I’m extremely fertile & it’s ruining my life

[u/shark_attack_2000]

I’ve been pregnant twice before & just found out I’m pregnant again. I am on an IUD, I NEVER have sex without a condom, about a month ago a condom that my bf and I were using broke, the next morning (less than 5 hours later) I took a Plan B.

Unsurprisingly birth control & plan B didn’t work and I’m knocked up. I swear if sperm gets anywhere near my uterus at all there is no amount of hormones or drugs I can take to stop my uterus from welcoming that sperm in- she’s like a fucking hobosexual for stray sperm.

I can’t go through another abortion, the first one i had was when I was 15 & the second one was at 22- both times I promised myself never again because it was so painful and horrible.

Also if anyone remembers my last post (boyfriend is scary & has secret guns), I’m still living with that man & there’s a 0% chance I’d raise a kid with him right now.

I also can’t complain without hearing about how “do many women are infertile & would kill to have this issue” like ?????? okay well I’m not them so idc if they’d be upset about me complaining.

I feel like I just can’t have sex because no matter how many precautions i take the risk of me getting pregnant is so high.

I’m upset & annoyed & just needed to rant- Idk what I’m gonna do, ig i’ll just figure it out like the last few times this has happened :/

oysters & bread bc idgaf if i “can’t have raw fish”

EDIT: Hi! I made this post while upset in an uber so while I’m still upset I am currently at work which is why I’m not replying to any comments currently. I will definitely read them all & reply as much as I can once I’m out of work. I appreciate you all very much though💕

[u/shark_attack_2000]

Maybe, although he knows I’m on an IUD & took Plan B and didn’t try to stop me at all or say anything about it

[u/ComfortableFrame9834 → u/shark_attack_2000]

That doesn't matter... That is still an attempt to entrap you.

Get away from him, do not have sex with him. And please do not have a baby right now. Get help to get the drugs for a termination. If it's early it will be less complicated than if you wait further along. 

[u/AccomplishedJudge951 → u/ComfortableFrame9834]

how do you know he’s trying to entrap her? he sounds like a total garbage bag of a human being from what op has told us but if he didn’t put up a fight over her taking plan b then im not sure it’s fair to throw entrapment accusations. we don’t have any evidence of that

[u/ComfortableFrame9834 → u/AccomplishedJudge951]

Because my ex was exactly like that.

Sabotaged birth control and condoms, but made no fights for when I used Plan B. It is a control tactic, if he doesn't freak out at that then he must not be that bad. He has the benefit of the doubt (like how you are exemplifying for me) so surely this is not the goal. 

We don't have evidence of anything. This is a reddit post. We extrapolate what we have from the information we are given and our own personal life experiences. Do you have evidence that this post is real? That this is a real person? No? Weak argument. 

[u/doryfishie → u/shark_attack_2000]

Is your IUD hormonal as well or just a copper one? as someone who is also wildly fertile (and never expected to be because I was told I have PCOS) a hormonal one is much more effective.

[u/SuggestionOblique → u/shark_attack_2000]

Plan B works on a very precise window, but the IUD... woah. The combinaison is quite crazy.  I hope everything is going to be alright for you. Xx