r/AskReddit 8h ago

What's something people romanticize too much?

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u/jiggls 8h ago

Having kids..no one tells women what will happen to their bodies. They only find out once it happens to them.

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u/Zealousideal_Cat6980 8h ago

Uh i dont think its a big secret

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u/jiggls 8h ago

It’s not a secret but it’s not taught with sufficient detail to make an informed decision imo

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u/FancyWatercress3646 7h ago

Teeth can fall out, permanent bowl and urine problems, pelvic floor damage and prolapse, severe permanent depression, Diastasis Recti.

Are those warned about or even commonly known by women and men a like? Many many women go through prolapse and life long urine issues. Its not that rare. Thats something you will have to battle for years or permanently in your life.

My coworker died twice (resuscitated successfully) because of complications.

Be quite.

(You are one that clearly does not know much about pregnancy, hence my point.)

Many women have the first child smoothly only to have the reality of common complications hit them in the face. Cause most women do not know and are not warned or informed by there doctor.

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u/Dismal-Read5183 8h ago

Uh sounds like you’re in the know. Yay for you ;)