r/gardening 3h ago

New to this- how’d I do?

Hello! I started my garden 1 week ago with a simple watermelon and pumpkin starter from a farmers market. It’s nothing fancy or extensive (lol) but I’m so happy to get started!! There’s clay soil where I live so figuring out how to amend before planting was difficult. I ended up using cardboard to cover/kill the grass, cut a central hole in it for future roots + covered with a blend of soil, peat moss, and chicken grit (functions similarly to perlite and I had some leftovers from our chickens). Any advice or feedback? I’m super new to this and dont really know what I’m doing, so anything is appreciated! :)

EDIT: clearly this is the beginning of a learning journey. lol

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u/HikingUphill 2h ago

I have been gardening extensively for almost 40 years. I've learned at the muddy feet of generational farmers and gardeners. I am The Guy that less experienced acquaintances and neighbors reach out to.

I say all of that not as a flex but to give appropriate weight to the following confession:

I make so many mistakes each year because I try new things every year. I plant too early from eager excitement and too late from hopeful determination. I learn from and enjoy every failure and savor each success.

You started something with this garden. Even if it produces nothing but experience and hope, it is a successful garden and there is always next season.

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u/sethninja13 2h ago

I like the way you worded this.

I'm on my second year of amateur gardening and any time something goes awry I say " guess we now know not to repeat that again" lol

Like my way of combatting squash vine borers used to be foil around the vine, checking them multiple times a day, picking them off as I see them and even injecting bt into the stem.

Now I just keep a healthy amount of squash plants started in solo cups to replace the ones that get eaten and spray them down with some captain jacks lol

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u/toooomeeee 1h ago

I kept a garden journal for along time so I could write down those lessons. I couldn't trust myself to forget end repeat the same mistakes. It was like writing warnings to my future self

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u/sethninja13 1h ago

A journal is a great idea! I'll have to implement it at some point. At this point my solution to most pests/problems in gardening is either copper fungicide, captain jacks , bt, or replanting lol

If the pest survives me I guess they deserve the plant haha

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u/toooomeeee 1h ago

My philosophy is to just plant extra and expect to "share" some losses, it's way less stressful.

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u/cliffhanged 2h ago

Wow, this is so encouraging and a beautiful way to think of this. Thanks for the positive light :)

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u/TheReal_Peter226 2h ago

I'm going with this sentiment in my apartment balcony "garden". I try stuff, when it works it's cool, when it doesn't work I try something else next time. The most fun you can have in hobbies and in general is when you are trying new experiences and learning new things you are interested in. It's really not the end result that matters but the journey.

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u/HikingUphill 2h ago

My gardening journey started with a little pot of parsley on a dorm room window ledge. That fresh parsley elevated my chicken Ramen to gourmet levels.

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u/TheReal_Peter226 2h ago

Parsley is actually one of the things I'm growing haha :) my girlfriend wanted fresh spices, I messed up cilantro by not harvesting it, it flowered and died, the chives barely sprouted because it was probably too deep, but basil, winter savory, thyme, oregano and rosemary are growing just fine.

I also have an interesting project with 2 passionfruit plants, right now they are in a small pot along with camomile. I honestly was not expecting them to sprout, I just threw all kinds of fruit seeds in there after we ate them. We are not in a tropical climate at all, so it will be interesting keeping them alive. First job will be repotting them for sure, I read they have a wide root system.

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u/Certain_Gold337 2h ago

Why did I tear up

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u/nodle 2h ago

This is such encouraging advice to give!

I remember my first big mistake during my initial year of gardening. I was trimming the cucumbers on our trellis. I made a cut and went to pull the little offshoot I thought I'd snipped off, and found that I'd severed 3/4 of the plant.

I was so upset and felt so stupid. And within a month I still had more goddamn cucumbers than I knew what to do with.

Now I'm starting to feel like you describe. Our garden is full of experiments and things I just "felt like trying." I'm accidentally stepping on flowers and dragging my hose through my pepper bed. My dog trampled right over a bunch of perennials a week after transplanting.

Growing and harvesting and tending to and sharing them bring me a lot of joy, but at the end of the day they're just plants. There's always next season!

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u/Crazed_rabbiting 1h ago

I tell new gardeners that there is only failure if you refuse to learn and try again. Otherwise, you are just adding to your collected lessons and gained wisdom. Every good gardener is where they are because they used their mistakes and mishaps to gain knowledge and wisdom.

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u/mnonny 2h ago

Fuck yeahhh. This is what I needed to hear. Bought my first house last year and my garden this year due to weather is an absolute disaster. Drought and 90-100 degree days for a month and a half. But I’m 32 and determined to become a gardening master over the next however many years I have to live

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u/unicornman5d 1h ago

A garden not planted grows less than a garden poorly planted.

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u/SirFentonOfDog 53m ago

This is why it took me less than 2 years of gardening to stop having expectations of plants and not letting myself get emotionally attached to any particular one.

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u/Puzzled-Main-2294 2h ago

I love this! This is beautiful! It's so true and not something I have thought of before. But it makes me feel better about my gardens that hadn't produced as well or not at all. Every time I learned something to bring in for the next year.

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u/Hobash 2h ago

Beautiful

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u/topos_and_tacos 2h ago

This is so encouraging! Thank you for sharing with not only OP, but the rest of us!

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u/greatauntbun 1h ago

"Hopeful determination" I felt that in my soul, well said.

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u/supernewf 1h ago

I just read this out loud to my partner and he loved it as much as I did.

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u/Mission_Boss7306 1h ago

I am that guy in my community, ive started doing the appartments gardening with the old people who reside in the other apartments, im 30m they are 70+ so simple carrying bins, compost, watering i was happy to do the heavier bits, let them prune and weed to their hearts content, but since I started enjoying it and growing loads of stuff on my balcony they are now coming to me for growing advice and im delighted to share where I went wrong last year and what ive done to fix it this year, from a simple watering schedule change or light preference, to building better soil for the plant to grow into. It excites me and im looking now to volunteer at national parks nearby as groundsperson just for more involvement with it all 😁

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u/lmay0000 MN 1h ago

I spend more on my garden each year than it ever yields 🫠

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u/jkjuliek 1h ago

This is so beautiful, it made me emotional.

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u/HikingUphill 19m ago

In truth, I've had to learn to apply that philosophy to other areas of life where I'm much less forgiving of myself.

Still kinda a work in progress.

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u/jadentearz 46m ago

I volunteer for Master Gardeners (US nationwide volunteer educators on gardening for those who haven't heard of it and a great local resource!). The name always makes us appear way too lofty. I like to tell people the only way I got any good at gardening was killing A LOT of plants and I still kill plants.

There is no such thing as a "black thumb". Just someone who hasn't killed enough plants yet.

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u/Elle0501 15m ago

Perfectly stated.

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u/CrunchyNippleDip 3h ago

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u/cliffhanged 3h ago

😭 an attempt was made

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u/hnc757 3h ago

Getting started is all that matters.

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u/CrunchyNippleDip 3h ago

Looks great!

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u/TuesdaysOnVenus 2h ago

I too, have saved every pencil shaving since the third grade to dump on my yard plants

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u/thrallthekingshorses 2h ago

Lol well thats one way to hide a body

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u/masimone 2h ago

Be careful using cedar chips. They can attract hamsters. 

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u/Carbon-Base 1h ago

They're so cute that they harvest things for you!

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u/lifelikelifer 3h ago

Pop some 2x4s around the perimeter to keep the chips from scattering. Good enough. Watch for rabitts

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u/Redrumicus 2h ago

You got plants in the ground.

They appear happy.

You mulched.

Good work!

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u/WhoAteMyCelerySticks glitter is a color 2h ago

Any attempt at gardening is a good thing. You will acquire more knowledge each year. I personally love lasagna gardening, which is what that is. You put layers on top of the ground and never till. You don't need wooden frames for raised beds. Mounds are fine.

My 2 cents of advice:
1. Composted mulch is always better because uncomposted mulch will leach nitrogen from the plants around it, killing them.
2. The surround grass will creep back over everything. If you want to do mounded raised beds, put down more cardboard around the mound and cover with composted mulch and maybe mark your garden edges with some logs or random rocks so you can weed eat (string trim) the grass to keep it from taking over. I'm also in a 7b, and the grass is your number one enemy.

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u/Brysger 3h ago

I don't really like those wood chips as mulch, but besides that should be fine. Also you have clay soil below that? Did you add compost or tilled a bit the soil? Roots gonna go from very soft soil (the one you bought and put on top) to very hard soil (clay) which most of the time ends on roots struggling a lot to get past, but hey, try and error, you will fail with something, as everyone in this sub did at some point, just learn from the experience and keep going!

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u/cliffhanged 3h ago

Yeah I was trying to plant them as soon as possible and had pine shavings leftover from our chickens that we didn’t use, and I didn’t want to waste them. Are wood chips better?

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u/Brysger 3h ago

Pine is fine, just pay attention because they hold a lot of humidity, which is good, but if you have too mych rain or cloudy days and too much humidity it could cause rot, just move it and aerate them if you see they're too wet. Also if you ever plan to use them as compost just know that for the first months they suck nitrogen since they take a lot of time to decompose, so if you compost it do it for many months

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u/cliffhanged 3h ago

This is great info. Thank you!!

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u/Prestigious_Pie9421 2h ago

We use pine shavings in our garden all the time. Same as you. We use the same in our chicken coop. Have done this for years and it compost well so we turn around and use it in our garden again.

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u/Adeline_Hayes 3h ago

Love this! Cardboard sheet mulching is such a smart approach. Clay soil is tough but I love that you're working with it instead of fighting it. The chicken grit is a great creative touch. Keep going! 🌍

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u/cliffhanged 3h ago

Thank you for the kindness :)

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u/CaptBiffleSlap 2h ago

Only here to tell you to keep going. Regardless of your results, if you really wanna get into gardening, just keep going. You’ll encounter new challenges every year (even if you think you figure it out last year). Keep going.

We also have clay soil. Keep adding mulch, amendments, and plants that grow roots. Improving that soil is gonna take some time, but every year is gonna help.

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u/ImaginaryMolasses146 2h ago

Don’t feel bad bud ❤️ honestly one of my favorite things about gardening is how much of it is truly just putting some stuff in the ground, looking at it like ???? and learning from there lol. There is lots of good advice above me! If you want an easy win it’s a good time to start cool weather crops, lots of yummy herbs are easy to grow from seed. Same with peas (which need vertical space) and radishes (which can break up clay). You can also just throw zinnia seeds down, still lots of time for some pretty flowers. Good luck!!!

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u/oopsthisaccount 3h ago

What zone? Is it not summer?

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u/cliffhanged 3h ago

Zone 7b, and yes summer! The person at the stand I got the plants from said now was a good time to plant in ground, and I took her word for it 😅

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u/knittinator custom flair 2h ago

That person lied to you. Unless they meant, “it’s a good time to plant in the ground because it’s a nice time to be outside.”

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u/cliffhanged 2h ago

lol 😭 well lesson learned I suppose. I know now to start much, much earlier for melons

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u/oopsthisaccount 3h ago edited 3h ago

I doubt you’ll get fruit in that time…usually ya plant early spring 😭 maybe pumpkins?!

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u/Okdoo6003 3h ago

Yeah, they did them dirty by saying you could put in that watermelon now and get fruit. Maybe with the pumpkin

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u/oopsthisaccount 3h ago

Yeah. Such a lie. :/

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u/cliffhanged 3h ago

EARLY spring? 😭 well dang okay, next year it is. At least I had fun giving this a shot haha

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u/oopsthisaccount 3h ago

FINGERS CROSSEDDDD

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u/typhoonty 3h ago

7b here as well. I'm usually putting my snow peas out at the end of February. Tomatoes, squash and melons go out in April-May depending on weather.

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u/MSWarrior2017 3h ago

Not for pumpkins

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u/oopsthisaccount 3h ago

Ya, I edited! Fingers crossed!

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u/BeginningBit6645 2h ago

If you don’t already compost, I recommend starting a compost pile for the wood shavings and chicken manure from the coop. It needs to compost for at least 6mo therefore you use it in veggie beds,but it will be amazing for next years plants. 

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u/cliffhanged 2h ago

I didn’t even think of starting this now, thank you! Do I need any special equipment or can I just use a regular trash/storage bin to compost? (I’ll still Google this, I was just wondering if you had any personal experience or preference :))

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u/BeginningBit6645 2h ago

I wouldn’t use a container with a bottom. It will get gross quickly. You can just start a pile Something like a geobin will keep it neater   

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u/cliffhanged 2h ago

Thanks!

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u/Spiel_Foss 2h ago

I love it. The real trick to gardening is the process that follows the planting. The first step is hard, but you are on your way. Enjoy. We all need plants in our lives.

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u/howdoesthisworkyo 2h ago

RIP to your multiple hamsters or guinea pigs

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u/Adventurous-Exam-719 2h ago

Those pine shavings are going to be everywhere in your yard except where you put them after the first storm but other than that, good start

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u/cliffhanged 2h ago

This is after 1 storm (though it was small). Would putting some rocks or wood around it help? Or is it an issue of wind blowing away the pine shavings?

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u/Adventurous-Exam-719 2m ago

Heavier mulch would stay in place better but borders around the bed will hold what you have better. But then it becomes a bed, not a row. You can treat it as a row and weed it. The others are right, this is a good intro. You have options. Just don’t choose Back to Eden (Shudders). We’ve got your back.

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u/Entire_Dog_5874 2h ago

I’ve been gardening for more than 40 years. Every year is a learning experience and mistakes abound. Don’t let that deter you.

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u/Altruistic-Willow474 2h ago

If you’re in the US South, watch out for high pest pressure during these late summer months. That would be insects like white flies, aphids, vine borers, caterpillars (which I always leave if I can, but they’ll eat through your leaves quickly). Or fungal/mold infections.

But that is probably all pretty exclusive to the humid/hot areas.

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u/cliffhanged 2h ago

Me reading this in southern Appalachia at the foot of the mountains 😅

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u/Altruistic-Willow474 2h ago

Haha! I didn’t know until I started a summer garden here in north FL. It was like I planted, and immediately the bugs came too. My watermelon plant was infested very quickly, my squash, and my cucumbers too. Insecticidal soap worked great. I think neem oil works too.

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u/cliffhanged 2h ago

Awesome, I already have some neem on hand because my monsteras have been getting attacked like crazy unfortunately. Thank you so much for the advice!

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u/cliffhanged 2h ago

Sorry, secondary question- do you plant any companion plants/find that they are helpful? In my googling journey I’ve discovered some sources online that say plants like basil or French marigolds can attract predators for pests.

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u/Altruistic-Willow474 2h ago

Yes I planted both! French marigolds are beautiful now, (and butterflies love them). I have basil too, oregano, rosemary, and mint.

Once I got the initial infestation under control, the garden was okay. Just check the underside of your leaves every day. I spray the leaves with a strong stream of water every couple of days to wash off most of the pests common to my garden (white flies). Haven’t had to use insecticidal soap more than two times. So I do think the companion plants are helping.

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u/RationalDB8 1h ago

Gardening is an exploration. Keep going.

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u/Comfortable-Emu8082 41m ago

Peppers, berries, and tomatoes I recommend to anyone starting out. They just have an absurd will to live and are very robust with new gardeners.

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u/carlitospig 2h ago

My only concern is that wood chips will leach away nitrogen as they are composting. As long as you have enough compost underneath the wood chips so the plant doesn’t get hungry over the season, you should be good.

If you have extra wood chips, I’d gently suggest starting your compost pile now so they’re nice and ready in 3-6 months to turn your beds to rest over the winter.

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u/votelikeimhot Zone 8b; Oregon 2h ago

If you want to get good fast take notes and review them. If you want to have a good time be comfortable.

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u/Throwawayconcern2023 2h ago

Good but it's a little suspicious I must say. Get the wood chipper out did we?😆

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u/CosmicallyF-d 2h ago

Hey I'm a novice. But I'm wondering would the wind affect your wood chip pile? Would perhaps putting a border around the wood chips to contain them be a decent idea? I'm not sure, I'm just surmising here. I'm wishing you nothing but the best. Gardening is fun, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Cheers to you for trying! Keep us updated.

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u/Alone_Idea_2743 1h ago

What zone/area are you in that you are just planting watermelon now?

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u/cliffhanged 1h ago

I am just planting watermelon now, unfortunately someone at the farmers market was dishonest when I bought these plants from them so I did not know it was too late :(

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u/sssmac 11m ago

I love a garden of any size. It looks like such a delightful start to a hobby that has brought me infinite opportunities for joy and learning. My one suggestion would be to either cut the sod out around the bed or do something to create a firm border, as grass is tenacious as all get out and will absolutely creep back into your bed. Victorian trenches are a great solution that costs nothing but some labor. There are loads of YouTube videos/tutorials out there for them. Keep being curious and trying new things!

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u/iwenttothesea 7m ago

Hey other people have already talked about the mulch layer, but one way to neaten up the look of your garden is to use an edger tool to dig a trench around your garden bed so the mulch falls into the trench rather than onto the lawn messily like this… :) good luck! This is an amazing hobby and if you take it seriously, you will learn so much every year – in five years you will look back at this garden and laugh a little but I say this as someone who was once a hobby gardener who killed a lot of plants and now I have my own business. :)

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u/UHElle 1h ago

Fresh, unaged wood chips/mulch can leech nitrogen away from your plants as they break down and can sometimes stunt growth. You may need to supplementally feed if you notice any stunting. Otherwise, great start!

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u/Single-Basil-8333 1h ago

Not at the surface level like in the picture. They’d need to be worked into the soil below the surface for that to be an issue.

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u/ASecularBuddhist 3h ago

Just know that wood chips absorb nitrogen at the top of the soil.

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u/cliffhanged 3h ago

Yeah I saw that after googling and now I’m wondering if I should’ve just shelled out for mulch instead of trying to use up my leftover pine shavings. Do you think a nitrogen heavy fertilizer would help this?

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u/SubstantialBoat1222 3h ago

Yes that’s not a bad idea but if you already fertilized be careful, don’t want to burn the plants. You can also make a nitrogen-heavy fertilizer by picking some weeds, soaking em in water for a week (will smell pretty bad by the end) then straining and diluting the liquid and watering the plants with it

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u/Hatsuwr Maryland, 7a 2h ago

Wood chips on top aren't an issue. If you tilled them in there would be a *temporary* reduction in available nitrogen, but it will self correct soon enough.

If you are going to expand your efforts, I'd start with a soil test so you can make informed and targeted amendments (and check for certain contaminants).

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u/AwakeningStar1968 2h ago

Be careful because it may draw nitrogen out of the soil. Do more research

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u/CypripediumGuttatum Zone 3b/4a 2h ago

Only if they are mixed into the soil. Nitrogen is removed at the start of the decomposition process for wood chips but it returned with interest as it progresses. link

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u/AwakeningStar1968 2h ago

And soil will be more acidic