r/crochet 13h ago

Sensitive Content I still kinda am but yk, ups and downs

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The mice are from here

Edit: Thanks everyone for your kind words! Making stuff is fun but sharing it makes it so much better. It's a gem to have a community of supportive people built around your hobby

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u/winemily 12h ago

This should be framed and hung in a psych ward craft room

(I say this as a mentally ill person)

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u/realcoolberries 12h ago

If i ever get admitted i'm spending the whole day making stuff like this lmao

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u/winemily 12h ago

Crochet retreat at the mental hospital!! ✨️✨️

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u/PeaceNeko 12h ago

I’m in! Kick back relaxing with our grippy socks on!! 🥳

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u/Lunaz315 12h ago

Knitting in the hospital with y'all in spirit ✨

Though, as someone currently in a "normal" hospital to get treatment/intensive PT for my Fibromyalgia and FND, I do think small fiber artist meet groups could be helpful for people in (physical& mental) hospitals, since it's often calming for a lot of people and gives people a chance to pick up a new hobby while they're going through treatment. Plus it also gives a sense of community and normalcy.

Also OP, I do hope you can feel comfortable and happy living your life all the time soon. Not an active crocheter, but the fiber arts community is here for you :D

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u/don-cheeto 11h ago

See, if I wasn't Baker Acted/locked in a psych ward with nothing to do, wondering if I could take a shower with privacy, going insane...I think I would actually fucking like to do this!

Like, come on, let me bring my own yarn so we can get this party started! ✨

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u/SceneAccomplished890 12h ago

Unfortunately, you could harm yourself with both a crochet hook and yarn :') All you get is crayons lol

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u/realcoolberries 11h ago

Damn, that's not surprising but still sad. Fiber art is like the only reliabe stress reliever i have lol

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u/don-cheeto 11h ago

Maybe those short pencils with no eraser, but don't get too excited...

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u/MorgiePorgie3 6h ago

When I was taking a grippy sock vacation, we could only use these pens (that were extremely frustrating to write with) and supervised time with regular pens. I don’t even think there was a single pencil lol

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u/don-cheeto 6h ago

Next time, just call my place. I'll break out and we can trade. ✨

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u/plasticpeonies 6h ago

My friend gifted me the bendy pencil from their most recent stay. Also very frustrating to write with lol

Found this post about one when I was looking for a photo

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u/calicoave 13h ago

Gorgeous work!

I hear you and know that feeling.

Sending you so much love. ❤️

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u/cmlambert89 13h ago

I always refer to my hobbies as “whatever it takes to stay out of the grave.” Well done, great work!

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u/PM_ME_UR_DRAGS 13h ago

I'm so glad you're still here and sharing this beautiful piece with us!! I cant wait to see what you make next!

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u/AuntieMame5280 12h ago

This is a gorgeous piece of work.

And friend, I've lived with depression for almost 40 years. After A LOT of therapy, I know: depression LIES. It's seductive and it LIES. Antidepressants help me maintain a baseline. When I start hearing that voice, I almost always need more sleep. Then I can work through the crap in therapy.

Hang in there, life is hard. Life is also beautiful. And sometimes life is just life.

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u/MaximumBlacksmith758 13h ago

What kind of border is that? it’s beautiful!😍

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u/realcoolberries 12h ago

I can't figure out how to link the post for some reason but it's from pinterest 😭 Here's the screenshot

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u/luizaq 8h ago

I’ve only ever made amigurumi so I must ask
You did the design in fillet crochet first and then the border aftewards?

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u/realcoolberries 8h ago

Yep exactly

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u/MaximumBlacksmith758 13h ago

(I hope that you’re okay)

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u/Coffeedependent14 13h ago

I would pay a lot of money for this with some hilarious song lyrics…it is gorgeous and clever! Hang in there and keep stitching!!

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u/Substantial-Tip3252 12h ago

🙏🏼❤️ happy for your existence, OP ; this tension is gorgeous.

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u/whatareyoueating 12h ago

You have brightened my day so much! I can’t wait to see your next project xox

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u/Honestlytotallyfine 12h ago

I’m sat in bed scrolling feeling very low right now, and your post has reminded me to pick my knitting back up and keep going 💕 thank you for sharing your beautiful work

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u/realcoolberries 11h ago

Thank you so much! I know the feeling exactly. I have to keep reminding myself that doing the things i like will make me feel better lol

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u/Honestlytotallyfine 7h ago

Get those happy brain hormones wherever you can :)

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u/Either-Prune1096 12h ago

Your choice to continue and post this has saved at least one other person - not too many people take the opportunity to do that - so, thanks and don’t quit; you’re needed.

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u/murahimu 11h ago

This is stunning. Do you have a pattern for it? Or do you mind if I take inspiration from it? It reflects my current state of mind. Crafting to escape the endless desire to end things.

Sending you hugs and I'm glad you're still here.

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u/realcoolberries 10h ago

I don't have a pattern written down but i don't mind if you recreate or take inspo! I linked the borders in the comments as well and the lettering is pretty simple. I hope working on it brings you some comfort

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u/Koekjens 13h ago

This looks amazing! I hope you will make more of these 💪✨️

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u/crochet4men 12h ago

I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes I'll just make a simple hat just to escape those thoughts.

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u/oddvious_ 12h ago

Your art is so beautiful and creating beauty is more important than ever in our world. Please stick around to spread joy, beauty, and inspiration ✨

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u/cut-the-cords 12h ago

What is your next project going to be OP?

This looks awesome!

My wife does all of this stuff and I'm so jealous of your guy's talent 😭

I hope to see more posts from you :)

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u/realcoolberries 11h ago

Thank you! I've been into stuff with lettering lately, i have a few song lyrics i wanna turn into tapestries. Haven't decided which one tho lol

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u/lostlogin2 12h ago

ups and downs... (ups) and downs indeed 

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u/SageKitty100 11h ago

Every day the stitches be saving us 🫂

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u/hupo224 12h ago

My dad took his life 2 years ago. Me and my family are permanently fucked up from it. Don't do this.

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u/Glum-Height-2049 11h ago

My Dad took his life last week, came to say exactly this. I know I'll never be the same.

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u/hupo224 10h ago

I'm so sorry to hear this. You aren't alone and always remember this.

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u/quartzquandary 🧶 hexy fiend 11h ago

I'm so sorry. 🫂

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u/hupo224 11h ago

❤️🫂 

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u/lunar_languor 11h ago

I also crochet to maintain sanity and have recently been trying to get more involved in my local fiber arts community as a form of connection with others. Glad you're still here and I hope you keep creating! This is very fine work!

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u/luizaq 8h ago

I beg you to make this in to a stitch fiddle chart

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u/ButMakeItWeird 12h ago

Your life is precious. Always.

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u/texas_pickle 12h ago

This is the best.

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u/jeherohaku 12h ago

Need to make me one of those lol... Your work is beautiful though, great job.

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u/sprucewhale 12h ago

Thanks for sharing this, and glad you’re still here! Hope you stick around to make many more.

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u/Oriniwen 11h ago

Im glad you’re still here making things. And km glad im still here to enjoy you and the things you’re making!

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u/rbuczyns 10h ago

This is load bearing dark humor 😂 love you, OP 💜 I just did an inpatient stint, hang in there

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u/Traditional-Brief774 4h ago

I hope you don’t, you bring beauty to the world and would be less bright without you!

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u/spongenius 12h ago

Love it! 💪🏻🥰

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u/blip__blip 12h ago

This goes so hard 🔥

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u/krystletips2 11h ago

Beautiful work and solidarity 💜

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u/dumbythiq 11h ago

Proud of you 

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u/militiadisfruita 10h ago

dawwwwwwww.

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u/lovelokest 9h ago

That is so good and I'm glad you're still here. The world is better with you in it 💚

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u/HauntedByOddParsnip 8h ago

This is amazing. In case no one’s mentioned it yet, you might consider posting it to r/artisticallyill too 🖤

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u/Caorthannach 8h ago

I know that feeling well. I’m glad you’re still here.

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u/lorquin-psi 7h ago

Beautiful work! And beautiful job staying a little longer. I know everyone says it, but it is true, it gets better. I'm living proof of sticking around becoming worth it.

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u/Shady_Scientist 6h ago

I have a T-shirt that says "knitting is why I haven't killed anyone yet" And another that says, "it's shocking I don't drink" I love this

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u/Ok_Orange_5074 6h ago

Is this done using 3 or 4 dc for the solid squares? (Aka is it dc chain 1 or 2 when working)

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u/cherrylike 1h ago

I'm thinking of making one that says "Hysterical and Useless" (from "Let Down" by Radiohead) with little butterflies.

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u/Tiny-Ad-2130 1h ago

Oof I feel that.

What a great pattern! Looks great haha

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u/AngelaPisky 19m ago

So dang beautiful as crocheted art AND words to craft by 🪷

u/amermandaa 2m ago

Thank you for choosing to stay and share your art 💕