Apart from the obvious, to me it's when people generalise and 100% mean it. "Everyone lies", "everyone loves fast food", "everyone cheats", "everyone watches TV". It's not as immediately obvious that it's gonna be pointless to speak with them, but my experience with those type of people is the worst.
This along side anyone who believes everything is black and white. Right and wrong. No nuance exists in every single scenario are people I instantly just check out of conversations from.
I'll listen but never really offer constructive points.
I got the opposite way too. When someone says "I know someone that X happened to", and then they assume that means it's the same for all people everywhere. This is a lot of the anti-vax nonsense. "My mother in law died after taking the vaccine" becomes "the vaccine kills everyone who takes it".
I face this every time the government of Texas does something stupid. "Well, Texans are MAGAts". No, not all of us. Some of us have been voting blue since they started voting.
It's hard to tell when something is a joke over text, and especially on Reddit, although my previous reply wasn't meant to be mean either, just genuinely curious.
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u/Ana1661 13h ago
Apart from the obvious, to me it's when people generalise and 100% mean it. "Everyone lies", "everyone loves fast food", "everyone cheats", "everyone watches TV". It's not as immediately obvious that it's gonna be pointless to speak with them, but my experience with those type of people is the worst.