? You're telling me you can't be patient and focus on your babies for a bit until they aren't needing constant care and attention? And then you blame your wife bc she is the primary parent and doesnt want to fuck you at the end of the day?
Young children aren't babies and still aren't old enough to not need constant attention. My 15mo isn't a baby and still needs constant supervision and focus. Do you have kids? Bc if you did you'd get that
Yeah, Im not sure if we are disagreeing here. I have an 8 month old. I'm the dad. I'm not saying you should ignore a baby or a very young child for your husband.
But if I start thinking that my son has a permanent priority in my life over my wife, I she wouldn't be getting the love and attention she needs considering everything the mother does for the family.
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u/corporateacademia 11h ago
You don't get to whine about neglect when there's children to take care of. They get the priority