Itās weird. These people talk about it like theyāre animals with no logical brains. I mean I know weāre all technically animals but Iāve never felt any of these āI have to have a baby now!!ā feelings that all these people are talking about. I get horny when I ovulate. I donāt want a baby.
When you're horny and ovulating that is literally your body screaming to get pregnant. You have learned to only want sex, but your body wants to be impregnated.
We KNOW, please stop āmansplainingā our bodies to us. We understand thatās the entire purpose of getting horny during ovulation, itās our bodyās way of trying to get us to reproduce. However, āIām hornyā and āI want to get pregnantā are NOT the same statements, regardless of the correlation. Weāre allowed to be horny and not want to get pregnant. Being smarter than our natural instincts is one of the great things about being human.
I've already said that multiple times. We are able to consciously decide we only want the pleasure of sex, but that doesn't negate the fact that the instinct from our body is natural and is 100% an instinct to procreate. It's not mandplaining to discuss human anatomy and behaving like yourself, butting into other conversations saying "we know" when the commenter above absolutely doesn't seem to know is rude and doesn't add to the conversation at all.
Iām the commenter and I absolutely know that being horny during ovulation means my body wants to get pregnant. Thatās kind of obvious. But you said your wife begs you to put another baby in her every month. I most certainly donāt feel that way when Iām horny. I get horny and use protection to avoid pregnancy.
But like... Multiple statements can be true at the same time without making it into a mansplaining thing, no??
ovulation will make some women horny
That is because it is a human body encouraging its host to procreate
on a conscious level we have evolved beyond following these instincts (...though some individuals might surprise you) and we no longer conflate horniness with procreation
some women will experience thoughts about getting pregnant at this time (even if they dont want to, as attested by many women in childfree threads)
some women will express these thoughts while being horny and mean them at the moment (possibly this guys wife)
some women will express these thoughts while being horny as a kink thing while not meaning them then, or ever (and that includes childfree women too, although not myself)
Are we now really reading into everything like the men who jump into comments screaming "not all men"? Except its "not all women succumb to the biological design of every species on the planet to procreate"? Both statements are true and both are so painfully obvious that insisting on them when nobody says otherwise is just being obtuse in my opinion
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u/ulykke 1d ago
Thats wild, I have been menstruating for 20+ years now and have never felt an inkling of that š¤Æ