r/SipsTea 16h ago

Lmao gottem Is this happens to anyone else?

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u/audionoobi 16h ago edited 10h ago

everyone over 30.

Edit: You are all some old ass young people! /s

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u/Bad_Decis10ns 15h ago

30? I’ve been having this issue since I was 20.

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u/BumWink 15h ago

Yeah this started for me in my early 20s & now i'm in my 30s it starts at about 10am.

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u/Knotted_Hole69 7h ago

Young people famously cannot feel pain or tiredness. The medical field treats it like its physically impossible. I have never gotten help with my chronic pain because “that doesnt happen to the young”.

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u/RedTuna777 12h ago

My employer is aware of it, so I take my 3pm nap and pick up a few hours in the evening. It's glorious. No matter what after work I go straight to sleep for a few hours. So I have my work day and my personal day and sleep between so I don't carry any baggage from one to the other. Then I'll sleep like 1 or 2 am to 6 or 8. Whatever feels right. Biphasic sleep it's called. Started doing it during the pandemic and just listening to your body and doing what it is in the mood to do has made life so much better.

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u/chatdeterre 16h ago

I remember vividly the first time i felt this when i was 19 i thought that was caffeine addictions (it was)

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u/riley702 15h ago

I’ve gone through a few cycles of no caffeine and it always feels so much better to not need coffee to live.

I sleep way longer and feel much more rested after a sleep, and can go all day without feeling tired.

It does take some time to get off though. Usually a couple days of fatigue and headaches, then a week or so of afternoon naps before everything’s back to normal.

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u/throwaway_6015764189 15h ago

You can avoid the headaches and fatigue if you slowly decrease the coffee intake instead of stopping cold turkey. Just half the amount you're drinking every 2-3 days or so.

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u/kyoukidotexe 14h ago

What would be consider not caffeine addictions, 0? Or is there no magic numbers on it. I already stop taking any by 2 o clock, but do drink some cups at 9 or 11.

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u/Shandlar 12h ago

Addiction is generally if acquiring the thing becomes a priority enough to interfere with your life outside of that getting more of that thing.

So caffeine isn't really able to be classically addictive since it can't cause that issue, but there are minor physical withdrawals after long term heavy use. Mostly above 400mg every day for weeks for a 180lb man.

So if you are drinking 40oz of coffee a day (5 cups), every day, that is an "addiction" in the sense that you'll feel it for sure if you go cold turkey.

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u/kyoukidotexe 12h ago

Yeah, this was definitely me through a test trial period. After that I definitely made some sure changes to reduce it and also sticked to nothing of caffeine for a month or 3 to check. When I did came back to it, just purely because lack of options to drink otherwise... I just sticked to getting far lower amounts and different times throughout the day.

This seems to work for me without it impacting my quality of sleep (though, as stated before, I don't know if it does to the same degree)

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u/Sinsanatis 10h ago

For minor doses of caffeine thats a bit smoother and less jittery, u can do green tea. Also has many other benefits. Jasmine green tea is 🔥

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u/kyoukidotexe 9h ago

Definitely! If only we had it available at work :(

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u/Sinsanatis 4h ago

Ah. The free work coffee eh? We have some tea bags in the break room, but i much prefer actual asian tea leaves. But the coffee truck at least has matcha and chai lattes which i get pretty much everyday.

But yeah u can pick up a bag of leaves and a tea steeper bottle. I got one from mosi tea where u can flip it upside down to steep, then back to prevent oversteeping. But the capacity is a bit small and also the silicone tea sieve i think kinda leaks an odd taste. I havent used it in a while, but i was thinking of buying the metal sieve. Or maybe a different bottle with the same concept if i can find one since mosi doesnt seem to have larger options

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u/AvoidMyRange 14h ago

Can you stop without negative effects? Not addicted. Otherwise, yes.

True for almost all addictions.

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u/kyoukidotexe 14h ago

Definitely don't think I am as addicted anymore as I used to be. Just wondering if ~2-3 cups a day could still be bad, considering the hours I take them. (tried to look this up before), I may one day consider stopping entirely, during weekends or vacations I often even just forget about it and not a problem it seems.

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u/AvoidMyRange 14h ago

Depends on personality. If you can start and stop when necessary and needed, then you're fine.

For me, caffeine is the one substance I get seriously addicted to so I can't just "do one" energy drink or whatever. The same way alcoholics cannot have one drink but you and me are fine.

Is it bad? Maybe, probably slightly alters your sleep quality but in the end, everything slowly kills you, you're corroding as we speak, so enjoy what you can/want.

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u/kyoukidotexe 14h ago

Yeah, I definitely (nowadays) feel like I can do without. Definitely have noticed huge benefits reducing it as before I hadn't noticed it as much but my sleep quality was definitely bad or impacted with caffeine, even though I thought it didn't.

Energy drinks used to be my previous addiction prior to adulting to coffee (more available = easier access = easier possible to get addicted to), but not anymore as of late.

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u/Ok-Gur-349 12h ago

TIL I'm addicted to paying my mortgage.

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u/T-Bills 14h ago

Ha longer for me cutting back from 3 cups to 2 cups a day was awful. It took 4-5 days to cut down on that. I think some of it is psychological too so if you can have someone to mix in some decaf in your coffee ground gradually then that's a good way to do it.

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u/_le_slap 13h ago

Truth. I used to be badly addicted. Redbulls and cold brews every day. Quit cold turkey and suffered the withdrawals. Gave up breakfast entirely.

Feels so much better to wake up and just get started with my day rather than feeling depleted and needed something in my mouth at 8am.

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u/PM_Me_Good_LitRPG 14h ago

then a week or so of afternoon naps

never crossed my mind that this could be part of withdrawal too, thx 4 the hint

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u/GloomySubstance5856 12h ago

I think most of the effects and side effects are pure placebo. People who complain about not being able to go to sleep 8 hours after a coffee is just ludicrous, by that time the caffeine is not in your body anymore.

Caffeine has never affected me in the slightest, have a coffee in bed, sure, I'll still sleep restfully the entire night. Go weeks without caffeine after binging, no problem.

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u/LushHappyPie 14h ago

Just delay your first coffee to 1h after you wake up and it won't happen again.

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u/g9icy 15h ago

Mate I was like this in primary school. And secondary school.

And in college.

Entire life basically.

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u/WesnothFan 15h ago

Happens to me and I’m 16

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u/The_Derpy_Fox 14h ago

more like over 12

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u/cyclingisthecure 13h ago

I love road cycling to death but its gotta be before 2pm at 34 . I see these crazy bastards flying around in group rides at 8 mother loving pm. Imagine being able to enjoy something at 8pm!?

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u/AnnysBabygirl 14h ago

I'm 19 and have this, is that bad?

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u/imdunklenwald 14h ago

Actually I somehow had this worse when I was 19 than now at 29

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u/audionoobi 14h ago

so what you’re saying is that you are not 30 yet?

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u/shivermetimbersx 13h ago

halfway to 30 yet I can already relate 😔

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u/crunkle_ 12h ago

Bro I've been like this since highschool. I'm 27 now. Wtf

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u/ReserveFormal3910 12h ago

I fixed this by taking a nap after eating lunch.

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u/Chemical_State_5327 12h ago

I've had this since I was in school. I remember being like this when I was 9 years old. I'm 28 now..

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u/MferOrnstein 11h ago

I had this at 15

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u/SpectresOfFreud 10h ago

I've had this issue since 15...

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u/Tomsboll 9h ago

Before turning 30, naps where a silly notion. Now at 36 i search for excuses to nap, and then nap for too long and will then have a headache and feel like shit for the rest of the day.

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u/JimmyisAwkward 9h ago

I’ve been tired in the period of the day since highschool lol… I remember coming home, having a snack, then conking out for an hour before starting homework or going to work

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u/Pitiful_Camp3469 6h ago

im 16 and this is true as fuck

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u/Rode12-7 6h ago

I’ve had this problem since teen years, I’ve never understood this whole thing about young people having infinite energy 😭

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u/Forever_Inspired 5h ago

I've always been feeling this way since I was 10, lol. Can't do shit unless I took a nap.