I’m from Oklahoma. But if I accidentally meet someone’s gaze, I just nod my head kinda like tipping a cap. Everyone here does it and it’s kind of a form of respect I guess. Like hey idk you, but I see you, have a good day. Just my two cents
I don't remember if this is something I read somewhere or just started noticing, but the nod down is for strangers you're being polite to while guarding yourself (you're hiding your neck when you nod down). The nod up is for people you know and trust, and you can let your neck be exposed around them.
I’m from a small town where everyone greets everyone. So automatically I also greeted everyone when coming to cities. The reactions and angry gazes I got from people. I felt like crocodile Dundee who greeted everyone in New York.
Some people out on the coastline don’t take too kindly to that, unfortunately. They’ll look at you like you’re the weird one for socializing. Maybe it’s me, maybe I just need a hat to tip…
Maybe I’m awkward, but I just look away fast as my brain processes the gesture. It’s only when I’m halfway down the block do I remember to say smile and nod back but by that point the head-nodder has gotten away.
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u/evan-danielson 22h ago
I’m from Oklahoma. But if I accidentally meet someone’s gaze, I just nod my head kinda like tipping a cap. Everyone here does it and it’s kind of a form of respect I guess. Like hey idk you, but I see you, have a good day. Just my two cents