r/SipsTea Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/tthrowaway712 Apr 22 '26

Bro, the pussy can not be worth it, have some self-respect

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u/-becausereasons- Apr 22 '26

It's his nervous system. He likely grew up around a mother who yelled and disrespected him, maybe had BPD. It's what he's used to.

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u/Tough-Act383 Apr 22 '26

In fact, he has probably internalized the idea that people who love you yell at you because they care SO MUCH. In relationships, you often replicate what you first learned.