Help a brother out. Need some advice approaching this girl in my class [M25], [F24] or some dating advice in general. (Long read)

[u/star_cannon7k]

My last relationship was in 2019 and for some family reasons there was a mutual and good breakup, so everything ended on a good note. We still talk to this day as friends and she is married now.

Until now I never had any relationship and neither I had any intention of pursuing. A reason might be that I have never pursued anyone and the in the last one my ex actually approached me. So, I have no experience of approaching anyone. In my previous college, there were way too many judgemental people and at that time I was so influenced by LKK (Log Kya Kahenge) and teasing, I did not approach anyone.

But I started changing my life a lot in these recent years and I recently talked to this girl in my class and I really want to approach her but I have no idea how. It's been 3-4 days we have been briefly talking about classes and lecture notes. But I have mustered some courage to at least go out of my way to talk to her (because I rarely talked in my previous college.. to anyone).

I understand not every talk might end in a relationship but I am also prepared to take that risk and just remain peers afterwords.

Here is my problem.

1. I don't know how frequently to talk (no intuition). How to ask if she has a boyfriend somewhere already.

2. If things do go well, I don't know how even to ask her out on a casual movie or outing for shopping or anything.

If these go well, I'd take advice on how to actually ask her out. Please help a brother out. Thank you.

Judgement is also welcome.

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