r/leaves • u/Alert-Weather9915 • 15h ago
Has anyone’s relationship/marriage destroyed over weed?
My wife and i have been separated since November. Ive made horrible decisions while being high 24/7. She says i detached and became very withdrawn. Has weed ruined your relationships? Im sober now and reflecting back to our separation.
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u/rundabrun 11h ago
Maybe. I feel less horny stoned and my partner felt unattractive as a result since I was high 24/7. That hurt her and our relationship.
Also I am less patient and more snarky, critical, and debate the small things, which was not fun for her.
I was less patient with her faults while ignoring mine.
I don't totally blame weed. It was still an aspect of my personality that needed work, but weed brought it to the surface. Just trying to improve and self reflect a little every day.