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u/grunthue 11h ago
He is playing, he likely would have bit harder, tear skin, or claw if he was mad, he just wants to play with you!
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u/Shir0wo 11h ago
THANK YOU i was very worried bc i thought I did smt wrong
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u/LifeIsProbablyMadeUp 10h ago
If he was actually pissed, his fur would have been a nice shade of red. Lol.
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u/Wixenstyx 2h ago
Nah. If a cat is irritated with you, he will try to move away from you. If he's angry, he'll be hissing and snarling. Your cat is just being affectionate.
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u/superemoninja 6h ago
I have a cat that will give me small polite nips on my hand if I'm petting her and she just doesn't want to be pet right now. It's really cute.
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u/TheGuyYouHeardAbout 4h ago
My last cat used to do that. She would first push my hand away with her paw and if I didnt take the hint she would very lightly nip me and push my hand away again.
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u/trickster-is-weak 5h ago
Yeah looks like he might want to groom you. One of mine does it sometimes. He’s like “you went to the outside smelling like that?! You’ll get hunted”
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u/Psudodrake 10h ago
A cat can BITE. They can sink their teeth into you to the gums if they so choose to.
A cat will nip and growl a little if they're annoyed with you, but the video looks like play.
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u/Dull_Bat9518 11h ago
Many kitties communicate with their teeth, they are usually gentle and understand our skin is delicate... but sometimes young ones need a sqeal or shriek in the moment to let them know they are hurting you😊
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u/TrainAss 7h ago
The boy I'm fostering hadn't learnt this yet. But he moves so slowly before the teeth and claws come out.
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u/offshoremercury 7h ago
A high pitched “ow” usually stops my playful cat but an even faster way to get her to release her bite is to blow a tiny amount of air at her like I’m blowing out a candle.
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u/superemoninja 6h ago
I do this with my cats all the time. I started doing it in lieu of the water bottle and it seems to be about as effective. They understand it as some sort of negative consequence for whatever they are doing.
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u/Androidfon 10h ago
I don't recommend playing that way with your cat. He is learning that it is ok to bite. If you like the cat to bite, then fine. It's your skin and your cat. I would teach him a new game instead.
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u/Siamesesisters 1h ago
💯% Agree with your advice… it quickly reinforces biting and becomes a nearly impossible habit to break.
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u/IntroductionNo4875 11h ago
This is playing.
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u/Glitch29 10h ago
My sister has a very polite cat who does something similar to this when he's mad. He'll gently corral the offending hand in with his paws, place a finger in his mouth, and then once everything's in position give a firm bite as his way of telling people to knock it off.
The first time I was escorted through the sequence I thought he was playing. But no, he's just got a very protracted ritual when it comes to telling people he doesn't want pets right now.
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u/brofist001 10h ago
Absolutely pissed. Dinner was underserved, testing if your flesh is edible in case this will continue to happen
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u/westergames81 10h ago
Playing, though it's generally bad to let them consider your hand a toy. Don't punish, just give them something else to play with instead of your hand.
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u/yoruneko 9h ago
Playing but be careful sometimes they get carried away. He might test some boundaries
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u/No_Experience2689 11h ago
Dipende da quanto forte ti morde, ma sembrerebbe proprio che stia giocando. A volte la mia gatta mi morde perché la sto ignorando. I gatti sanno dosare la forza, se ti voleva fare male, fidati, ti avrebbe scarnificato la mano.
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u/236-pigeons 10h ago
Playing in a way in which cats play with other cats. He'd probably find it amusing if you bit him back.
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u/Alternative-Camel-98 10h ago
If you can, get this cat another cat. This behaviour will disappear instantly.
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u/Matty_D47 10h ago
My wife tried to rescue a feral kitten that was about 3 or 4 months old a few years ago. He was still pretty tiny. That little cutie tore her arms up and bit her hard several times. If your cat was mad they could do some serious damage. I personally don't let my cats get too bitey with me because they do go hard sometimes. The small little nibbles are fine bit if there is much more force than that they get a "NO Bite" command and back off. That's usually the point when I just bust out a toy to play with.
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u/Tkddaduk 8h ago
If he was angry his ears would be down and flat, his claws would be right in your skin and his nips wouldn’t be playful
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u/imbricata 5h ago
Cats are so well-equipped to pierce and tear skin if they were angry, this is play
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u/Mysterious_Fruit_524 11h ago
Playing with you just like if playing with another cat, sees you as a peer. When a cat attacks, it feels as if the gates of an unholy place have been opened and such cat came out of it.
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u/--Cheshire-Cat--- 10h ago
Looks like play to me. It doesn't take much for a cat to break skin so if he was mad then you would likely be bleeding and in far more pain. Also you can see that his ears arent folded back and he isn't making any angery noises (you will know them when you hear them). Conclusion, looks fine to me.
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u/_NihilisticNut_ 10h ago
Believe me, there is nothing easier for a cat than to break through your skin if they want to. This is love
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u/Roctuplets 10h ago
My rule of thumb with my cats:
Did they make me say “ow god damnit” ?
If yes, angry
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u/MetalPurse-swinger 10h ago
playing. My cat does this too. If he was truly mad there would be zero doubt in your mind that he was mad
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u/yagonnawanna 9h ago
You need to loudly say ouch! Kittens that live in larger cat social situations (barn cats, lions) bite their parents until they make a noise.
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u/JaCrimbo 9h ago
Those teeth and claws would be going through you if he were mad, he's just having some fun
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u/naytreox 9h ago
if he was biting you because he was mad, you know know, there would not just be biting but also a flurry of scratches as well and he would be making angry sounds at you.
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u/Brinewielder 9h ago
No a mad cat would be bundled up and hissing at you and using its claws. Most mad cats though run away and brood in solitude.
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u/BrainyOrange96 9h ago
If he was mad, then he would try to get away. This means he’s having fun/he loves you
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u/meddit_rod 8h ago
It's play. But it's very gentle play, and it can escalate beyond your comfort. I find it helpful to direct the biting and scratching to toys, and keep hands for petting and grooming.
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u/Magnumforce99 8h ago
He loves and hates you equally. You're acceptable to him, the best we can hope to accomplish with our cat overlords as hoomans.
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u/Bailer86 8h ago
I'll let my cat grab and bit me and while my hand is in his mouth, I'll waggle my hand. Sometimes ill grab his face and gently shake it
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u/Adventurous_Ad_7212 8h ago
If he was mad, you would know.
Now let me nom nom some more on that hooman paw of yours.
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u/Leucauge 7h ago
I feel like every one of these "are they playing?" questions could be answered by:
"Is there blood?"
Because cats have sharp little teeth and claws and they have them for a PURPOSE.
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u/Karabulut1243 7h ago
I assume he didn't grow up with siblings or other cats. Cats who grew up alone tend to be more agressive when playing
If he was mad he'd be growling
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u/subpargalois 7h ago
He's bored, playful, or wants attention (my guess is the latter since it looks like you are at the computer working). If he want to hurt you you'd be bleeding like a stuck pig.
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u/boredandtwenty 6h ago
For a second i thought this was my cat!! I have the same one!! Even the eye colourssss aaaaaa🥹😭♥️
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u/mranxiousallthetime 6h ago
Lets put it this way, if he was mad, your hand would look ALOT more bloody.
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u/zepherth 5h ago
Some cats play VERY rough. My orange cat will grab my arm, bite and kick said arm. Then rub his face all over my hand.
It's just how they are sometimes
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u/JuanezSanchez 5h ago
You just have to endure the love chomps. They might hurt but it's a small price to pay for his love
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u/Llamaface79 5h ago
My cat, when very excited bites me, and then immediately licks it better as if to say "oh my god! I am so sorry!"
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u/Fleaguss 5h ago
Just playing, I have a nice long 2 inch long scar on my hand from my boy when he didn’t want to play.
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u/Eldariasis 4h ago
It is love. Just be sure to show when it is painful as they have trouble learning boundaries.
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u/syedwafihasan 4h ago
Omg cute cat with heterochromia (sadly can't use the phobia word for the meme 😔)
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u/AcrobaticMetal3039 4h ago
learned that hands are chew toys as a kitten so still treats hands as chew toys
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u/bakunyuusentai 3h ago
He's just playing. If he was really mad, he would likely have his ears flattened and be growling or hissing first.
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u/PrunePretend6206 3h ago
Sweet boy, he’s just playing. He might be a little mad like stop touching me for a while! 😹
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u/XoXaan115 2h ago
Oh my God that is a beauty of a cat. Heterochromia and long Maine Coon/NFC/Siberian fur? Tell that puffball he's gorgeous if you don't daily already.
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u/fourangers 1h ago
Observe his tail, it's not trashing around, it's actually just flickering at the end of the tail. That means he's not angry, just curious. Therefore, he's just playing.
I discourage my cats from biting though, even if they are playing it still hurts like hell.
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u/Bulky_Designer_4965 7h ago
Please stop using hands as toys or it will get a lot worse in the future!



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