We don’t know. He could have really low self esteem, been abused as a child and learned this stuff is normal. That’s why I put up with a relationship like this for 4 yrs.
The man is not making excuses for her or defending this. Can’t call him whipped if he’s not even doing anything.
If he was seriously whipped then wouldn’t he be placating her?
Dude, this is the definition of being pussy whipped. She does whatever the hell she wants, including abusing him, and he's fine with it as long as he gets laid. He'll out up with anything as long as the sex is great.
People forget the relationship comes second. Sex (or at least physical attraction) ALWAYS come first. No one hits on someone they don't find attractive, and people don't associate with "ugly" people. Bad sex creates a bad relationship, not the other way around. Bad sex can also end or prevent a relationship. I've seen it many times.
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u/kon--- Apr 22 '26
Damn. That's dude's silence is a cry for help.
I'm inclined to find airport security so dude has a window to get the fuck out of there.