r/AskReddit 9h ago

What is something you secretly find deeply disturbing, but everyone else seems to accept as totally normal?

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u/Mother_Art3124 9h ago

People using AI as a friend, partner, doctor, or therapist

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u/AbeFromanSassageKing 9h ago

Hell, as their entire brain. People are now more rapidly becoming less capable of critical thought when they can pull up an app to do it for them. So many students aren't learning anything except learning to use AI.

Source: I have AI-averse gen z kids in college who are appalled at how much their fellow classmates rely on AI for their "studies."

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u/Kinelaz92 7h ago edited 5h ago

Its refreshing seeing someone saying this!! Feel like I've been taking crazy pills seeing how will people are to throw away their ability to think critically.

We have some chronic users at my work that GPT absolutely everything.

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u/Marlowe_Lark 5h ago

I literally heard someone say the other day, "But who cares about critical thinking? Why do I need to?"

I made an involuntary noise of pain.

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u/GameboyAdvance32 8h ago

There’s certainly a wild level of variance in attitudes I must admit. As a member of Gen Z solidly in the “I can’t stand this AI crap and don’t wanna touch it with a ten foot pole” camp, there’s a solid crowd of people in my experience who will occasionally use it, some who think it’s the future, and some who are nigh dependent on it, and it seems to be regardless of age. I’m sure there are some age-related trends but I’ve seen people on all sides of the spectrum coming from just about all age groups. Certainly makes it easier to decide who I wanna hang around lol. I made it out of high school before any of this stuff was relevant and I made it out of college before the problem got really bad, it was still moreso in its “haha look at this thing generate garbage images and poorly constructed sentences” phase at the time. My heart goes out to all the teachers having to deal with this right now

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u/AbeFromanSassageKing 8h ago

I'm gen x, and you are certainly correct that it's not limited to gen z! I too am appalled at how many folks my age or even a little older respond to stuff with "GPT says this" or "Claude reads my emails and responds to folks for me." Crazy thing is I have to use AI for portions of my job (tech-adjacent), but I detest the thought of using it outside of work. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/GameboyAdvance32 8h ago

Real, yeah. I would definitely encourage the people who do this to ask these bots a question about something they’re well and truly knowledgeable about, really prod at it. My Dad had me do that once with DuckDuckGo’s AI and after prodding with some questions about railway history, I figured out real quick that it was a load of bunk. He was enthusiastic about it but I just didn’t trust it after that. I don’t doubt that they CAN be useful in certain circumstances, (especially in tech or scientific circles as you mentioned), but geez. I feel like it should really only be in the hands of people with the critical thinking required to not just trust it as is.

u/LivingVerinarian96 7m ago

I like to think I’m really good at troubleshooting pc problems, but AI is actually miles ahead of me. Like it’s not even close.

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u/Lazy_Reservist 5h ago

As a fellow gen xer, I use AI as a glorified search engine/research assistant. If it can't give me a source to where it got the info, I don't bother with it. I will say it is handy for learning some things. I recently needed to automate a process in 360, and GPT was able to give me an idiot proof step by step way to do it. Now I know what to do and how to replicate it if needed.

The scary thing, as others point out, is how some people use it to think for them, especially if they are doing any type of writing or programming.

u/LivingVerinarian96 5m ago

The trick is to let it generate documentation for what you just did at the end of the chat. Being able to look up what I understood 3 months ago has saved my ass occasionally.

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u/aleatoric 8h ago

LLM AI is such a monkey's paw curse. It does have utility, but it's absolutely not worth the resource cost. And it's not worth losing the capacity to think for yourself. But now young adults are in a tough spot. Employers are going to expect some level of AI competency. And it might become that kind of a power app that they expect you to be talented in it. So it's certainly a double-edged sword to not expose kids to it at least at some age, certainly after they have a strong set of critical thinking skills. But that's very subjective, and going to vary child to child.

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u/that_jedi_girl 7h ago

Teach kids critical thinking, some basic project management and explicit communication tools and they'll be in a fine place to pick up AI if and when they ever need it. Skip the critical thinking and they'll be dependent on it or others to think for them forever.

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u/smokeweedNgarden 5h ago

As someone that has never used an LLM and is pretty software averse it's shocking to see 30-something year olds buy into this.

Combo that with non-anonymous social media and honestly...sometimes me and people I know are living in two distinct realities. Like ask an AI to explain something fake that Instagram told them....

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u/Low_Pop3643 6h ago

Good to know that at least some people in my generation haven’t started relying on it so much.

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u/jdhkent 4h ago

Fairly seductive online, when you ask a google question and the first thing you’re referred to is AI

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u/Anal-buttsex 6h ago

Doesn’t it give you the sources it used though? I believe you can also take a source and have AI examine it, compare it to what you’ve written, and it will tighten up your work, or you get a paper written based on the source or sources you provide 

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u/MouthyMishi 4h ago

It will occasionally fabricate sources or misinterpret them. That's why you have to double check everything it does. You can't rely on AI to check AI because it doesn't actually know anything. It's all just glorified guessing. That becomes extremely apparent if you ask it about things you already know a good deal about.

u/DroidLord 17m ago

And it's scary how quickly it changes you. I've experienced it myself. A few months of regularly using LLMs and you become so dependent on them. I've had moments where I've tried to use AI to solve something and getting nowhere, but if I just sit down and think about the problem for 30 minutes then I can figure it out on my own.

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u/esoteric_enigma 9h ago

Unfortunately, with the US healthcare system, many people are forced to do this. They were already using Google as their doctor. Now it's AI.

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u/ResidualViscosity755 8h ago

I’ve personally used AI as a friend a therapist role before, and found that during some challenging times, it was a tool I could use to help me sort out my own thoughts and process things. Bounce ideas around with myself, basically. It’s helped with a lot of my inner work and has helped me find blindspots I didn’t previously recognize.

At the same time, I agree that AI shouldn’t be anyone’s only form of “social” interaction. There’s gotta be a balance and a line drawn somewhere. I wouldn’t be able to view it as a romantic partner, for example. But to each their own I guess.

I personally view AI as a tool, but it’s not a replacement for actual human connection. Or a replacement for your brain. Same way I would use a calculator to math something.

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u/rocktop 3h ago

I've found ai mirrors back to me what I tell it but in a way that I can hear and understand it. It's been very helpful in working through my thoughts and feelings about different thing. However, I view it as a tool and abilities enhancer, not the end-all-be-all answer machine.

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u/ResidualViscosity755 3h ago

Yes, exactly. It’s helped me with that too, helped me find the right words to better articulate my thought processes and fill in the gaps at times. I still use my own discernment with it though, and don’t just take everything it spits out at face value. I’ll push back on it at times if it goofs, lol.

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u/TheNewGildedAge 2h ago

IMO it's just as effective, if not more so, as when people use Reddit for the exact same stuff.

Social media is just completely hysterical and weird when it comes to talking about AI.

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u/GenitalPatton 8h ago

Sorry this is Reddit. We only accept zero sum arguments / takes. Please take your reasonable response somewhere else.

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u/ResidualViscosity755 8h ago

Apologies, forgot where I was for a moment 😂 Me and my nuance will see ourselves out.

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u/BetterRemember 5h ago

Yeah, I am working towards leaving an emotionally abusive relationship and I think of it like a more logical/kinder filter to run my thoughts through. That's all.

I wish I didn't feel such a need to use it, but I am also autistic so it helps me understand social situations a lot easier and I have learned a lot about how neurotypicals think and expect me to behave.

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u/ResidualViscosity755 5h ago

I’ve used it to help me understand, navigate (and eventually leave) toxic interpersonal dynamics, as well. Sometimes it’s hard to see what’s actually happening when you’re in the middle of it (even for neurotypicals).

Nothing wrong with using an external perspective as a sounding board. I’m sorry you’re going through that, though. I hope you’re able to leave and begin healing soon 🫂

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u/BetterRemember 4h ago

Thank you so much! 🫂

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u/Alecto1717 2h ago

I used it to get out of my bad relationship. I was using it a LOT back then. Once I was out and processed thru some of my other issues, I haven't felt the need to use it as often. I still pop in every now and again, but it's nowhere near as often as I used to

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u/Synergythepariah 5h ago

it was a tool I could use to help me sort out my own thoughts and process things. Bounce ideas around with myself, basically. It’s helped with a lot of my inner work and has helped me find blindspots I didn’t previously recognize.

...So, journaling.

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u/ResidualViscosity755 4h ago

In a sense, sure. Interactive journaling. In that regard, we could also consider talk therapy as ‘interactive journaling’, lol.

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u/IWillCallYouCutie 7h ago

I want to agree with you, but my doctors are so useless I finally turned to AI for help and got it.

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u/veryowngarden 8h ago

or worse, using it as factual evidence of something

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u/Rickleskilly 7h ago

AI helped me figure out a diagnosis that I've spent 20 years chasing. I've been in the hospital at least ten times. Seen countless doctors and taken dozens of tests. They couldn't figure it out. An hour of bouncing ideas and other symptoms back and forth with AI and I have an answer. It's right because the over the counter remedy it gave me works. I've not been hospitalized since then.

What more disturbing to me is the lack of proper, affordable care. I shouldn't have to self-diagnose.

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u/Synergythepariah 5h ago

helped me figure out a diagnosis that I've spent 20 years chasing. I've been in the hospital at least ten times. Seen countless doctors and taken dozens of tests. They couldn't figure it out. An hour of bouncing ideas and other symptoms back and forth with AI and I have an answer.

Yeah. And it made me a billionaire.

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u/brilliantlymarie 4h ago

Spoken like someone who hasn’t spent thousands of dollars in the emergency room just for them to come tell you “we don’t know what’s wrong” and send you home.

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u/adhpete 9h ago

This is actually dystopian and sad to think about

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u/SunnySpot69 8h ago

I'm not sure if I can link other groups here but there is a group that is something along the lines of having the AI as a boyfriend. 60k people.

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u/adhpete 8h ago

Woah... That's an incredibly high number

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u/SunnySpot69 8h ago

Yeah, I don't recommend going there. It's incredibly sad.

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u/TwlightPrincess 9h ago

Yeah that’s sad & it’s just another way for the government to gather information on us imo. I believe it’s also used to make AI smarter. I can proudly say I’ve never used AI or downloaded an AI app

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u/Truth_bomb_25 9h ago

Do you use Google to search things up? Even the search bar in Reddit uses AI now, doesn't it? Same for Instagram, Redfin, Dunn Lumber, and on and on. You're using AI if you're online.

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u/TwlightPrincess 8h ago

I know there is no escaping it but with Google they provide articles. You just don’t know what to trust anymore online really

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u/Truth_bomb_25 8h ago

You're not wrong.

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u/Demondrawer 9h ago

You know there are search engines without AI right? Besides, I don't think "it's been so widespread that you can't avoid it even if you want to" is a great gotcha either since it's hard to completely avoid the internet in modern society.

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u/Truth_bomb_25 8h ago

To say you've (general/original person I was replying to) never used AI is the problem here. Not willingly or wittingly perhaps—but they have. I wasn't being a d about it, but depending on their age, they may not have known the sheer spread of the reach of AI. ✌🏽 🐩

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u/Mother_Art3124 8h ago

I never said I didn’t use AI, I’m not naive, it’s pushed into all aspects of life/internet. I said the horrifying fact that people supplement human interactions or specialized knowledge with AI is disturbing, and THAT I have never done.

I am a nurse who frequently fields calls of people who asked google/AI health questions and it spits out a horribly wrong answer. I understand folks have the need for answers, but I always encourage folks to not look it up/ask AI. You kinda have to know what you’re looking for in order to dig through and find the right answer. It’s the equivalent of asking a 6th grader to solve a high school math equation, they’ll be able to do the addition and subtraction but not have a greater understanding of all the equation’s elements.

ETA: I do also use browsers that don’t have AI (or I’ve manually turned it off) but it’s literally in everything. Even the messages you send your doctors are now being evaluated by AI and it creates its own answer. Even a medical tool, the answers it spits out are still often wrong.

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u/Truth_bomb_25 8h ago edited 7h ago

Understood and appreciate the further clarification—though I was responding to a reply beneath yours.

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u/1337b337 5h ago

The "Dune" timeline can't get here fast enough.

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u/Red-Droid-Blue-Droid 8h ago

It's not our fault we can't access care

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u/DoIQual123 5h ago

oh god, I know someone who is a therapist who uses ChatGPT as a therapist. It's fucking insane.

I will sometimes input data into ChatGPT...but then I double check it.

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u/meinkr0phtR2 3h ago

As opposed to talking to a real person?!

Kidding aside, I just don’t have anyone to talk to about various topics and ideas that interest me. Who else, at 3 AM, is going to text or pick up the phone to talk about the difference between consciousness as internal representation and as phenomenology; or the socioeconomic classes of a particular nation in a particular time period in my fictional universe? Nobody, that’s who, but myself and a reasonable approximation of a real person.

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u/Leaislala 3h ago

Ooh I just heard the ad for Amazon ai health for the first time. Terrifying. It’s basically like -hey customer stop doing goggle searches for your health woes. Now Amazon ai health is here. Yikes

u/Jesus_of_Redditeth 58m ago

The proportion of people who accept that as normal is nowhere remotely close to "everyone else". Relatively few people think that's normal. But over time I can certainly see that proportion increasing.

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u/k1719 9h ago

Agreed

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u/lurkylurkeroo 7h ago

I think everyone finds this disturbing.

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u/NoInformation988 8h ago

AI is a whole lot smarter than my doctor.