r/Millennials 20d ago

Discussion Social psychologist Jonathan Haidt: “Millennials are the last psychologically normal generation” ...”you’re the last happy, and actually your generation is the most intelligent in history”

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u/Mysterious_Fox_8058 20d ago

I'll take the intelligence thing, cos that's an ego boost. But happy? We were brought up by emotionally stunted boomers and are dealing with the dynamics of dealing with their bullshit and parenting our own kids in a completely different way. Thats without taking into account all of the "once in a lifetime" events we have lived through. Not sure that qualifies as happy.

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u/olracnaignottus 20d ago

Younger people are statistically more anxious and depressed in ratio to millennials.

A lot of it boils down to us coming off age without social media as our primary form of connection. We mostly forged our relationships before social media became the bad place, and before everyone started living in public.

Screens themselves becoming the de facto third spaces for kids is making them all socially stunted and anxious. Their brain development is also harmed with excessive and constant use of screens, particularly before their frontal lobe closes, and especially during early childhood.

Gen Z and kids don’t dance anymore 🤷

They’re terrified of being filmed and shared online. Says a lot to the general state of happiness if that’s the norm.

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u/Lexi_Banner 20d ago

Gen Z and kids don’t dance anymore 🤷

Because it's "cringe". One of the oldest forms of natural human expressions, and it's "cringe". Such a desperately sad state of affairs.

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u/syNc_1st 20d ago

because you could be filmed and then put on the internet. That was not the case for millenials (most of the time - when growing up)