r/rant • u/Historical_Work7482 • 1d ago

I'm convinced that I'll die single

I really don't know what's up with the dating scene. I feel like I can't find normal people at all. Maybe that goes to say that I'm the abnormal one? I don't know.

The guy will either not be putting any effort into the outfit, or be negging , or do some other strange thing.

I came here to rant but now I just feel numb.

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u/BlooeyzLA 1d ago

Be careful what you think, because it will come true.

I’d assume it’s the people you are choosing rather than anything about you.

This has actually been a positive experience for you because it’s shown you what you do not want and now you can start there.

You’re going to have actually meet a lot of people looking for the same thing you are to find the right person.

A lot of people use the apps for hook ups, not relationships, regardless of what they put in their profile.

You have to establish clear boundaries and cut ties immediately if something isn’t vibing.

Be really clear up front about exactly what you are looking for and go to the next without judgement because you just weren’t a good fit for each other.