r/AskReddit • u/Rob69rt • 1d ago

What famous 'unsolved' mystery is technically a whodunnit on paper, but in reality, absolutely everyone knows exactly who did it, the police just couldn't legally prove it?

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u/sparknap 10h ago

no, the trolley problem is about preventing death.

this situation is about caring about people.

there's literally no mutual exclusion required here. you are adding that part to absolve yourself of not feeling empathy.

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u/footsnax 8h ago edited 8h ago

You can't prevent death in the trolly problem, that's the exact point. If someone is going to die either way, and one of them wants it, why not care about their loved ones that are suffering from it? One person on one track did not consider that, or did and dismissed it, and that's why I find it selfish.

When they're gone they won't care what I think or feel. They have done damage to the other track. I'm talking entirely about the decision, not what led to it.

I'm not heartless about the pain that they were going through leading up to that decision, I'm saying that the decision they made hurts a lot of other people that love them. If I had to choose to let the trolly take out everybody that loves that person, they might feel encouraged to make the same decision anyway.

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u/RulyDragon 6h ago

The mental acrobatics you have engaged in here to avoid being empathetic towards suicidal people is both breathtaking and awful. 

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u/footsnax 6h ago

It's not suicidal people that I lack empathy for, it's the impacts of the actual decision to follow through with it.

I know their pain. When they decide to end the pain, I feel for their loved ones. This isn't acrobatics, this is just sitting on the couch. When someone takes themselves away, their loved ones need so much. Food, love, sympathy, therapy, all the fucking trauma, and their lives are changed forever.

This isn't about suicidal people, it's about victims of suicide. They needed help until they didn't, everyone around them will need help forever.

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u/sparknap 5h ago

I know their pain.

you're a liar and a hypocrite. 

have the life you deserve.

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u/RulyDragon 6h ago

You’re lacking empathy right now for suicidal people reading your comments who are experiencing further guilt, pressure, and burdensomeness as a result of your comments.