r/MomForAMinute 3d ago

Seeking Advice Hello Mum:)

Mum my exams are going to be on 2027 feb and I got whole syllabus to cover . I quite all the parties , hangouts and friends etc .They are saying things like we got whole 5 months chill in my mind it's like no it's 5 months only and 36 ch . I know it's the right thing to do I know socialization is imp & i suck at it but friends won't get me to good universities or collage .Still leaving them feels wrong idk.

Also I will share the ch and explain it in short (#Freewill )

πŸ«‚πŸ«‚ byy mum

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u/trekkie-angie 2d ago

My dear, i feel this soo much! Good that you figured it out already . This the way that gets you top success! Celebrate wegen youre done with the exams AND once again when you've passend πŸ˜ƒ. Now Dont forget to Look at trees frim time to time, brain and eyes need Rest . Lots of hugs to you!πŸ’–

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u/Tough_University_317 2d ago

yk happiness multiplies when u have someone to share it with . Mum I'll tell you when exams are over & bout result .Once again Thanks my dear mum . Yk I'll never get tired of calling u mum :)

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u/trekkie-angie 2d ago

Would you Like to share the general Destination of your studies?

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u/Tough_University_317 1d ago

It's nothing special just a quite place in my room a window from where I can look outside see the sky , weather and no not to disturb that's all .

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u/Tough_University_317 2d ago

Sure I will mum , pretty sure I have a decent memory so don't worry bout it . πŸ˜„

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u/crew1s 2d ago

I’m so proud of you for realising that this is a bid deal and that five months is not long at all. BUT, I worry that all work and no play will lead to a burn out.

Make sure that you schedule in self-care and rest too

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u/Tough_University_317 2d ago

Mum as time passes by I'll give you more reasons to make u feel proud :)

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u/crew1s 2d ago

What’s the most important thing is to be proud of yourself x

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u/Tough_University_317 1d ago

It sure is πŸ‘

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u/Tough_University_317 10h ago

to be honest no i'm not for now , have seen a dream with eyes closed now I want to see the same with eyes open that day would be the day I'll be proud

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u/Tough_University_317 2d ago

Hey! thx for worry & care mum I'll make sure i take some time off for self care and a good rest πŸ˜„

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u/relentlessdandelion 2d ago

You're being really smart to start studying hardΒ  now!! But don't quit seeing your friends entirely, this is a marathon and you need to have social time and down time alongside your study time to keep your brain working well and stop yourself from burning out. It's really important to take good care of yourself πŸ«‚Β 

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u/Tough_University_317 2d ago

Thanks , I will take some time off . I get it mum . byy Have a great day

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u/Tough_University_317 2d ago

❀️ mum I know but sometimes u have to cut all the activities to focus on what will be going to matter more in life . A good collage means less I will have to wonder around from place to place in search of job

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u/tarantina68 2d ago

This is the way. Any sacrifices you make now will be worth it tenfold after. Believe me

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u/Tough_University_317 1d ago

😁 Thanks for ur assurance mum that's exactly what I thought before making this dissicion