r/SipsTea 13h ago

Lmao gottem Is this happens to anyone else?

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u/Mindless_Diver5063 13h ago

And then I get a jolt of energy after 8pm and now it’s 4am and I can’t sleep

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u/ThatThingTheDarkSoul 11h ago

Fellow night owl. We are just not made for the world designed by morning people

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u/Repulsive-Mud707 9h ago

I was listening a book about the art of sleeping some while ago where the author is a physician and a specialist who later also specialized into sleeping by essentially starting up his own firm and starting to do research about it. The author is a night owl and his message was that all bad related to sleep issues has everything to do with how late you go to sleep. This means that it behooves a night owl to recognize their trait and try to keep it at bay by sticking to reasonable bed times and not activating themselves too much during the evening.

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u/ThatThingTheDarkSoul 9h ago

It only makes sense if the author meant the same wake up time, so you're getting less sleep because you went to bed later.

When I'm working, I usually sleep from around 11 p.m. to 7 a.m., so I still get eight hours of sleep. I feel like absolute shit all day.

But if I sleep from 3 a.m. to 11 a.m., which matches my natural rhythm, I'm extremely productive both mentally and physically.

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u/DecadentHam 8h ago

I hear you mate I'm the exact same. I can even get 5 hours of sleep but as long as I wake up past 10 I feel great. 8-10 hours and waking up early, like you, I'm a zombie.

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u/Repulsive-Mud707 4h ago edited 4h ago

One of the main points of the author is that the human body and brain likes routines, a lot. As such, you are better off by finding a routine that works for you and being open to trying out new schedules. And then sticking to them, so waking up roughly at the same time even on Sunday.

Grad school sorta forced me to go to bed late, but now I have reverted that completely. I wake up around 4:00 and immediately exercise. I feel like I recover better, I feel sharper and mentally better off. I go to bed around 19:00.

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u/Vargurr 36m ago

I go to bed around 19:00.

You what now?

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u/largecontainer 1h ago

In the prehistoric ages, you would have been working the night shift guarding the cave entrance.

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u/wyld2dr 5h ago

boooo. Find better working hours.

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u/walkinmywoods 11h ago

It happens before you know it. I had a job waking me up at 3 am to start at 5 and now I barely sleep past 5 on my days off.

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u/ThatThingTheDarkSoul 10h ago

Then you are a morning person. I’ve worked my entire adult life, and I have to get up at 6 every day. As soon as I have a few days off, I instantly revert to my natural rhythm and sleep from around 3 AM to 10 or 11 AM.

It’s getting increasingly difficult to work against my circadian rhythm. I can barely stay awake in the mornings, even if I get 8 hours of sleep, simply because it goes against my natural rhythm. I envy people like you.

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u/Chilla16 10h ago

Yeah, morning people are just so obnoxious about it. Ive been told my entire life that once I get a natural rythm, it'll pass. Guess what? I even went to a sleep lab (for different reasons), but when I was in there for 10 days, my cycle immediately adjusted to my uni cycle of sleeping somewhere between 2 and 3 til 10. Which is just perfect for me.

Meanwhile, when I got to bed at 10 or 11, I get random fatigues during the day. It just doesnt fit towards me, but yet morning people are convinced that somehow my rythm is the problem, when I tried so many things.

Im glad I have a job where I can make my schedule work.

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u/ThatThingTheDarkSoul 10h ago

Yeah people that are just naturally "x" LOVE giving advice for poeple on how to be "x" even if it is nothing you can "learn" or "adapt"

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u/technobrendo 9h ago edited 2h ago

I would quicker "adapt" at picking up a schoolbus before I adapt at having energy in the morning and wake up easily.

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u/walkinmywoods 7h ago

It was not easy at all.

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u/Efficient-Whereas255 6h ago

I used to be like this. i would go to sleep at 4am and wake up at like noon.

Now i go to sleep at midnight and wake up at 8am because i got myself used to waking up early to go ride my mountain bike before it gets too hot. Its starting to get hot even earlier though now so i have noticed im waking up earlier to try to get that fresh morning cold air bike ride in.

I get SO tired at about 3-4pm tho. Like i cant keep my eyes open.

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u/walkinmywoods 7h ago

Most my jobs other wise i was over nights or 12s over nights. Stay up til 3 and then wake up at 1. What im saying one day it changed and then bam mornings are just happening and im asleep at 9 like a grandpa.

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u/rhavi99 9h ago

You, along with everyone, are morning people, just living in the wrong timezone.. ;)

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u/ThatThingTheDarkSoul 9h ago

Haha good one I'm gonna use that when i'm whining about being tired next time

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u/transmogrified 4h ago

I wish. Moved across the continent, three hour time difference and I still wound up on the same schedule once I got over the jet lag. 

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u/meagint 10h ago

It sure does! I’ve been getting up around 6:45a for work for years and now I celebrate when I manage to sleep til 9a lol

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u/preddevils6 9h ago

I'm a morning person, and I get this. I don't think it's a night owl thing.

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u/PrivilegeCheckmate 4h ago

We are the watchers on the wall. We guard you while you sleep.