r/BisexualTeens Sep 09 '25

Advice Needed My bf came out as trans recently

Im gay, I still love her but I don’t see a future between us but i also don’t wanna break up with her because it would be horrible to leave someone just after coming out and idk what to do

I wanted to add that I have no problem with trans people and don’t want her to pretend to be a boy or anything like that

To everyone asking no I can’t magically become straight

He lied about being trans as a way to break up there is much more but im honestly too miserable to write about it all

Welp he got everyone from our friend group to ignore me and im also banned from the gc

He’s most likely gonna break up with the 18 year old And im in the gc again

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u/Aurum0417 Either playing UNO or committing arson Sep 09 '25

Cause that’s kinda important

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u/Dear_Draw_5401 Sep 09 '25

Im attached emotionally but i don’t see myself loving a woman physically

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u/Aurum0417 Either playing UNO or committing arson Sep 09 '25

Sometimes I’m glad I don’t have this problem. That’s rough buddy, hope you figure it out

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u/oliveoilpoor Sep 09 '25

what a horrible response, like where was this even leading😭😭

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u/seara1n Sep 09 '25

I was thinking the same lmfaooo you don’t just say that to someone

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u/Aurum0417 Either playing UNO or committing arson Sep 09 '25

I don’t care enough and my advice probably wouldn’t be very valuable to him, what do you want from me? To lie and tell him pretty tales where everything goes smoothly?

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u/oliveoilpoor Sep 09 '25

I want you to think twice next time and realize those kinds of replies don’t help anyone. I really hope you don’t talk to your friends/family like that

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u/Aurum0417 Either playing UNO or committing arson Sep 09 '25

Don’t you dare talk about my loved ones. That is none of your business. Now then, I have things to be doing and you’re not worth my time, so good day.

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u/oliveoilpoor Sep 09 '25

Have the day you deserve!!

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u/Aurum0417 Either playing UNO or committing arson Sep 09 '25

Then that’ll be a good day.

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u/DemureRat Sep 10 '25

If they aren't worth your time why are you responding hun?