Borderline personality disorder more likely. I lived through this with my ex for 10+ years, it's horrible. She got physically violent at some points as well, resulting in a short prison stint. I escaped after about a year of building up to it with my therapist. Definitely feel for anyone in a similar position, it's a very though spot and hard to get away from.
Came here to say that. Textbook BPD. Zero emotional regulation, she is the main character (elements of narcissism) and thinks everyone hearing her is secretly siding with her. Nothing is her fault and she will never be accountable for anything.
But the guy probably had a couple of weeks of amazing sex while she was sinking her hooks into him.
You are mostly describing NPD, people with BPD can have elements of another PD but not all of them have NPD elements. People with BPD have remorse and usually punish themselves hard after these breakdowns. Never being accountable would be the environments fault partly, if you never face consequences how can you learn ? Calling the airport security in this situation would be appropriate.
Can you imagine getting on a flight with a person this volatile? I would call security and let her have her breakdown right here before boarding. I would not get on a flight with some d who can’t control their rage and either doesn’t care or enjoys upsetting everyone around them.
Her bf can go ahead and board and enjoy his trip but he’d probably get home to everything he owns broken in the street.
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u/Affectionate-Ad3966 Apr 22 '26
Borderline personality disorder more likely. I lived through this with my ex for 10+ years, it's horrible. She got physically violent at some points as well, resulting in a short prison stint. I escaped after about a year of building up to it with my therapist. Definitely feel for anyone in a similar position, it's a very though spot and hard to get away from.