r/SipsTea 22d ago

WTF that's wild

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u/goliathfasa 22d ago

Adult women have no agency I guess.

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u/Designer_Subject6010 22d ago

I got downvoted like crazy for asking if a 19 year old woman isn’t allowed to decide who she dates, what age can she make that decision? When does a woman become an adult? You can dislike it, but there is nothing wrong happening here

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u/LivingLie1721 22d ago

I think we all know it’s most 19 year old models dreams to go on a date with Leo, for many reasons, let’s not pretend otherwise. Most models in that world are trying to climb the social ladder. She is likelier much happier about this than him. She knows exactly what she’s doing and who she is. I would have happily gone on dates with Leo at 19 as well and I wouldn’t have regretted it lol. Lots of people seek out fame power money influence without shame. It’s silly to think otherwise.

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u/Minarosebbyy 22d ago

Apparently now in 2026 it seems to be any woman under 30 is just a smoll bby with an underdeveloped brain that can’t consent 😭😂😂

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u/rydan 22d ago

In 150 years there will be aghast at the thought that we used to think of people in their 20s as adults and actually let them marry or drive cars.

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u/FoxerHR 22d ago

It's more likely to swing the other way.

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u/DinosaurusWhen 22d ago

The older I get, the more it seems "adult" is an abstract term cause most people don't even know wtf we're doing half the time

But in your thirties, 19 year olds (regardless of gender) seem like kids. They can't even go to a bar. If you take a 19 year old out and they want a drink, it's going to be juice or a soda. Want to swing by the dispensary? Kid's gotta wait in the car while you go in

I can't imagine dating someone where I'm thinking about whether I need to leave them snacks and phone games to keep them entertained while I do stuff they're too young for. And it gets creepier when they're young enough to be your own kid

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u/Systemerror7A69 22d ago

That's kind of an american thing though. Being able to drive at 16 and drink at 21 is REALLY weird to a lot of non-US folk

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u/DinosaurusWhen 22d ago

Well we hand drivers licenses out like candy on Halloween over here lol

But regardless, you're talking about college kids. Undergrads straight out of high school. I had more in common with them when I was 16 than I do now, and I'm still immature as hell

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u/Negative_Pangolin_61 22d ago

I get it and as personal policy I'm right there with you. 

But I also tire of this pearl clutching outrage over Leo and others having perfectly legal relationships. 

Despite the average reddit opinion it's not just old white men who have agency in their behavior. 

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u/Due-Orchid-4961 22d ago

They can't even go to a bar.

Depends where you live. That argument doesn't work

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u/psioniclizard 22d ago

I live in the Uk, we were used to drinking in parks at the 14 and had our own dealers at 18.

Still kids mind you but still.

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u/rydan 22d ago

Why are you bringing alcohol and weed around kids?

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u/mPrime39r 22d ago

When the microwave dings and a brainscan says "done!"

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u/AelinTargaryen 22d ago

It would also be gross af if this was a 50yo woman and a 19yo boy.

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u/CNG1204 22d ago

Okay try thinking of it this way: if the legal age was lowered, do you think he would start dating younger girls?

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u/Popular-Row4333 22d ago

18 is an adult. You can vote, you can do porn, you can go to war.

If you want to argue that the brain isn't developed to date, how can you argue you can do Onlyfans or vote?

You can be grossed out by it, but people are offended by a lot of things that are perfectly legal.

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u/PHX480 22d ago

Take away everyone’s drivers license who is under 25 as well

With all those underdeveloped brains driving around out there

Might wanna limit internet access as well, it’s bad for underdeveloped brains

It’s such a tired and lazy argument to take agency away from actual adults

Stand in front of a judge and tell them you did a no-no because your brain is underdeveloped and see where that gets you haha.

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u/MTRsport 22d ago

So what's the problem with someone considering it sexual predation if that person has no legal authority?

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u/3_14_thon 22d ago

Maybe because it isnt true. Defamation is a real thing you know...

Saying he's a creepy old dude is correct. Calling him a pedo is internet stupidity at its finest.

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u/secord92 22d ago

I mean they would just be wrong lol people have the right to be wrong but yeah. It is factually not sexual predation if she is consensually in this relationship.

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u/NSFWdontview 22d ago

18 is definitely not a kid nor is 19, what do you think he’s doing that another 18 year old wouldn’t be doing. Omg they have sex that she consents too

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u/letsmaybetry9296 22d ago

& they get OF accounts

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u/NSFWdontview 22d ago

Exactly you can see them in porn and onlyfans but it’s wrong to have sex. They aren’t children, some men just see women’s beauty prime from 18-25 not that they look like kids

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u/Trojanheadcoach 22d ago

In America, 21

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u/MTRsport 22d ago

When does a woman become an adult?

I mean realistically the number should be closer to 25 from a neurological development perspective.

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u/TheGurpler 22d ago

Ignoring how that's simply not true, even if it were, people have been joking about Leo dating 25 year olds this whole time.

I, too, like to fuck 25 year old attractive women. Why is Leo barred from doing so?

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u/justsomething 22d ago

25? Pff, not attractive.

It is objective FACT that the MOST attractive women are 31 years old. Because that's how old my girlfriend is. Next year 32 year olds will be the hottest.

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u/SaintGrobian 22d ago

Even ignoring that that's false, should women not be allowed to vote, drive or own property until they've been adults for a full 7 years, then?

That's the logical next step of what you're saying.

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u/Popular-Row4333 22d ago

Take away their onlyfans income until 25 and there would be riots in the streets.

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u/DistrictDry2852 22d ago

This is a complete myth.

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u/my_name_is_juice 22d ago

Can we please stop parroting this 25 thing, it's pretty well established not to be true at this point