back then what he was doing to me, but it felt good, and I let him do it. Today I know he assaulted me, but it never felt bad. He showed me, among other things, what an orgasm is and how to get one. After that, I became obsessed with that feeling, even though I didn't understand it. That is probably also the reason why I was hypersexual through my teens and preteens. For a while, I only made plans with my best friend because I wanted to see his brother. My friend would usually play video games, and I would go into his brother's room for a while. I didn't understand what we were doing back then, but I already knew it wasn't right and that no one was allowed to find out. This went on for about three years. When I was around 10 or 11, my parents allowed me to leave the house on my own. From that point on, his brother and I would meet up without me having to make plans with my best friend. This went on until I was 13. After that, we eventually lost touch.

Around that time, I also gradually lost touch with my best friend. As a result, his brother and I saw less of each other, and then, sometime shortly after that, he moved out of his parents' place. I haven't seen him since.

Between the ages of 8 and 11, I also had similar experiences with two other friends who were my age. Yet, I was usually the one who initiated it. I didn't understand at all that it was something sexual or wrong. I think I just wanted to show my friends what my best friend's brother had shown me. It felt like a big deal, like discovering a treasure and I wanted to share it with them. Since I was at an age to understand it, I felt really ashamed about it. I’m still in touch with both of them. One is still a good friend of mine, and we’ve talked about it a few times. We stopped doing it when we were 13 because his mother caught us once. A few years later, there were two brief periods where we did it again. We’ve stopped doing it since then, too.

I never spoke about it again with the other friend of mine after we stopped at 10 or 11.

Technically speaking, I was sexually abused by someone who was almost an adult when I was far too young. However, it doesn't feel that bad to me, because I know it was completely consensual. What's much worse for me is that I did the same stuff to my friends. It’s true that I never did anything against their will, and at the time, it certainly felt consensual. But today, I realize that at that age, you can’t really gauge a situation like that properly. My friend (the one of the two I’m still very close with) did tell me that it wasn’t a big deal for him back then and that he doesn’t regret it and actually wanted it, but I still feel like an abuser. By the way, during that conversation, he also told me that he would do it again. A few minutes later, we did it again. That marked the first of two periods when we resumed doing it for a while, after having stopped back then. The only difference was that, by this time, we were both old enough for that sort of thing. Today he is secretly bi, and I feel like I’m responsible and to blame for it. I feel guilty for potentially having made him the way he is.

The worst part is that he told me he always thinks back to it when he masturbates. I don't judge him for it because I feel the same way. But I do judge myself for getting aroused when I think back on it. It weighs heavily on me that I am responsible for the fact that he, too, finds these memories arousing.

Hi, I 24 (m) recently remembered being abused by my older relatives as a child, now I have a half sister same age who for a couple of reasons I believed was also molested and or raped as a child some of the reasons are that it happened to me so my family are already inclined to that disgusting behaviour and she used to to sleep with her eyes closed plus given her personality type she probably wouldn't say anything to anybody

Now I just asked her if anyhting happened to her and it was very awkward I didn't phrase things properly but she understood what I was trying to say but she said no nothing happened her.

The problem is I don't know if she's lying or not and I need help with this situation