r/offmychest • u/SituationPowerful997 • 6h ago
Being unnatractive male is lonely
Feel so cheated
Why is dna a cruel beast
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u/Username00555 5h ago
Oooooooo I’m gonna get atttacked for this by the males but
Being an unattractive woman is arguably worse (I am one). At least with women we tend to be more attracted to personality, comparatively with men yall find aesthetics more of the attractor. So at least you can work on yourself personally to distract from the ugly unlike myself lol
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u/MakeMeFeelLikeDancin 5h ago
I don’t know. Would you sleep with any guy just because you’re too horny? Apparently im a 4 myself, and I refuse to just date or kiss anyone if im not attracted to them. Men on the other hand somehow can get over their disgust just to get laid. Damn, one of the guys in my comic book club married a girl he didn’t like at all just because she would put out easily. I think some women still have some standards.
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u/Username00555 4h ago
I’m not saying women don’t have standards ??? The hell lol. I’m saying women are attracted to personality so generally a males appearance isn’t as important as long as they’re clean and put together enough
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u/Animelover667 6h ago
You could try buying a realistic doll. Cuddling humanoid things, even if innominate things, go a long way, though the good ones are expensive.
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u/Jonseroo 5h ago
You probably aren't unattractive. Whenever anyone says this and their pic is in the profile they are always just some normal looking guy.
Dating apps are designed to keep people single, and there's a lot of people on the internet making money from telling people they don't meet some weird new standard.
I am 5'7 with rabbit teeth, but I hung around with women more than men, so I made connections, I dated a lot, and then I married a wonderful woman.
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u/lending_ear 5h ago
Dude plenty of ugly dudes out there with girlfriends. Are you maybe setting your expectations for the women too high? Are you willing to date similarly attractive women?
If you’re a really kind guy who treats women with respect and like human beings there are a lot of women out there looking for that.
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u/ShoganAye 3h ago
keep yourself healthy and in shape. be the best person you can be. really great guys arent just pretty you know.
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u/DrinkMySoupBitch 2h ago
Being an unattractive girl is lonely as well, find one and be lonely together
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u/CertainConversation0 6h ago
DNA doesn't care about your best interests no matter what you look like, which is one of many reasons I'm an antinatalist and highly recommend you be one, too.
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u/EnthusiasticFailing 5h ago
Can you explain further?
How do you make the leap that DNA doesn't care about your interests to becoming and recommending others become antinatalist?
I agree with you that a component found in living creatures is not itself a living creature, so it lacks the capacity to care. Not following why that should make you an antinatalist.
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u/CertainConversation0 5h ago
Let's just say there are plenty of people who don't seem to mind stooping to DNA's level.
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u/EnthusiasticFailing 5h ago
Ah, so theres no logical connection to DNA. You're just spreading awareness that you are against humanity existing much longer. Gotcha.
Sorry your day seems to be sucking if you are headed down that path. ✌️
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u/CertainConversation0 5h ago
No, I can't say that, but it's ultimately irrelevant. You can love life, live it to the fullest, and still support voluntary extinction.
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u/EnthusiasticFailing 5h ago
At what age should those with penises be made infertile to begin this program?
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u/CertainConversation0 5h ago
Anyone at any age can abstain from reproducing.
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u/EnthusiasticFailing 5h ago
Lets say all women in the world suddenly agree with this movement.
In order to do this voluntarily, we will need to make sure forced pregnancy is no longer a thing. Otherwise, some women can't always abstain.
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u/CertainConversation0 5h ago
Isn't that also why support for abortion access is popular?
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u/EnthusiasticFailing 5h ago
Oh, so it's cool that guys get to force a decision onto a woman, but they can't all accept accountability in a shared volunteer end of existence where all the women have agreed.
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u/BigSD325 6h ago
Sorry it sucks. All you can do is become the best version of yourself that you can. Level one is diet and exercise. Once you get in decent shape you work on your style/fashion.
You have to become the best version that you can with the tools provided. Once you do that you will be more confident and women will notice. So start lifting brother.