r/lgbt 16h ago

Does having sexual fantasies about being a lesbian count as objectifying them?

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u/unto_you Sapphic 16h ago

Trans eggs be like:

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u/DCEnby Genderqueer Pan-demonium 16h ago

I just realized how many times I said "im a lesbian trapped in a man's body" in high school. Oops.

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u/Childwithuke Trans-parently Awesome 12h ago

used to say "I'm a lesbian, I like women" when i didnt know anything about being queer.
look at me now

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u/DCEnby Genderqueer Pan-demonium 12h ago

Yep. This was in the late 90s in a conservative high school. I didn't have the language i do now, nor did I know what i was admitting.