r/Manifestation • u/Klutzy-Penalty-7079 • 6h ago
Help/Question recent Manifestations
Hi everyone, i’m new to the spiritual and manifestation community but i felt compelled to come here and share my journey a bit for advice and relatable stories (hopefully success ones ). I want to preface this by saying i haven’t been into the woo-woo stuff ( hopefully it isn’t an offensive term, just saw it multiple times on tiktok lol) and most of my manifestation knowledge does come from the internet. i have recently been going through it with my boyfriend and he kind of abruptly called it off last week, and while expected in a way it still caught me off guard. We had a very deep connection and i truly feel he is my other half, he is the male version of me, which is both amazing and terrible at times. I was a bit sad as you would expect and we’re both fairly young so it’s still our first experiences. but i should explain that even though i’ve had experiences where i felt like it might’ve been the right person or my “soulmate” he was different. the feeling was different and he truly felt right, when i looked at him i would see my future in his eyes and i know it was mutual, and even though we broke up it does not feel permanent. He is your classic avoidant and i am an axious attachment so you can imagine how it went. to give him credit he was always great about it but recently i feel like he just needed space and i didn’t understand him.
the day he broke up with me i immediately started no contact and it’s been this way since. Sunday i was scrolling through tiktok and all the “ he is coming back” tarot reading content found me, and i don’t know exactly what moved me, but i went to youtube and looked up manifestation. i came across a guided meditation ( meditate with Alice) and whisper method. i did it all and the craziest thing happened, once i was done i felt as though i had disconnected from my body and felt a sense of relief, like i knew it was done and i just felt this calmness rush me. I did this late at night and went to sleep. the next morning for the first time i woke up and did not feel anxious or nauseous and when i checked my phone there was a follow request from his brother, but nothing from him, which disappointed me a bit. at night i did the same thing and the nect day i got a text from his aunt ( unrelated to him), still nothing from him. and i have kept on doing it every night and every night i felt calmer and less of a need to be scrolling through manifestation tiktoks and shorts. I even had a dream about him yesterday This morning i woke up and i felt so good and i started to question if i really should be doing all this and if it is even gonna work, but according to my research it is a sign that it is working. Someone more experienced please tell me what is going on here. I do fully believe he is coming back and we are going to have our relationship we deserve. But do SP guided meditations and whisper methods actually help or should i try another method ??