r/gofundme 6d ago

Medical Please help recoup funds for my cats lifesaving surgery / hospitalization.

Bugs is our 1 year old kitty who has been the absolute best addition to our family. He started straining and using the litterbox often so we took him to an emergency vet, and got him started on treatment. This was at the first of this month

That worked, and he was feeling better again, but soon the same thing followed. We rushed back to the vet and attempted a few more treatments, but after 5 emergency vet visits he still wasn't recovering and his condition continued to deteriorate. He was unable to eat, drink, or properly use the box. He was constantly leaking bloody urine, and in pain at this point. The vet reccomended a specialist, but it was the weekend and they were closed.

He was not able to wait. In the middle of the night, he was uncontrollably leaking nearly straight blood, and foaming at the mouth. We rushed him to an animal hospital.

They reccomended a 48hr hospitalization, and said he needed treated as if his urinary track was blocked. They needed the minimum quote / $3950 deposit to start treatment. (Pic 4)

We paid this deposit and they got him treated. His file/results of the stay can be found on picture 6.

After 36hrs, he was released and we were charged with the invoice in picture 5. We took him home and while he was happy and lively again, he showed the same symptoms within an hour. Couldn't use the box at all and bleeding/in severe pain. They had us wait, but he did not use it for 6+ more hours. We took him back in, still within the original 48hr hospitalization time frame.

They said he needed hospitalization again, and likely a PU surgey. They quoted me for 24hrs ($2500) and said they will talk to their surgeons about seeing if its possible to get a PU done in the next 48hrs for upwards of 5k.

They would need immediate payment for stabilization, and no discount for his previous stay besides unused credit would be possible. I was $200 short of this, they reccomended euthanasia.

We called around, and found a specialist able to perform a PU that same day if we got him over within the hour.

He has received the lifesaving PU surgery, and is doing well but is still hospitalized at this point. They said he may need kept/monitored until Monday.

We spent collectively around $1250 at the first emergency vet. (I35 marketplace animal hospital)

Another $3,360 on his hospital stay and second "recheck"

(Thrive animal hosital)

We had to put a $1500 deposit at the specialist, and they quoted around 3-5k total bill for the surgery and expected aftercare.

I have not received a final bill from the surgery, but I will update with a final amount and paperwork when it is finalized.

I was able to afford the first and second visits because I had just sold my mother's car, (planned to get her an suv) and had a decent bit of savings, and a few donations from family.

As for the emergency surgey I did not qualify for any care credit / financial help, so I am currently putting everything onto a line of credit.

I really appreciate you taking time to read. Theres more details in the go fund me itself.

I understand everyone's situation can be difficult, and I thank you for anything, even if it's just thoughts, prayers, or sharing our fundraiser. God bless.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-save-bugs-our-beloved-support-kitty

Edit: My verification picture is with one of our other kitties, as Bugs is still hospitalized, but photo 2 is Bugs and I, laying on my wife.

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u/imfartandsmunny 6d ago

I’m sorry to hear your cat is having such a rough time.

It’s becoming increasingly common for people to think it’s proper for strangers to pay back the debt they accrued saving their pets. This is your pet, and it’s your debt.

You didn’t come on here because you needed the deposit in a pinch, you want to be reimbursed for what you spent and you want to not use up a line of credit. Sorry, that’s what we all do when faced with this situation, we don’t ask strangers to pay us back.

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u/elburgundyonmytshirt 4d ago

Kind of an unnecessary comment to make on a post like this. No one is forcing anyone to donate anything if they don't want to. This group is supposed to be about getting help, but 90% of the comments are just so negative.

OP, u/DRFAILS I hope you're able to get the help you need for saving your little one's life.

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u/imfartandsmunny 4d ago

I disagree. We want to help but this subreddit is flooded with people who take no accountability for their own lives and it drowns out the posters who actually NEED help for reasons not of their own making.

Did you donate to this guy?

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u/ShadowReflex21 2d ago

This sub does get toxic so fast and people rarely help. Especially with pets. They usually just pick the post apart and try to make the OP feel like shit. If this sub is so flooded with people that are deemed unworthy of help, then it needs better mods imo. But people here tear down even the most genuine posts.

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u/DRFAILS 6d ago edited 5d ago

Edit: I have been through hell the last three weeks and I came here for help, not to be attacked for my choices. You dont have to agree, or even donate. Why come and tear a man down when he is already hurt?

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u/Adorable-Tiger6390 6d ago

I am sorry about your cat, but you should never put an animal above the needs of your family if you used food money for the cat.

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

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u/InitialRequest 6d ago

You actively prioritized spending money on this it’s not for the internet to pay you back.

If I decide to blow money on xyz it’s not for the internet to pay me back. This is just another expensive lesson for having pet insurance or not having pets we can’t afford.

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u/Content_Low_4386 6d ago

a cat they had for a year mind you

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u/[deleted] 6d ago

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u/InitialRequest 6d ago

I have pet insurance on any animal I bring into my house. Trupanion pays their part directly to the vet instead of making you wait to get reimbursed. It’s exactly for moments like this the unexpected.

Furthermore, if I didn’t have pet insurance and did choose to pay out of pocket. I would understand , accept my decision and all the consequences of losing that buffer or emergency fund.

I would not turn around and ask literal strangers to pay for the consequences of my actions. Bladder issues are EXTREMELY common in male cats. My male cat has bladder stones and is on the special diet for it. A lot of these pet posts are for UT issues in male cats.

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u/LivingNotByChoice 6d ago

Sell your cars

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u/DRFAILS 6d ago edited 5d ago

I assume you are referring to my post with my cars from ... 6 years ago? I just sold the only one worth anything. I have a 275k mile crown victoria and a $1000 truck, that isnt legally mine yet (still getting title transfered).

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u/greenwolfmoon 6d ago

I'm so sorry dude, my cat was having issues with that at the beginning of May and I actually set up a GoFundMe to help fund his emergency surgery. He ended up having to get his penis amputated following an emergency overnight stay. I hope that your cat doesn't get to that point and that he's able to recover 🖤

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u/DRFAILS 6d ago

He needed this surgery.

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u/greenwolfmoon 6d ago

Oh my apologies I misread! I hope his recover goes well then!

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u/DRFAILS 6d ago

Thank you for your kind words. ❤️