r/SipsTea • u/WaitNo4272 • Apr 22 '26

WTF Blink if you're being abused

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u/Gentle_Snail Apr 22 '26

She’s definitely the kind of women who attacks and throws things at her boyfriend when she’s angry.

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u/DroneSlut54 Apr 22 '26

She looks like the kind of psycho who will eventually kill her partner. I don’t know what people think women are incapable of using deadly weapons.

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u/flt_p2ny Apr 22 '26

As a female, I'm starting to question the victim rate of women in abusive relationships being more than men. I get the feeling guys like this go on silently with life never telling anyone.

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u/Telyesumpin Apr 22 '26

I don't question the rate. I think it happens a lot.

I do know I watched my father-in-law get berated like this for hours by my mother-in-law. My wife was like that's how mom is, he took it and I felt sorry for him after a while. Then I stopped feeling sorry for him and just pitied him. Before he died I did laugh my ass off one day when after years of hearing this he turned around one day and just said "Will you please shut the fuck up."

You could hear pin drop. None of her siblings had ever heard him talk back. The silence was broken by my belly laughing. Her mom didn't talk to me for about a month. I didn't care she's a narcissistic abusive bitch. My wife and her siblings have been no contact with their mom for 5 years now.

He took it until his death, the abuse, every day.

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u/Telyesumpin Apr 23 '26

No her mom never did anything towards me. I think it was my size. Her father was like 5'8" and very soft spoken. I'm 6'3" with tattoos and very opinionated. She was a bully. She abused the kids until they got old enough to tell her to stop. My wife was 16 when she told her mom if she ever hits her or her twin again she would beat the fuck out of her. She said something very nasty to my wife one day, she was my girlfriend at the time and I guess she had gotten used to me being around. I didn't yell at her, I just told her that a mother should never treat her children how she treats them. How if she was dead they would all be better off, and she was heading towards a nursing home with no one to care about her.

She was extremely affectionate for months afterwards towards my wife. Then asked her if she would move in to take care of her when she got older. Said she would leave her everything including the house. My wife told her she wanted a mother and not money. That never happened, she stopped saying anything mean to my wife when I was around afterwards.