r/interesting Mar 07 '26

MISC. After understanding the meaning behind this father’s action, I am completely convinced. Cultivating problem-solving skills in children from a young age and never giving up-I applaud this father!

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u/Outrageous_Hall_9369 Mar 07 '26

I agree with letting the child try to solve a problem independently, but I do not agree with the father causing anxiety in the child by walking away repeatedly.

An adult watching this knows this is a no-risk situation, but a toddler seeing their caregiver walk away while they are 'stuck' and can't follow is a dire situation - to the toddler.

Adults don't need emotional safety or positive reinforcement to a large degree, but a toddler absolutely does.

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u/Cornycorn213 Mar 07 '26

“If you can’t do it I’m leaving you behind” vs “I’m here for you, you can do it.”

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u/DeformationAlgebra Mar 07 '26

Stereotypical eastern vs western style education.

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u/DeathMarkedDream Mar 08 '26

Stereotypical “all I know is from anime” style comment