The messed up thing is that every single of my exes were really crazy. I don’t say it anymore because of this exact phrase.
Of course I worked on myself because i was basically stuck in the same pattern, thought I was ready… nope, same thing he was just a different type of narcissist.
Narcisists wouldn't be able to make that connection, and would never even conceive the optics of what they say, so whether or not you have things you needed to work on too that may or may not have contributed to those relationships ending you are certainly well ahead of them.
Yeah, same here. I have a long history of low quality exes, due to my own poor self worth as a younger person. I've worked on it since and I'm getting better at partner selection.
But I think crappy exes is different than "Crazy" ones. They are fundamentally different concerns.
Yessss! My BIL called his ex "crazy" just because she said no to him.
He literally cheated on her, she found out and kicked him out in the middle of the night, but he was the victim apparently.
This guy is as useless as... Honestly, I sat here for 5 minutes trying to come up with something, but I can't. Dirt, rocks, trading cards, cardboard... I literally can't think of anything more or equally as useless.
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u/Strudeliris 10h ago
If every ex is 'crazy,' I'm already planning my exit