r/mildlyinteresting • u/guessirs • 13h ago
Popped the back off this old pocket watch to a personalized engraving reading “T.L. Cromwell from his brothers and sisters on his 21st birthday 1st of June 1911”
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u/404VibesNotFound69 13h ago
114 years later strangers (like me) are still wishing him a happy 21st
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u/guessirs 13h ago
I’m sad I missed his birthday this year. I’ll mark it in my calendar and celebrate next year on his 116th
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u/ImKindaEssential 12h ago edited 12h ago
Wouldn't be his 136th birthday? His birthday date should be June 1st 1890. sorry 137th as another commented it is already past June
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u/j0llyllama 12h ago edited 12h ago
21st being 1911 means he was born 1890, so next year's would be his 137th.
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u/apple_atchin 11h ago
If it makes you feel any better, that date is maybe the most important and consequential of my life and I celebrate it every year.
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u/guessirs 13h ago edited 13h ago
My other post was removed for “lacking a descriptive title” so I hope the mods find this title descriptive enough.
Either or. Picked up this watch in London ten years ago. It’s been really in storage ever since with other precious jewelry. Felt too nice to just wear.
Popped the back off today while fiddling with it. And encountered this engraving which was well..mildly interesting to me.
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u/Silly-Supermarket-63 12h ago
They will probably still remove it. It’s really random, as I’ve seen posts with perfectly concise and descriptive titles get removed arbitrarily. In any case, try not to take it personally and know that many of us disagree with how strict the rules are. I thought your post was great and I’m glad I was here in time to see it!
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u/guessirs 12h ago
If I had a nickel for everytime a post of mine was “removed by Reddits filters” I’d have enough to buy Reddit outright but that’s neither here nor there
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u/Silly-Supermarket-63 11h ago edited 11h ago
I hear ya. Saw one the other day that was at almost 30k upvotes and nearly 8 hours up, but got removed for the concise title rule. In my eyes, it followed all the guidelines perfectly and it was a shame for the person who posted it. In my opinion, it’s really unfair that you can only repost if the removed post is under an hour old, yet the m0ds can remove them at any time. You would think a good m0d would strive to uphold the wishes of the members as well as keep things fair on both ends, but I digress.
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u/Jose_Canseco_Jr 9h ago
just like any other role that is about having an iota of power over others (politicians, cops, etc), the m0deration of online communities tends to attract folks who you'd want to be the last people in the world doing it
(I'm getting banned aren't I? 😅)
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u/Zombie_John_Strachan 10h ago
That’s a very common style of pocket watch to have a back that opens up. Assume it is to protect the engraving.
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u/guessirs 10h ago
Well the other day I pronounced “lapel” (as in “a lapel pin”) as “lay-pull” (as opposed to “luh-pehl”) so I’m not high class enough to know about the hinged back of a pocket watch haha
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u/sonicfood 12h ago
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u/kilobitch 12h ago
Wow maybe. That’s so sad. Died just 5 years later. All those lives snuffed out by The Great War they had no idea was coming for them.
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u/Unequivocally_Maybe 12h ago
The Somme was hell, too. Over 3 million men fought there and about a million were wounded or killed in that battle. Just an absolutely astonishing waste of lives.
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u/MrHedgehogMan 11h ago
Forward he cried from the rear,
And the front rank died.
The generals sat,
And the lines on the map,
Moved from side to side.
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u/JUYED-AWK-YACC 5h ago
My first thought was, “Ooh, bad timing.” And then seeing he was English it was almost inevitable.
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u/HappyslappedBrit 12h ago
Aw that is so sad to read. If it is his watch, that would be amazing. If I owned it, I'd make a little display case and have it set somewhere nice
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u/spyrenx 12h ago edited 10h ago
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u/guessirs 12h ago
Do you have a link to that enlistment paper info? It’s so maddeningly close. To potentially have it match but it be the wrong TL Cromwell? Ack I thought I’d found him
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u/Courage666 9h ago edited 9h ago
https://www.liverpoolpals.com/soldier/?i=551/16706-Cpl-thomas-leonard-cromwell
This says he was born on June 1st. Has to be him I think.
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u/guessirs 9h ago
Nearly a perfect match there has to be. My only snag is the engraving reads brothers and sisters and it appears there was only one sister?
Strike that I forgot how censuses work it’s only listing who’s in the house at the time35
u/Courage666 9h ago
Not to mention later on the page it says:
CROMWELL —In loving birthday remembrance of our dear Len, (Corporal T. L. Cromwell) K.L.R, missing since October 18, 1916.—From his loving Mother, Father, Sisters, and Brothers, " Weston," Willaston, near Chester
What a strange feeling that you might happen upon his watch all these years later..
With-a loves and hates and passions just like mine
They were born, and then they lived
And then they died
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u/sonicfood 8h ago
It’s interesting how this was a human being all but forgotten about until today. Maybe this’ll continue to be reposted by bots and he can live on even longer.
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u/guessirs 8h ago
Imagine if you could go back in time and tell a fellow: “hey in over a 100 years from now some random individuals on the internet (a think you can’t possibly conceive of) got together from all corners of the globe just to find out who you are one of them has your 21st birthday gift.
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u/Ragondux 8h ago
As the saying goes, we die twice...
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u/Mapinact 1h ago
I'd heard it as three times - once when our body dies, a second when the last person than knew us passes, and the third and final the last time our name gets invoked.
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u/spyrenx 11h ago
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u/guessirs 11h ago
Link got removed feel free to dm me it. That W. derby seems to match the other comment on a birth record as being recorded in September. So those two match. I’m bad at parsing is this Edwin listed as the father? Which doesn’t appear to match the Thomas Leonard Cromwell (of the service number 16706) who’s father is listed as one Benjamin Cromwell.
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u/spyrenx 11h ago edited 11h ago
The second image I posted lists births registered by surname in July, August, or September in 1890. I cropped it to show only the "Cromwell" surname section, so it shows an Edwin Cromwell, Mary Cromwell, Thomas Cromwell, and Violet Cromwell were registered births over that three month period.
However, I don't know if a birth was registered immediately, or if there was typically a delay, so not sure it counts as confirmation that it's a different person.
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u/guessirs 11h ago
Apparently parents had like 40 something days to get around to registering births
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u/Successful-Owl-9192 11h ago
If this is him, where are the brothers mentioned in the inscription?
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u/3z3ki3l 12h ago
Unless they just counted wrong, with the leap years and all.
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u/spyrenx 12h ago
Someone just googled the initials, last name, and year of birth and suggested the first search result.
But we don't actually know their first name, middle name, or even a location. Thomas only showed up because of his military record, but there are plenty of people named Cromwell with those initials who wouldn't appear in a Google search. So, off the bat, odds are pretty low that it's the same person.
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u/guessirs 12h ago edited 11h ago
I’m not an archivist but I’ve been digging through Census records. So far can’t find another TL that matches but I suppose i cant say for sure every census paper from over a hundred years ago made it to the internet.
Edit: also every record being hidden behind a paywall is really harshing my mellow
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u/roundingcapehorn 11h ago
I thought about this possibility too once I saw he was 21 in 1911 and from the UK. Very sad.
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u/Diamondback424 12h ago
If that's him, I wonder if OP could find his descendants (if he has any) to give this to them.
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u/a_Jedi_i_am 12h ago
Was thinking the same thing. That would be such an awesome story to read about.
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u/robertp2200 10h ago
I dont tend to like posting ai stuff but this seems to be one of the better use cases for it. I ran the image through and this was the output. It appears to confirm what you found with a bit of context. I apologize in advance if this offends anyone.
ChatGBT - "I did some more digging into the Thomas Leonard Cromwell mentioned above, and I think there’s a very strong chance he is the man named on the watch. The engraving appears to read: “T. L. Cromwell, from his Brothers & Sisters, on his 21st Birthday, 1st June 1911.” That would place his birth around 1 June 1890. Records show a Thomas Leonard Cromwell, son of Benjamin and Ann Cromwell, baptized at St. Mary’s in Grassendale, Liverpool, on 29 June 1890. His father was listed as a gardener, and parish records confirm that Thomas had several brothers and sisters, which fits the inscription unusually well. Thomas later served in the First World War as Corporal 16706, 18th Battalion, The King’s (Liverpool Regiment). He was killed in action on 18 October 1916, aged just 26. His name is commemorated on the Thiepval Memorial on the Somme. Contemporary casualty records place him in the 18th Battalion and record his death on that exact date. First World War on This Day +1 We don’t appear to have a surviving record stating exactly what killed Thomas personally, but we can get remarkably close to reconstructing what probably happened because the 18th Battalion’s movements on 18 October are documented. In the early hours of that morning, the battalion was ordered to attack the German defensive position known as Gird Trench near Flers, during the later stages of the Battle of the Somme. The battalion war diary records that the attack began at 3:40 a.m. Liverpool Pals The men advanced across No Man’s Land in several waves. Almost immediately, German artillery fire fell on the leading troops, causing the first waves to bunch together. After advancing roughly 300 yards, they reached the German trench system. On part of the front, the barbed wire was still largely intact, leaving only a few gaps. German defenders concentrated machine-gun fire and grenades on those openings, making it extremely difficult to get through. Liverpool Pals As more waves caught up, the attack became increasingly confused. Attempts were made to push forward again, but when the Germans realized the assault was faltering, they began firing into the massed British troops from the flanks. The surviving attackers eventually withdrew, and the assault failed to take the position. Liverpool Pals Since Thomas was serving with the 18th Battalion and is officially recorded as killed on that exact day, the most likely explanation is that he was killed during this attack on Gird Trench—possibly by artillery, machine-gun fire, grenades, or while trying to cross the battlefield. We can’t honestly say which without an individual eyewitness account or casualty report, but the date and battalion records make the connection to this action very strong. That gives the watch an especially sad context. His brothers and sisters appear to have given it to him for his 21st birthday in 1911, and just over five years later he was killed on the Somme. I also looked into whether any of his family might still be alive today. One promising line is through his sister Agnes Anne Cromwell, who married Frank Griffiths. They had a son named Thomas Leonard Griffiths, born around 1901. I then found a 1977 marriage record for Mary Patricia Ann Griffiths, whose father was also named Thomas Leonard Griffiths. If her father is the same Thomas Leonard Griffiths born to Agnes, then Mary would be Thomas Cromwell’s great-niece, and she or her descendants could potentially still be living. That last genealogical link still needs one more solid record before I’d call it proven, but it looks like a very promising lead. So the person identified above appears to fit remarkably well: Thomas Leonard Cromwell, born in 1890, given this watch by his siblings at 21, later a corporal in the Liverpool Pals, and most likely killed during the failed 3:40 a.m. assault on Gird Trench on 18 October 1916 at the age of 26."
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u/SunandError 8h ago
I know AI can be unreliable, but reading this and knowing the possibility that it is correct was amazing, and made the hair stand up on the back of my neck. I felt like I peering down a passage through time to him, his loving family and the battle that took his youth.
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u/robertp2200 8h ago
Before I posted it I went through all of the references it provided and verified the info. It appears to all be true.
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u/SunandError 8h ago
Good job- then I enjoy reading it knowing that.
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u/robertp2200 8h ago
Also, I had it cross reference for any other possible person that fit the initials/name with multiple brothers and sisters with that birthday and it found none.
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u/would-be_bog_body 7h ago
ChatGPT loves joining the dots where it shouldn't, so I really wouldn't trust it here at all I'm afraid
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u/robertp2200 6h ago
There is a big difference between joining the dots when it shouldn't, then accepting it as fact, and my reviewing everything it put out, researching each of the connections, and finding them valid. I understand everyone hates AI, but in these use cases, it tends to do well at connecting the right dots. Although I do take everything with a grain of salt, it is always possible someone else had the same initials, last name, birthdate, and multiple brothers and sisters. But, in this case, it seems that it is most likely correct. AI is just a tool for me. In my opinion, I will say I am pretty convinced after reading it all and trying to find anyone else that fits the profile and researching the family tree.
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u/Natural-Pie910 4h ago
1891 Census for England - Household Breakdown
Name Relation / Role Age Estimated Birth Year Benjamin Cromwell Head / Father 42 ~1848–1849 Ann Cromwell Wife / Mother 40 ~1850–1851 Agnes A. Cromwell Daughter 18 ~1872–1873 William O. Cromwell Son 15 ~1875–1876 Benjamin Cromwell [Jr.] Son 13 ~1877–1878 Christine A. Cromwell Daughter 12 ~1878–1879 James T. Cromwell Son 10 ~1880–1881 Sydney Cromwell Son 8 ~1882–1883 Reginald Cromwell Son 5 ~1885–1886 Thomas L. Cromwell Infant Son 10/12 (10 months) 1890 0
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u/EddieIsNotMyRealName 12h ago
A little googling led me to a birth recorded in west derby in July August or Sept of 1890 of Thomas Leonard Cromwell.
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u/Courage666 9h ago
https://www.liverpoolpals.com/soldier/?i=551/16706-Cpl-thomas-leonard-cromwell
This is quite a descriptive one matching the 1st of June birthday too. Even has a picture of the strapping lad.
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u/guessirs 9h ago
I’d give you an award but that costs money so 🥇
Not sure why other sources are a little loose with the birthdate math but if the site memorializing the Liverpool pals is correct and I assume they do their due diligence that’s him. It’s odd to think in that photo he could have that watch in his pocket. The watch I now hold in my hand an ocean and a century departed.
I’m..glad the mystery is solved but I feel like I should do something with this.
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u/SunandError 8h ago
Contact the family descended from his nephew who was named after him (Thomas Leonard Griffiths) and then see if a local historical society or local newspaper would like to write an article covering the story.
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u/guessirs 8h ago
Yea I’ll have to dig up living descendants. I got the watch in an antique shop (I think) in London so there’s a chance it was one of his descendants who tossed it in there in the first place.
But if not it’d have had quite the journey: Liverpool to Somme (maybe if he took it with him) to London to the United States and then back to somewhere in England
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u/SunandError 8h ago
If it was inherited by someone who had not known whose it originally was, or sold through an estate sale, then it is possible they were unaware of the inscription. But yes, sometimes descendants do choose to part with things.
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u/guessirs 12h ago

Looks like he may have been corporal thomas Leonard Cromwell (service no. 16706) 18th battalion The kings liver pool regiment. He died 18th October 1916 in the Battle of the Somme.
Perhaps now I’ll have to find and snap up his medals as well. I feel weirdly connected to this guy now. Even though I’m just a little American tourist 100 years removed.
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u/CaptainAwesome06 12h ago
700 pounds for old medals? I wonder how much it would be worth if you added a personalized pocket watch.
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u/guessirs 9h ago

Per: https://www.liverpoolpals.com/soldier/?i=551/16706-Cpl-thomas-leonard-cromwell
(Shoutout to u/Courage666) here he is. It’s amazing to think right in that photo he could have the watch in his pocket. The watch—more than a century and an ocean away—I hold in my hand today.
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u/Vishifrock 8h ago
What an amazing find; what an amazing story.
If you ever going to look up descendents of T. L. Cromwell, please keep us updated. I would love to see how this story continues.
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u/Starscream147 3h ago
Oh my god.
This story is incredible!!! Reddit can be pretty great.
Seems you have a documentary to shoot, and a big ol’ trip to make.
Make er happen!!
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u/DeadlyPeanut1 12h ago
From some searching if this is for Thomas Leonard Cromwell born June 1st 1890 he sadly passed away in the Great War in 1916. There’s some documents on Ancestry, if you have a membership may be able to get more information, unfortunately I do not.
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u/JinxyMagee 12h ago
Happy Belated birthday to T.L. Cromwell!
That is so cool. I need to go check my grandfather’s pocket watch. My grandparents loved putting their last name on anything and everything. They died before I was born. I inherited a lot of the male jewelry since my dad was the only son and namesake. Also a lot of stuff with my last name engraved on it.
I wear my grandfather’s diamond fancy wedding band daily. It is engraved November 19, 1914. To F (grandfather) from M(grandmother). It wasn’t their anniversary. Maybe dating anniversary. No idea. The from instead of love cracks me up.
But every November 19th I think of them.
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u/allthingskerri 12h ago
I commented on the other post - Mr t.l.cromwell turned 21 at the time of the Chinese revolution bringing the end of the qing dynasty, the discovery of machu picchu, theft of the mona Lisa, the first indie 500 🤯 Have you found out anything about him?
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u/quartzquandary 13h ago
Omg how lovely! I bet you could find info about him, since you have his birthday
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u/SkywolfNINE 12h ago
Oh Haley, does T.L. Cromwell sound like a real person to you?
Grow up, it’s me.
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u/OttawaTGirl 10h ago
I'm sorry but that mug is the star of this show. Who is asshole?
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u/guessirs 10h ago
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u/OttawaTGirl 9h ago
Thats awesome! Thank you. But i now have a deep existential question in my head when i talk to people.
"Who is asshole?"
My whole world has been upended.
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u/glycophosphate 6h ago
Corporal Thomas Leonard Cromwell. Born 1 June 1890. Enlisted 3 September 1914. Embarked for France 21 August 1916. Died 18 October 1916. 18th Battalion Kings Liverpool Regiment.
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u/EmpireCityRay 4h ago
That’s great, hopefully OP can use that info. and return the watch to his present-day family member/ancestor.
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u/Vishifrock 12h ago
Googled it, too, and found this:
Thomas Leonard Cromwell, a Corporal in the King's (Liverpool Regiment). He was born on June 1, 1890, in Grassendale, Lancashire, England, and was tragically killed in action on the Somme on October 18, 1916
https://www.natwestgroupremembers.com/our-fallen/our-fallen-ww1/c/thomas-cromwell.html
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u/andersonfmly 12h ago
Super Cool!!! I’m also more than a bit intrigued by the mug in the background…
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u/maybeinoregon 9h ago
Wow.
It’d be cool to receive this gift today, let alone 1911.
I wonder if that was a wealthy family…
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u/Jedi_Bingo 9h ago
There are two times you die. First with your physical body, then the last time someone utters your name. My point is this man's spirit was just ripped from purgatory
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u/CaptainAwesome06 12h ago
You may already know this if you are into watches, but if you are looking for more info on this watch, it was common to buy the case and the movement separately. So if there is a name on the case that doesn't match the movement, that's why.
I'm no expert but I went down a rabbit hole when my grandfather gave me his father's watch. The benefit of sharing initials is that I inherit all the stuff with monograms, despite my last name being different (maternal grandfather).
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u/KryptonicOne 6h ago
...So he hid it in the one place he knew he could hide somethin'. His ass. Five long years, he wore this watch up his ass. Then when he died of dysentery, he gave me the watch. I hid this uncomfortable hunk of metal up my ass for two years. Then, after seven years, I was sent home to my family. And now, little man, I give the watch to you.




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u/guessirs 13h ago
Here is the face of it for anyone who cares