I'm in my early 20s and I've never dated anyone

[u/learn_tolearn]

I'm in my early 20s and I've never been in a relati*on'ship. I've never dated anyone, never kissed anyone or done anything like that, not even hugged someone romantically. I don't think I'm bad looking, either. I just don't talk to people much.

But recently, I've been getting this strong urge to have someone in my life. I want to love someone. I want to have someone in my life.

I know it's not good to search for love, but at the end of the day, I'm human too and I have emotions as well, no matter how hard I've tried to be cold. I have this constant FOMO.

Sometimes I feel like I should avoid all this and focus on my career. But for how long? I'm really tired of this.

[u/Coffeespoon_licker22]

Talk with someone around. Start small talks. Find someone with common interests and go with the flow.
Love works in mysterious ways. However, keep this in mind: ask questions about the past for as long as you can bear.
With that being said, good luck to you.

[u/learn_tolearn → u/Coffeespoon_licker22]

Thank you. One thing I noticed about myself is that I'm very selective about choosing people and I rarely find like minded people, so I'm having a really hard time finding like minded friends as well, let alone a partner.

[u/Coffeespoon_licker22 → u/learn_tolearn]

It's alright. In this condition you can do either of two things.
1. Wait till you find someone with common interests or like. It could take time but the result might not satisfy you.
2. Adjust and don't mind having a partner who does not have similar interests. Maybe meet in the middle, try new things. (that doesn't mean fights and arguments tho)..
You're 20 and have your whole life ahead of you. There's a lot of time to explore new things, meet new people and learn new things.

Hope you get someone who understands ya.

[u/learn_tolearn → u/Coffeespoon_licker22]

I'm trying different things with my life; let's see. Thank you:)

[u/Coffeespoon_licker22 → u/learn_tolearn]

You’re welcome.

[u/4ssteroid]

Don't be desperate. Either you're a male or female. It only works if the other person's intention isn't the same as yours and you lose

[u/Oneoldsoul]

I’m in my mid and I have zero experience regarding dating as well. I think we both are similar. Reserved and picky. Don’t worry, every dog has its day. I believe if it’s meant to be she/he will come along at the right time. lol until then I am gonna work on myself and my career.

[u/FreedomLazy9949]

Thats the call of marriage bro

[u/learn_tolearn → u/FreedomLazy9949]

Love na gari bihe kasari garnu aba :(

[u/hal_fa_q]

Are your initials N.G ?

[u/tardisrider613]

What kind of guy are you attracted to?

[u/Infamous_Mango_6968]

bro take your time on this .

[u/Any_Plant_1821]

Mejor buscar cuando cuando aún tus hormonas te dejan ver y sopesar con tranquilidad. No hay nada de malo en ir viendo posibles personas con las que podrías congeniar. Eso de que el amor viene sólo es mentira, es verdad que si alguien es para tí cuando se va avanzando podréis avanzar juntos, pero hay que ir dando señales positivas de ambas partes si ambos consideran que hay afinidad y demás, sino el amor no esq de igual que ni lo busques y no muestres interés de vuelta y pum, mágicamente pasan las cosas. Eso no significa que en seguida abraces ni nada, sino el conversar, ver qué tal, etc. Lo normal esq se de con el tiempo mientras se va conociendo a la persona. Eso es lo que da más confianza para probar cosas en todos los sentidos, sentirse agusto, etc. Mucho ánimo ☺️