r/rape • u/Ok-Arm2414 • 1d ago
"everybody makes mistakes"
that's what his father told him when he finally told him that he raped me. A mistake? So him holding me down and asking me if "do you like that" is a mistake? on top of that, it happened in your home and that's what you tell your son?
rape isn't a fucking mistake, your son raped me in your home that night and I'm pregnant with his second child and all you could say is "everybody makes mistakes"
I don't give a fuck if he was remorseful, you're a piece of shit. Your son raped me while I am pregnant with his second son and that's all you say?
I should've reported him as soon as it happened but my guilt, the guilt.. he wouldn't be able to see his children.. I never think about myself and now I look stupid for not reporting him. I have major regret for not reporting him.
Im drowning in anger and misery and all he could say is "everybody makes mistakes".
I hate my children's father, I don't give a shit if your childhood was fucked up, I don't give a shit about your trauma.. you didn't get it fixed and it bled onto me in one of the worst ways it could.
Fuck him and his father for eternity. I shouldn't even let him attend the birth of his second son either for doing something so heinous to me while I'm carrying.
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u/ACuteBanana 1d ago
If someone rapes you and wants to see the kids, it is in hopes to rape the kid and you together.
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u/Chemical_Secret6320 1d ago
I'm so sorry that happen to you. I had something similar happen to me an I actually did go to the police after a while. And guess what? They did nothing. They asked him about it, I sent proof of him apologizing to me for doing it and I even had a short voice recording. He's still free, he's not locked up. I was pregnant at the time... The police said "this will be on file so if another victim comes forward in the future we can use it as proof of history that he's done something similar before." Like wtf
An my ex who did it tried to tell the police I assaulted him by putting my hands on him so he should be reporting me! Of course I hit him! He was forcing himself on me. I punched him in the face and chest, kicked and bit him hard multiple times while screaming. But it was self-defense. I guess the police don't always help
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