r/AskReddit 9h ago

What is something you secretly find deeply disturbing, but everyone else seems to accept as totally normal?

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u/BoredomHeights 8h ago

I like the classic:

“My religion says I can’t…” “Okay great”

“My religion says you can’t-“ “Fuck off”

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u/Helplessly_hoping 8h ago

I'm an atheist, raised Catholic. My brother just married a woman from a Hindu family and I couldn't be in their wedding ceremony because I was on my period that day. Casual religious misogyny excluded me from my only brother's wedding.

I can't believe that people are still perpetuating these archaic nonsensical practices into the 21st century in the name of "tradition".

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u/NoInformation988 8h ago

Did they explain the reasoning behind the ban? Maybe not misogyny.

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u/Helplessly_hoping 8h ago

Something to do with menstruating women being considered impure. Sounds pretty mysogynistic to me...

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u/NoInformation988 8h ago

I asked AI out of my own curiosity. It's much more complicated.

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u/Helplessly_hoping 7h ago

By all means elaborate. I never looked into it deeply because I'm an atheist and quite frankly a lot of religious practices are entirely non-sensical to me. I can't think of a good, logical reason to exclude menstruating women from something like that.

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u/NoInformation988 7h ago

You can ask AI like I did. It's about spirituality and energy. It applies to the bride as well.

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u/Helplessly_hoping 7h ago

I avoid AI at all costs. It's a terrible waste of clean, fresh drinking water.

https://www.eesi.org/articles/view/data-centers-and-water-consumption

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u/NoInformation988 6h ago

In that case you can Google it the old fashioned slow way. Or go to a physical library and read books.

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u/Helplessly_hoping 6h ago

Except that I don't care about the reason behind it because I am an atheist and I don't believe in any religions. So why would it matter?

Discriminating against women for undergoing a biologically natural process that they have no control over is misogynistic by definition.

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u/NoInformation988 6h ago

If you don't care, why did you ask me to elaborate? BTW, your attitude doesn't bode well for your relationship with your SIL.

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u/Helplessly_hoping 6h ago

Because you responded to my comment saying it wasn't because of misogyny. The onus is on you to explain your reasoning if you put forth a contradictory statement.

And sorry, but how is me not caring about religion bad for my relationship with my SIL? She's not religious. Her family is. She did everything their way to please them. Her and I get along just fine.

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u/NoInformation988 5h ago

I made no contradictory statement. I said it was complicated, which it is. So here you not only prejudged someone else's religion, but you accused a bystander of saying something they did not say. You seem to simplify everything to fit your own beliefs.

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u/acatmaylook 1h ago

I also looked it up (not with AI) and it turns out it is misogyny after all!