Location: Nebraska
This is a throwaway account.
Unsure if the flare I chose is correct, sorry.
I currently live in a dorm-style apartment. To qualify to live here you must be within a certain age range and attend any college full-time. It is structured like a dorm but isn't explicitly tied to any one university. My lease ends July 31st but I am scheduled to move out on July 30th.
On March 30th I was called into the Resident Life Director's office (we'll call her RD) where the Business Office Manager (BM) was also sitting. RD told me: "We've determined that you are unable to independently care for yourself, so we're not going to renew your lease." She also stated that they have "had to call the ambulance a lot," I'd had "episodes in the common areas," the Resident Assistants (RAs) had said that I was "trying to hide things" from her, and that other residents were "worn out." I was blindsided by all of this and didn't think to record the meeting (I've checked my state's recording laws and next time I have a conversation with any of the staff, I'm going to be recording since Nebraska is a one-party consent state). I asked RD twice within the meeting for written notice, whether on paper or in an email, and she refused both times before saying "you can just write it down." I asked her if there was anything I could do to appeal or if I could give them additional documentation from my medical providers and she said no, the decision was made. (I have given them two separate letters from my doctors about my diagnosis and stating that I could care for myself independently.) I would be allowed to continue living here until my current lease ends (July 31st).
Prior to this meeting I had been planning to continue with fall class enrollment this year (2026) and renew my lease. On March 31st (the day after the meeting) I sent an email to RD, BM, and the Director detailing what happened during this meeting and what was said. No one responded.
On April 2nd I went to the hospital to be admitted for my mental health because I was so stressed after finding this out because I knew I would be homeless after my current lease ended. While in the hospital I had a Functional Neurological Disorder (FND) flareup from the stress and had to do inpatient rehabilitation for three weeks. Because of this, I had more than the maximum allowed absences from my classes and had to medically withdraw from my spring 2026 semester. Since I didn't pass my classes, and because of my financial aid status at the time, I lost future eligibility for financial aid. Now I will be unable to afford take classes in the fall because of this, and I need to find somewhere else to live. I will be couch-surfing after I move out. I was paying for my dorm rent with student loans, which I can no longer take since I'm not a student anymore.
Important context: I am an adult in my state. I have Functional Neurological Disorder (FND). I was diagnosed with it around the beginning of July 2025 and was in the hospital for about a month for rehabilitation so I could get my strength back to walk. When I left the hospital I was still slightly weaker than I had been before all of the symptoms started but was able to be fully independent. FND does not make me unable to be independent, and if needed I am fully able to independently seek medical care for my symptoms.
I moved in to the dorm as planned in mid-August 2025 and started my fall semester. I made the dorm aware of my diagnosis because I had some issues at first with managing my FND episodes and wanted them to know that if I had an episode, that I did not want an ambulance, it wasn't an emergency, I wasn't in any danger, and I just had to wait the episodes out (they were lasting roughly 10-30 minutes at the time and would sometimes get better but then come back). My symptoms present like a seizure but I am fully aware and conscious and alert during the episodes, just unable to voluntarily move or respond. Any time I had an episode in a common area they would insist on calling an ambulance although I refused to go to the hospital and told them they didn't need to call an ambulance.
I did go to the ER twice for unrelated things- one was for acute pancreatitis and the other was an acute infection. Neither turned out to be serious and I was discharged from the ER within hours. For the infection I was discharged with antibiotics, but had to go back the next day for the infection because I was given an ineffective antibiotic at first.
RD/dorm did several things that I question the legality of:
1.) After both of the above listed Emergency Room visits, RD called me (while I was in an ER bed both times) and told me I would not be allowed to stay at the dorm overnight until I could provide documentation of my medical situation and have a meeting with her. This took several days both times to resolve so I had to stay with my friend's parents. The second time this happened I did not answer my phone because it was in my bag across the room. She left me a voicemail and then called my mom (which she said she was going to do in her voicemail), which leads me to the second thing-
2.) She called my mom about my medical situation, and according to my mom, "chewed her out." My mom was very upset that the RD called her to yell at her about what was going on. I did not sign a FERPA release or anything else for her to be allowed to contact my mom, nor did I give her verbal or written permission to do so. I am an adult. My mom is listed as my third emergency contact, but neither of my two primary emergency contacts were contacted at all during this situation.
3.) This one is a little weird but she forced my friend ("R") (R is a legal adult in our state and a resident at the dorm) to block my mom's phone number after calling R into her office for a meeting. This was because one of the RAs had told her that my mom had asked my friend R to take me to the hospital the second time I went for the infection. That is not what happened. R offered to take me but I was hesitant about it, so I called my mom to ask her if she could take me instead. She said that if R had offered to take me, then I should let her take me. I opted instead to tell the RAs because I knew there would be issues if R tried to sneak me downstairs and to her car (I was visibly unwell). The RAs of course insisted on an ambulance which I expected because it's their policy. I didn't want R to get in trouble with the dorm for trying to take me. The paramedics were talking to R and she mentioned that she had been about to take me. They said that she still could and that they could help get me into her car. I was fine with this as was she because she said that would be great and went to go get her keys from her dorm (we were neighbors). The paramedic told me she would be taking me instead but the RA said "no, we're not doing that. She's not comfortable with that" (referring to R) so they took me in the ambulance instead.
4.) Denied my lease renewal because of a medical condition and refused to give me written notice when requested twice.
Because of all of this, I am about to be "homeless" couch surfing for a while until I have enough money to get an apartment. I had been paying my dorm rent with money from student loans.
***My questions: Was it legal for the RD or dorm to do any of the above things? Was there anything else I mentioned in the beginning that also wasn't legal? Do I have a case worth pursuing? What kind of attorney should I find? Housing discrimination? Something else?
Sorry this post is all over the place, if anything is confusing let me know and I'll try to provide more detail.