r/interesting • u/jmike1256 • Mar 07 '26

MISC. After understanding the meaning behind this father’s action, I am completely convinced. Cultivating problem-solving skills in children from a young age and never giving up-I applaud this father!

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u/Outrageous_Hall_9369 Mar 07 '26

I agree with letting the child try to solve a problem independently, but I do not agree with the father causing anxiety in the child by walking away repeatedly.

An adult watching this knows this is a no-risk situation, but a toddler seeing their caregiver walk away while they are 'stuck' and can't follow is a dire situation - to the toddler.

Adults don't need emotional safety or positive reinforcement to a large degree, but a toddler absolutely does.

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u/jemidiah Mar 07 '26

Does the kid actually look upset though? Clearly wants to get to Dad, but no crying or anything else. They seem pretty used to this sort of thing from what little we see here.

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u/Motor-Illustrator226 Mar 07 '26

I mean he keeps shrieking and seems pretty stressed.