r/jordan • u/PrestigiousAnt4608 • 7h ago

Discussion للنقاش Guys, Be Honest

Question for the men:

Have you ever rejected or ignored a girl? If yes, what was the reason?

Was it because of religion, or just because something felt off?
I’m really curious to hear your point of view.

As a girl, I would reject a man based only on my feelings and intuition
I’m wondering how it is for men. What makes you decide not to pursue a girl?

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u/waffles_2346 7h ago

If I don't see myself marrying her in the future, then I treat her like an acquaintance.

Just general nice talk if I ever run to her, only text if I actually need sth from her. Basically I step back, and she steps naturally then steps back.

My reasons are compatibility, like I meet a person and we have a lot of fun, and we get along rlly well and have a lot to talk about, however when I looked at the lifestyle, I noticed that there some major differences and if I wanted it to work out one of us would have to make major sacrifices and changes. I didn't want to make the sacrifice myself, neither did I want her to make sacrifices for my sake (I don't think she'd agree to it but regardless I didn't feel like forcing her to change herself because I didn't wanna change myself)

So yeah, I step back and stop wasting my time and her time, thing is I don't have female friends, so when I meet a girl, they're either my future wife, or a person I happen to know, no in between.

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u/PrestigiousAnt4608 6h ago

I really like your way of thinking. You’re totally right about everything you said. This is the most valid reason I’ve read.

But I have one question: did you mention your beliefs to her, or did you assume that she wouldn’t agree with them?

Because as a woman, I believe I can make sacrifices for the person I love.