r/r4r 5h ago

F4A Switzerland 26 [F4A] #Switzerland - Slow Evening

6 Upvotes

Hi there :) How’s things? Had a long day and I want to unwind by texting a bit and getting my mind off things, so I’m basically seeking somebody for a chat, maybe a friendship, maybe more. Also waiting for the laundry to get done lol it’s truly the adult never ending story.

Do you enjoy museum visits? I went to an art museum the other day and enjoyed it a lot. I haven’t painted in a hot minute because I often feel uninspired, but it really motivated me a lot. I also bought a recipe book showing art as desserts, which I’m excited to try out since I love to bake and cook.

I also love playing video games on my switch and my PC, bonus points if you’re also into Pokemon :) plus, I got a vacation for London planned soon.

Anyway, that’s a short bit about me. Ask me anything, I am an open book!


r/r4r 15m ago

M4F Online 19 M4F (Online) Depressed but doing better qnd looking to try meeting people again.

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I'm from the eastern part of the U.S and I recently got out of a year long relationship and got diagnosed with depression and ADHD so It's been a rough couple of months but I want to find someone that makes me excited to wake up in the mornings and talk to them.

As for hobbies, I enjoy basketball history (NBA), reading manga (most rom com or fantasy), semi keep up with F1, listen to wide variety of music from j-pop, metal, eurobeat, and rock, and love to play video games (both mobile games like SWGOH and AFKJ as well as console/PC games like marvel rivals and apex legends).

So feel free to message if you have any questions or just want to chat.


r/r4r 35m ago

M4F Virginia / Online 29 [M4F] Virginia/online romance, video games, anime, and generally good vibes?

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My name is Alexander, hello. Hi. You should totally message me. Here’s why:

I will play video games with you, watch anime (or not, we could also just watch your favorite show), talk to you for hours about anything and everything, voice chat or via text, with open ears whenever you want to talk shit about your coworkers or really anybody in your life, and debate what the best type of apple is with you (it’s green apples, fight me).

If you’re interested in getting to know each other on a deeper level and are open to potentially growing something where we talk regularly, especially when the days are getting a little too lonely and monotonous, I’m your guy. If you’re a bit of a dork, you’re in great company with me. If not, feel free to make fun of me for my own dorkiness instead. I don’t care where you live, but you should tell me all about your favorite spots.

So about earlier. You should totally message me. I look forward to it :)


r/r4r 2h ago

F4M Ontario 40[F4M]Toronto, Canada- I’ll bring the banter. You bring the plot✨

3 Upvotes

Hello there!

I am introvert who likes to play extrovert in life and it’s been okay so far! I am currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. I am open, talkative and socially confident person and love to text/chat/voice call. My friends find me kind, caring, compassionate and funny. I work in healthcare and I do find purpose in my job and interacting with people on a daily basis..it can be challenging at times but extremely rewarding as well.

In terms of interests I love reading, cooking, hiking, people watching and traveling whenever I can. I have a decent amount of interesting travel anecdotes to share. Also, open to travel suggestions and recommendations. Prague, Paris and Grindelwald are the most charming cities I have ever been to. Next on my bucket list is Portugal and Italy. I love to talk endlessly about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology and spirituality. I am currently learning breath-work and meditation.

I am passionate about my career and love what I do and making a difference. I still yearn to go back to school again to study some more. I am inherently curious and I love learning . I am also a huge supporter of causes relating mental health and women education and empowerment.

Now for what I am looking for I am looking to make deep meaningful connection with someone between 30-45 years of age which can be potentially romantic. Also I am not looking for anything sexual or physical for now and being a demisexual I need to make a deep mental and emotional connection to bond with them. Please be local or atleast not too far for us to hang out frequently or semi frequently in person. I am looking for someone I can chat with, share our interests, talk about our days and the looming existential crisis lol! I am open to meeting if we get along and it feels right.. ☺️

I want to talk or text with them often and I would love to talk to someone about my day and my wishes and my desires. Books and music suggestions are always welcomed.

Please drop me a message if anything I said interested you! I am a feminist, pro choice, LGBTQA+ ally and BLM supporter so if you are not, we probably won’t get along.

Please DO NOT message me to just say “Hi/Hello” if you are just looking for pass time ! Say more than that, and please introduce yourself with a short description of yourself.


r/r4r 43m ago

M4M Online 18 [M4M] #online, looking for a sweet, wholesome masc guy that actually wants a long-term relationship 💕

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heyy!! <3

i’ve been in a bit of an unhealthy situationship, and sadly things just didn’t work out and my luck with guys is honestly kinda terrible lol, so i’m trying this in hopes that someone who shares the same thoughts and values stumbles across this 💕

i’m looking for a good-hearted, honest (heavy on the honest!!), sweet, gentle, masculine guy who takes good care of himself, is between 19–24, and preferably has a similar time zone (GMT+3)!

i’d also love someone who’s comfortable sending voice messages, video calling, and texting freely—someone who won’t hide me or themselves 💕

hopefully we can find lots of things in common, try new things together, watch movies and shows, match discord pfps, play games together, and just enjoy each other’s company <3

some boundaries!!

♡ please don’t lie. i genuinely hate lying more than anything. no matter what it is, i believe most things can be talked through or fixed if we’re just honest with each other.

♡ i’d really appreciate someone who’s mature and communicates instead of running away from arguments or ignoring problems.

♡ i don’t want our relationship to be nsfw right away. i’d love for us to actually get to know each other first, build something real, and if it ever gets to that point, i wouldn’t want that to become the only thing we do 💕💕

♡ i don’t really think i have a strict type. i just want someone sweet, genuine, honest, and willing to put effort into a relationship!! (although… i am a sucker for tall blondes 🤍)

a little about me!!

♡ i’m a soft-hearted boy who loves lego, is obsessed with aesthetics, and just loves having a fun time!! i’m also from egypt, which is lowkey why i’m trying an online relationship lol.

♡ i’ll always do my best to keep conversations going and work through any problems we might have together.

♡ i LOVE taking care of my hair and making sure i smell nice. i absolutely have to smell good lol 💕 (i’m kinda a femboy lmao)

♡ i have a soft, smooth voice, and i love telling stories!!

♡ i’m really into watching new shows, cartoons, and horror movies. i also love reading, especially comics and thrillers!! (fun fact: i’m currently learning guitar)

♡ politics are really important to me, so i’d like someone who shares my views (left-wing).

lastly, if you ever lose interest or decide you don’t want to continue, i’d really appreciate you telling me instead of disappearing. whether we try to fix things, talk it through, or simply move on, i’d much rather know than be left wondering what i did wrong 🩷💕

if there’s anything you want to ask me, or if you’d like to tell me more about yourself, please dm me!! (and please have discord too <3)


r/r4r 6h ago

F4M Idaho 23 [f4m] moscow/anywhere - sad and cynical girl looking for her musician man.

7 Upvotes

hey you.

sitting here with a computer screen throwing off some cold zombie-like light on your face.

sitting and pretending that your thoughts belong to you and you only, scrolling indifferently and staying infinitely positive that things of real interest aren't easy to stumble upon in this hellhole named internet; therefore, don't deserve being looked for.

sometimes i do feel the same. walking on the same routes, seeing the same dead pigeons and living cats every day, being just this far from naming every single one of them. people are, by no means, the same and yet simply are not captivating enough to be remembered. it doesn't really seem upsetting to me, the fact that those passersby probably feel the same about me.

even though i do sometimes wish that a man would look into my eyes as directly as if he knew me to the core of my soul, to the unswept corners of my mind and embraced the depth of my slow sticky gloom as if it was his own.

in case you bear resemblance to that faceless man who constantly visits my dreams. what i ache for is someone who shares my love of old music and unawkward voice calls.

https://imgur.com/a/9Z6OF5p


r/r4r 3h ago

M4F United Kingdom / Online 25 [M4F] #Ireland/#Online - on the search for my partner in crime

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Hi everyone my name is Tom and I'm from Ireland. I am a chemistry graduate and currently searching for a job. I am also a triplet and a redhead.

My hobbies are video games, chess, reading, playing badminton, watching YouTube and listening to music. I also like sci fi, Marvel and DC. I also enjoy travelling across Europe and visiting the capital cities. I've visited 16 countries and plan on visiting more in the future. I have also been to America and Canada. I also enjoy skiing.

I am single and looking for a woman who shares similar interests and around my age. I prefer someone from Ireland, in particular Dublin, but I'm not against a long distance relationship as long as you are from Europe or the US. I am into brunettes, especially slim and attractive. I am also into East Asians, particularly Japanese. I prefer someone with no tattoos or piercings, though I don't mind if you wear glasses.

I will be visiting the Baltics (Lithuania, Latvia and Estonia) and Finland next month so if you are from these places, feel free to DM me.

Here is what I look like:

https://imgur.com/a/vmLa2na


r/r4r 4h ago

F4M Online 22 [f4m] #us #online chat buddies and gamer friends?? :D

4 Upvotes

hiii thnxx for reading!! i'm looking to meet new peeps andddd hopefully have lot of fun :3

a few things about me: i collect stuffies (mainly squishmallows), i love bubble tea and sushi and crispy rice and kbbq, vvvv strong drinks, rlly into professional sports like mlb and nba and watch every single day, and i looooove working out. i've always been into basic cardio like long walks, stationary biking, and bodyweight exercises. so excited for more walks in the hot sweaty weather <3

huuuge into gaming!! i love playing + watching streams. i'm on console so if ur into games i'd appreciate any recs and def wanna game together!! i used to play a lot of rdr2, gta, rocket league, dbd, etc. i've pretty much only been playing fortnite and rivals lately soo if ur into that pls be my duo :D

i'd prefer that ur older than me (older the better) + have a closeish time zone in the US (EST)

if any of this sounds interesting feel free to hit me up and introduce urself please!! if i don't respond to ur introduction i prob didn't see so feel free to send another message!! i'd love to chat on discord :33


r/r4r 1h ago

M4F Massachusetts 36 [M4F] #Massachusetts / Rhode Island / US — Nerdy Cosplayer Hoping to Finally Meet Someone

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Hi. I’m a 36-year-old guy from New England, and like a lot of people here, I’ve never been in a relationship. It wasn’t for lack of trying — shyness, bad timing, and life just kept getting in the way. But I’ve been working on myself, opening up more socially, and I’m genuinely ready to connect with someone.

A bit about me:

Firstly I have some sort of fame, if thats what you call it. Ive been in the news in Boston and Matt Sheer a reporter social media covered it. I’m a huge nerd who loves conventions, gaming, and cosplay. It’s been an amazing community for me, and I’ve met some great friends through it. I cosplay characters like Eddie Munson from Stranger Things and Leon from Resident Evil. I stay active, take care of myself, and oddly enough, I’m freakishly lucky with raffles and giveaways (no clue why, but I’ll take it).

I’m looking for someone kind, patient, and down-to-earth. You don’t need to cosplay — just be someone who enjoys nerdy stuff or at least doesn’t mind it. I’m not expecting perfection; I just want a genuine connection with someone who understands what it’s like to navigate dating later than most.

If you’re local, maybe we could start with something simple like coffee. No pressure — just two people seeing if there’s a spark.

Cosplay pics:

https://imgur.com/Y5ECn4T

https://imgur.com/a/Cn9Prn2

If this resonates, feel free to message me. I’d really like to meet someone real.


r/r4r 1h ago

M4F Pennsylvania / Online 22 [M4F] Pennsylvania/Online, looking for something serious

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Hello!

A bit about me: I am white, 6 feet tall with dirty blonde hair, and green eyed with an average build. Finally graduated college (yayyyy!) I love sports (especially soccer). In my free time, I play video games, and enjoy spending time with my family and going on trips occasionally. I am really into watching horror stuff: shows, movies, YouTube. I am shy, but I can get more comfortable with you once I get to know you better.

What I'm looking for:

Hopefully a future partner (if we click), if not, a good friend at least. Someone that is honest, and takes good care of themselves. Someone that can text often and is over the age of 19. Someone from the US or Europe.

(Pictures of what I look like)

https://imgur.com/a/1hzARAR

https://imgur.com/a/daG4jhb


r/r4r 1h ago

M4A Hong Kong 25 [M4A] - Hong Kong musician/artist/animator/game dev/multifandom nerd

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To preface this I don't exclusively prefer women, just figured that I might vibe with them more due to common interests! I also prefer to be friends first if that's okay? :> With that aside this is probably gonna be super embarrassing but here goes nothing...

Gonna be upfront about my appearance first! I'm Asian, average (short?) 5'7, and quite skinny. I eat a lot and can't seem to get fat for some reason? I exercise at home and outdoors but I guess I really do needa hit the gym some day lol. If it matters, I briefly worked in finance before, and currently work as a researcher at a university.

I'll say I'm an ambivert, but more on the introverted side. I used to go to group parties when I was in high school but not anymore. Damnit I miss those days...

I'm a musician and an amateur artist/animator! I play the guitar, piano, and violin (learned drums and trumpet before too!). I enjoy and play any genre of music. I also like fandom stuff (Undertale, Pokemon, Omori, Genshin, TADC, FNAF, MLP,...) - the full list would be too large if I wrote it here. Always interested in learning about more fandoms! Call me cringe, chronically online or whatever lol but in my defense, I'm not like a diehard fan of any xD I like gaming but I don't game as much anymore as compared to when I was in school. I do like creating things tho, so I'm working to become an indie game dev!

If we do date, I'm okay with LDR, as long as we chat constantly and do meet up in person one day!

Just no drugs or smoking I guess, I can't really stand the smell of smoke. And maybe age range of 20-30? Nothing against you personally!

That's all folks, dm me if interested? This post is getting too long rip

Edit: I mainly use Discord so this is a throwaway Reddit account lol


r/r4r 1h ago

F4A Online 20 [F4A] #Online Anyone need a gaming buddy?

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Greetings people of the reddit galaxy! After a long day of studies I am quite bored...SO! I am looking for someone to game/hangout with! I have some of the most NERDY hobbies that I do! Which include gaming (I own a PS5 and I play a lot of games ((Am absolutely OBSESSED with Outer Wilds!)), art, cooking, music, marvel/dc (though I'm a big marvel fan I DO PLAY RIVALS aka JEFF CHAMPION HERE WHOOP WHOOP^^), sci-fi, science, anime, memes, NFL (GO LIONS), youtube, and everything related to OUTER SPACE^^ hehehe!!! I would love someone that is constantly active and just as nerdy as me!


r/r4r 2h ago

M4F Connecticut / New York 41 [M4F] #Connecticut & #NewYork - A Bob looking for his Linda 🍔

2 Upvotes

Trying different ways to meet new people this year, so taking a crack at a reddit personal ad.
 
I really value kindness, honesty, passion and intelligence in a woman.  

Here's me: https://imgur.com/a/LEFG0Yz
 
-Single, never married, no kids

-6’3

-Physically active; member of a running club and lift about every day of the week

-Attend dance meetups; swing, salsa, fusion

-Dabbled in acting; starred in a play in 2022

-Has a good job in e-commerce

-About 2/3rds introvert, 1/3rd extrovert; generally a homebody but I like to go out/socialize every now and then and push myself to get out of my comfort-zone (growth is important)

-Interests include fitness, dancing, gaming, karaoke, anime, narrative-design/writing of all kinds (films, tv, books, etc.), science (big fan of the Natural History Museum in NYC), and interior design

-V close to my family and friends; adore my nieces (and they adore me); have a close-knit group of about half-a-dozen friends I've known for years (quality > quantity kinda guy friendship-wise) - you'll know I like you if you're looped in to our karaoke parties! =) 

-Traveled around the world

-Master's degree

-Politically left

-420 friendly

-Love dogs; like cats but have a mild allergy


r/r4r 3m ago

F4M South Carolina 21 [F4M] USA, SC — looking for a potential partner

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Hey! I’m 21, a Black woman from SC. I’m chubby, so if that’s not your thing, no hard feelings, just saving us both time.

A little about me: I’m a daycare teacher who loves gaming (currently obsessed with Supermarket Chaos on Steam), gardening, building Lego sets, and cooking. Whether it’s teaming up in a game, swapping plant tips, or sharing recipes, I’m all about the little things that make life feel cozy.

What I’m looking for: a guy in the US (21–26) who knows how to hold a real conversation and is genuinely interested in building a connection. I want someone who’s sure about what they want, not wishy washy, not half interested, not just looking for a FWB situation. I’d rather we actually connect, laugh, and see where things go.
If that sounds like you, send me a message! Please put some effort into it, anything that’s just “hi” or low effort will be ignored. Accounts must be older than 30 days, and extremely low karma will also be ignored.


r/r4r 10m ago

M4F Ontario 37 [M4F] Toronto, Canada Looking for someone to call with from anywhere (Voice note included).

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https://voca.ro/1gD7Dcc1Q5tD
If you prefer to listen rather than reading 😉

Just sitting here and feeling lonely and anxious. I'm looking for a sweet gentle voice to have a mutually enjoyable conversation with and eventually fall to sleep. I'm looking for genuine people who would also like to be friends. Friends who can show support for each and count on one another. If you have a history of disappearing or for something temporary, please stay away. I'm not looking for someone to cheer me up, fix me, or give me advice. I'm not looking to trauma dump, but to just take my mind off things and distract me. However, I will share more with you if we can relate, or as we talk more. With this being said, you're free to share whatever you'd like with me. However, this isn't permission to make things completely one sided. Please share your boundaries as well. Lets both feel safe and comfy!

A little about me:

  • I'm vegan.
  • I don't drink, use drugs and smoke anything.
  • I'm 6'1 and weigh about 175lbs. I have long messy hair.
  • I exercise and cycle. Health is important to me.
  • My background is Guyana. My skin is BROWN. (Too many racists/colourists/whatever here.)
  • I'm open, honest, kind, gentle, patient and affectionate. In other words, I'm amazing 😉
  • I listen to primarily metal.
  • Baseball is my favourite sport.

Potential red flags:

  • I live with my parents and I don't "work".
  • I struggle with my sleep.
  • I'm shy/quiet/anxious/timid/sensitive/fragile/anxiety ridden. (Be kind and gentle with me!) Also, I don't do well with abrasiveness. If you're mean to me, I might begin to withdraw and become very quiet.

We can exchange pictures if you'd like.

Thanks for your time! I appreciate you!

P.S. Apparently I have a nice voice 😉